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 Suburbsweethart

Joined: 7/16/2008
Msg: 351
Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 12/12/2008 10:45:34 AM
I know in my experience here sometimes I would get a lot of messages and other times nothing. I never tried to make my profile info very long..just stated the basics about me and let them know to contact me if interested. When I was looking on here there were times when I would contact someone and they would write back and some of them I still talk to on occasion, but then there were the ones who didn't write back at all but still looked at my profile repeatedly...never understood that. But as of now, since I am no longer looking and just here for the forums I of course get fewer messages, but on the occasion there are the select few who pay no mind to my stats or what I write and are just as some have said pic surfing and messaging.
 Loudadd2

Joined: 11/28/2008
Msg: 352
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Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 12/12/2008 9:45:33 PM
I haven't been on this site for long but I have received quite a few messages. In fact I have been contacted first more often than not.

Maybe I'm just fresh meat.
 matthew_in_mi

Joined: 7/6/2007
Msg: 353
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Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 12/13/2008 3:09:06 AM
I send out a lot of messages, but often get nothing in reply. I guess it might be due to my profile, a lot of women have made mention I'm a nut case or what have you. I think they missed the sarcasm, but anyway. I keep trying, for what it's worth.
 DELTA*DAWN

Joined: 9/11/2008
Msg: 354
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Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 12/21/2008 12:48:00 PM
as far as you not sending a first message.... well I think the guy "should" send the first message but I am a little old fashioned. Maybe it's different with this online dating that is all new to me. Been on here about 3 mths and only1 or 3 messages. I think there are lmore women than men and the men get far more choices of who they'd choose.
 DELTA*DAWN

Joined: 9/11/2008
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Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 12/21/2008 12:48:53 PM
as far as you not sending a first message.... well I think the guy "should" send the first message but I am a little old fashioned. Maybe it's different with this online dating that is all new to me. Been on here about 3 mths and only1 or 3 messages. I think there are lmore women than men and the men get far more choices of who they'd choose.
 Sensitive P. Ness

Joined: 12/15/2008
Msg: 356
Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 12/21/2008 12:51:37 PM
dixie has it bass ackwards! Men swamp the women!

I get my fair share of messages. I don't really send any out. I'm not into sending SPAM.

If a woman is into me, she'll say hi, or nice profile, or whatever.

It's the 21st century!

It's all fair game!
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