| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 2/2/2006 2:56:59 PM | I'd worry more that she can't spell worth a shit Popsicle
Seriously ur.... cmon, if you can't take the time to present yourself well, what do you expect from her.
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 2/2/2006 3:07:01 PM | | 2 reply's so far. Two people have added me to the "Who Loves me" thing, well one took me off. What a name for a link. If your already feeling unloved that just might set you off the edge. Only one unread/deleted so far. I'm curious, is this a popularity contest with people to see who can get the most people on their list. Or is this a dating site for people to meet other's. Mind you, if everyone was getting lots of mail and had lots of people on their favourites. Then no one would have time to write in the forum. | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 2/2/2006 5:57:46 PM | | I get about 4-12 messages a day 2-5 new ones that i have wrote too and a few that i have written too but i have to admit it happens in spurts there seems to be about every ten days an influx of new ladies and thats when i get the most mail ...... I dont know if its the way some guys word their profiles or maybe just based on a pic or maybe your filters are set to strong who knows :) | |
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| Re: Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 2/2/2006 11:00:51 PM | | Just gotta have what it takes simple and plain. The best is when they message YOU, but its usually from a fugly. If you're the agressor chicks usually play the clueless,ignorant rule. ****in typical | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 2/2/2006 11:01:25 PM | hey!
im a women on this site, and i have been on here, a month maybe? i dont get heaps of messages.. maybe 20 different guys, and i have inniated contact myself to a few.. for which some haven't responded.
its not always easy, no matter what sex u are!
i dont know if my being in aussie affects this. i dont think there are as many aussies on here.. ..
if just one nice guy comes along.. between the enjoyment i get from reading profiles and the posts.. then its worth it.
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 2/2/2006 11:17:09 PM | | This thread makes me feel a lot better about my inbox. I get about 3-4 messages a day and I didn't think that was much since I hear of girls getting hundreds in a day. But seeing other guys who get hardly any, I don't feel as bad about the amount I get. I should probably take the advice and send out more messages too. I don't send out a whole lot. | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 2/3/2006 12:43:03 PM | i think most of the women on here have no desire or intensions of meeting anyone.and most of them judge you within one paragraph and have no idea who the person is they are rejecting.but i think they get off on it.good luck to everyone | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 2/7/2006 12:49:12 AM | | There are plenty of girls that make the leap and send out a message, however, depending on what your looking for, some girls just dont have the time to scan for new guys as they get way too many messages they're trying to dilter through. It never hurts to have your profile critiqued by some of the people doing profile reviews (forums)....I found the messages jumped in volume when i made some of these minor adjustments. | |
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kce33
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Joined: 6/2/2005
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 2/7/2006 3:27:56 AM | well, i have never counted my messages but i probley get 25 to 50 messages a day, depending on wether i have the time to reply but i also message on msn so i can not complain....
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 2/7/2006 3:47:26 AM |
i think most of the women on here have no desire or intensions of meeting anyone.and most of them judge you within one paragraph and have no idea who the person is they are rejecting.but i think they get off on it.good luck to everyone
hit the nail on the head there!!!!
a few women on here just want the ego boost of having messages telling them how much they are liked/loved/wanted etc etc
just wade past them & you'll soon get to the nice women waiting to meet you xx | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 2/7/2006 7:07:14 AM | "Just gotta have what it takes simple and plain. The best is when they message YOU, but its usually from a fugly. If you're the agressor chicks usually play the clueless,ignorant rule. ****in typical"
Gee isnt that nice, someone goes to the trouble to email someone, take a chance etc and its usually from a 'fugly' ? If youre so handsome and charming why the hell are you on here?
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 3/3/2006 3:01:22 PM | | I dont wanna be braging or anything just to let everyone know, but what you must consider is that women browse and they gotta see something they like first before they read the stickerprice. My secret, get a girl to take your photos, they know what they like and so will the other girls. I work hard for my body, but thats not everything these women are seeking, otherwise they'd just look at the beach. They want meaning and deeper thoughts. Be open, be honest. | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 12/7/2006 9:55:08 AM | | I answer all of the messages I get even if its just to say thanks but I am not interested. Girls like me that are just "average" have the same trouble as you guys. We dont get responses either. I think I am a pretty nice person and while I am not drop dead gorgeous, I think I am kind of cute. I get maybe 1 response for every 5-10 I send. So when y'all figure out what to do, share. There are some nice girls out here looking to meet people as well. | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 6/19/2007 9:24:55 AM | | Actually I don't know if it is all girls or just some of us... .We wait for you guys to message us... I browse and I'll look at guys but I wait for them to respond to me..... Of course it's mostly cause I'm shy and if a guy turned me down... I dunno, I just don't like the thought of it.... | |
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JustRo
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Joined: 12/4/2005
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 6/19/2007 9:35:43 AM | I get many, but as someone said... they come in spurts.. I don't usually send out messages first since many times restrictions stop me from doing so.
Ummm.. I didnt get any yesterday or today... WHATS UP WITH THAT...lol
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 6/19/2007 11:39:34 AM | I get a reasonable amount of messages.....from women 20 yrs. older that apparently can't read very well. Must be the prescription in their bifocals. 
Actually, those aren't half as disturbing as the youngsters......sorry, I want nothing to do w/ a 22 yr. old college girl. | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 6/19/2007 3:45:29 PM | | For me, I have contacted a lot of guys with pics, but never one without a posted pic. If they contact me first and include a pic, then I feel confident knowing, or at least seeing who I'm talking to. | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 6/19/2007 3:53:21 PM | FYI.
I have never gone out with someone that I did not email.
Why? I guess I know what kind of guy I like......lol or how to bait the hook, so to speak. So, if a woman writes to you, remember that your reply is the one chance that you get to impress her. If you do not care to impress her, then you probably won't. Women like creativity, and emails that do not sound like every other one that they get. Myself I like humor (not stupidity), and someone who takes the time to really read my profile and can carry on a stimulating conversation, even by email. I have never been attracted to men who come off as studs, are sexually aggressive, or seem stuck on themselves. | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 6/19/2007 3:57:49 PM | I do not get many but then again I am probably not MR. Right. I am thinking that my honesty hurts the hole process.
I really did not feel like putting on short fat and ugly so I did not, but my pictures I think are scaring them away any way. Go figure, the women always say they want you to be honest. Oh well what are you going to do with a free web site.
The ladies I have talked to all like to talk to me but are dating other guys from here.
Bye bye | |
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