| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here? Posted: 1/31/2006 2:46:21 PM | It would be helpful if the guys who send every woman about 50-100 XXX-mails everyday would Stop it. Most girls just don't want to wade through that stuff every day.
Those are all blocked. I think the limit is 5 cut and paste messages per day. | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here? Posted: 1/31/2006 4:38:35 PM | I think I've had three responses so far in a few months, after lots of posts to the forums too. I must have ugly pics :)
One woman was obviously just being polite and she didn't really seem to be responding to what i was saying. One was completely not what I was looking for, and the other was interesting and nice but not a great match and I got side tracked with responses from a different site where women actually send me messages (even without me sending them one first), so I sort of dropped the ball there.
To me this site is more of a forum than a dating site. | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here? Posted: 1/31/2006 9:45:33 PM | well apparently i wasnt gettin any messages ...cause my profile was hidden ...duh.... an i didnt even know it..no one said anything to me for over a year til today...i was imformed by the admin today..an thank you by the way...i got mail!!!!! woohoooo...lmao 
like i said..menus to big for u guys to make a choice..lol | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here? Posted: 2/1/2006 10:06:19 AM | Get plenty of e-mail and more than enough "first meetings." I very rarely write women first anymore. Instead I hang out in the forums and wait for women to write me. Funny thing is, none of the women in my area tend to use the forums, yet they're the ones who write.
Honestly though, even if I never got any coffee dates I'd still hang out just for the forums. | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here? Posted: 2/1/2006 10:11:45 AM | The first two months on here I couldn't even get a nibble, then since New Year's I've actually received a few messages a week from ladies making the first contact. It's a welcome change, though sadly I'm not attracted to most of the women that have contacted me thus far, but at least it's a start!
Now I just keep my eyes posted for attractive new fish as they tend to be easier to reach before they become several hundred men's favorite and my messages are lost amongst the deluge of cheap come-ons...  | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here? Posted: 2/1/2006 10:59:58 AM | | Actually...I have had better luck on here than I have with several of the other sites. I don't surf thru the forums. Just tossed a picture and a few lines together and BAM. Have only been on here for about 3 weeks. But I get several new messages every week. Talked to a couple of girls on the phone, but haven't gotten to the point where I want to meet up YET. | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here? Posted: 2/1/2006 10:08:52 PM | nope,nada,zip,zilch and i have sent out more than my share, I dont know whats wrong with my profile/pic I dont consider myself to be picky, I guess I'm a cave-troll or something
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here? Posted: 2/2/2006 9:33:44 AM | [/The fact is that all the other guys who are dumb ass's ruin it for everyone.]
How many people are over this guys house and when did they constitute everyone? No one ruins it for me BUT me. Sorry. Those delicate enough to lump me in with the WHOLE MALE RACE is just me being saved from psychotic women who couldn't think their way out of wet tissue paper. Cause any sane individual knows that no one represents everyone. And not all guys are like that last guy you dumpted. | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here? Posted: 2/2/2006 9:39:07 AM | | Okay, so far, I have had 120 correspondences with people on here since I started, just don't ask me when I started. It's been like 2 or 3 months. Now, if you count the people form my area? Ha Ha, that's a different story. Most are from a bazillion miles away. | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here? Posted: 2/2/2006 10:40:03 AM | | In my old username with my pics I got close to 80 notes. On an average, without checking my mail for a day, I got close to 40. I shut down the page with my pics on it...and now am much happier without the pics ! I think most men should be grateful for notes, however, be careful of what you wish for. I found that men asking me out on dates repeatedly on the first few notes and constantly wanting my phone number...and SWEARING AND YELLING at me for not giving them the time of day, was ENOUGH FOR ME! So, the solution is : NO PICS, NO HASSLE :) | |
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| Re: Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here? Posted: 2/2/2006 2:33:38 PM | Hi
I am a women and I have only got two replies since I have been on the sight. I am beginning to think this is just a big Joke. Not everyone who reads my profile can be turned off and if they are it is there loss. | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here? Posted: 2/2/2006 2:41:37 PM | | Hey dude I seem to get alot of messages somedays none and some days two or three. But not always from the type of girl im looking for. Maybe try and take the first step and send one first. | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here? Posted: 2/2/2006 2:46:56 PM | OKAY, SO HERE IS MY LAST TOPIC WITH A GIRL FROM THIS SITE THAT PERSON WHO'S NAME I WON'T MENTION BUT THE TOPIC WAS HIP HAP. HOP? AND I SAID THESE QUESTIONS TO HER OKAY? READY?
[/ ME: Hip Hop is your life? All that cussin and degrading women and killin each other and madness? w0w, not much of a life.
HER: hey, i appreciate ur comment, and its ur opinion, but id lyk if u kept those comment to ur d*mn self ok ]
AND, LOL, BECAUSE I DO NOT SHARE POPULAR OPINON AND SOME WOMEN CAN LIKE, HAVE A LINE OF GUYS WAITING ON THEM AND GO, "Yep, nope, nope, nope. " I got cussesd at. SEE?
So now she wants me to change already after ONE correspondence. I swear I am being censored. | |
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