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| Re: Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here? Posted: 10/3/2004 5:34:03 PM | I've got one from a woman I'm mailing with now on regular basis. And another regular mail-contact on my initiative. And a few replies on messages. If you count them, it's not much. But I've found two realy nice new friends and THAT IS A LOT!!!! I go for the quality, not the quantity.
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silken
| Joined: 8/19/2004 Msg: 29 | |
| Re: Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here? Posted: 10/4/2004 4:36:38 PM | Well I've been on here approx. one month and I've received over 60 emails (a few have been from the same people so maybe from 25-40 guys?)
However I have sent out probably at least 20 messages (many of them replies but some I initiated) and several of the guys I have sent a message to did not respond.
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silken
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here? Posted: 10/4/2004 6:47:56 PM | Well, actually I have recieved quite a bit of emails with women wanting to chat with me or call me up. I have had.. lemme see here.. I would say close to 13 emails regarding women in the area wanting to talk with me or meet up with me. So I would have to say that I am gettin' more messages than with other sites. Each of them have been different person also. Sometimes its hard for me to keep track of who is emailing me..
Its fun though, all of these gals are beautiful and they are lookin for friends or more. So I guess I'm in the luck at the moment. Hope you all have as good luck with the messages as I have, and keep em cumin!  | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here? Posted: 10/5/2004 8:52:22 PM | Ive been here for 2 months and still have about 15 girls that Ive messaged that they havent even read their emails
Is there that many that havent logged in since then or are they fakes to attract people to sign up?
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| Re: Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here? Posted: 10/5/2004 9:14:16 PM | i don't get dat many i wanted to be wit 2 girls on this but they both didnt have time for me and one just lied to me so wateva and this other girl messaged me sayin she actually cares, heh , strange girls you never know who is bound to show up | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here? Posted: 10/5/2004 11:40:33 PM | | Ive been on only for a short time and though ive sent out a lot of Emails I have as yet not received any replies.Hope springs eternal though,Or so Ive benn told give it time and keep trying all good things come to he who waits .Okay thats the last corny saying from me,for a while anyway. | |
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silken
| Joined: 8/19/2004 Msg: 36 | |
| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here? Posted: 10/6/2004 11:29:14 AM | Just to prove you guys are not the only ones who don't get replies.... the last 3 men I have emailed have read my message and not responded. Funny too because I have talked to all of them before... who knows.
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here? Posted: 10/6/2004 11:45:19 AM | | Hi, you know I wouldn't say I get lots of messages...but I have meet quite a few great ladies and dated a couple....but maybe if your trying to hard....it looks like it...also I am not on here just to get a girl...there really are great ladies from all over.....I have meet some great friends here.... | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here? Posted: 10/6/2004 2:19:33 PM | | Ive received a lot of messages actually. Between the forums, and going into chat, if ya meet ppl and tend to be somewhat normal, ppl will talk to ya. Ive messaged ppl out of the blue and had pretty good luck at getting replys. But the gig is... dont message ppl and say stupid sh*t. Not many women want to hear about your desire to **** them... some may, but your odds arent real high. | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here? Posted: 10/6/2004 6:32:07 PM | depends on what you mean...
i think you meant "do women make the first move and contact you after reading your profile?" i've had just two of those. responded to one and she never contacted me back. the other and i chat occasionally. it's just not going to happen in the main. you need to make the first move.
some responses seem to think you mean just overall messages. in that case, i agree completely with crossfade. since i got involved in these forums, i've had a lot of messaging going back and forth - mostly just chit-chat stuff, surface-level, nothing serious. | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here? Posted: 10/6/2004 6:40:21 PM | | i haved all but two replyed to so i guess i am lucky to have been replyed to even if some were to say i was sorry if i had offended them in a posting.yes there are ladies who do reply here. | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here? Posted: 10/6/2004 7:00:31 PM | | I got my first message today after sending out about 30 of them. And this one was from a friend LOL It's GOTTA be the looks. Sh*t I was so ugly as a kid my mom used to feed me with a slingshot! LOL | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here? Posted: 10/6/2004 8:25:50 PM | Silken its funny you said that.....
I noticed there was a girl who has me on her favorites list(usally shows they like to talk to you)I was replying to her latest msg and I noticed that once she read it she just deleted it without replying.
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here? Posted: 10/7/2004 7:17:37 PM | | stupid is as stupid does, be nice be yourself, and you will be rewarded with the messages you really wanted to get, remember its the quality not quantity! by the way this is my first post here I love this site and free is always the best. I want to thank admin and all that make this site possible. | |
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| Re: Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here? Posted: 10/7/2004 11:14:49 PM | | Hey, I've got plenty of pics and a decent little description, too. What has it got me? Nothin' . . . well, one contact from a woman I didn't contact first. Of course, I will admit my personality isn't exactly a popular one in my area - I don't give a flying flip about rap music or money. Dallas isn't the best place to be with that outlook. Oh well, maybe I'll move to Canada . . . :P | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here? Posted: 10/8/2004 5:28:49 PM | Nope...
Rarely does any female make the first move. They are expecting us guys to do that... Then when we do they weed out who they want to respond too and ignore the rest. That's at least my take on the issue.
I'm still waiting for my first romantic interest mail or romantic interest reply. Hopefully someone is having better luck than me. I just come to the forums to learn and improve myself. I really don't think I'll ever find a cute woman who is decent and is interested in me on such websites. I feel the best ones are still out there in the real world and have no need of such things as a website to find a man... But that's only my $.02 | |
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