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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 12/8/2004 7:01:20 AM | | it is a bit depressing that the girls get all the messages and us guy,s are giving them so much the upper hand here on internet date sites.a girl will get 10 emails to a guy,s 1.and if the giel shows just a little clevage or any sexy pose she will get 20 to our 1.lol | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 12/8/2004 9:17:29 AM | I did some browsing the first few days I was on here... but have stopped. I've had almost everyone I contacted contact me back and several others... It's almost overwhelming actually. I'm not complaining...Keep em coming, but it's a lot to sift through.
Have you actually sent out any messages? Most people are at least kind enough to respond, unless you say something like , " hey, I'm married and all...but I'm looking for someone to meet with me on Friday afternoons to jump start what my wife ain't giving me." ( I'm not kidding...an actual message I received) For one thing, if your wife ain't giving you any, there is probably a reason! I don't even respond to those.
But, try emailing girls you think have similar interests.... Send out a hundred if you have to ..the odds only go up with the more you participate. Good Luck! | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 12/8/2004 9:17:48 AM | Joe those Russias are full of sh*t my friend went there to meet one they only wanna get married come here to divorse and leave you hey it happened to him like that. now hes a drunk  | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 12/8/2004 9:28:16 AM | i think it's to do with distance away, what you wrote in your profiles, the way you wrote to them men,
on your feet soldiers, write with confidnce and in a way of exspression, ne mean stuff unless the girl has a mean profile. start those fingers men. the more you send the more chance you have of getting one back, girls to talk to ther freinds alot, i might get a slap for saying this but gils have big mouths and thats why some people have been getting emails from girls they havent written to. even we men talk, but not all men.
even girls should follow this, but hey it might work it might not, only one way to find out. | |
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WS6TA
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Joined: 4/26/2004
Msg: 185 | |
| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 12/8/2004 12:50:41 PM | Heck I'd be willing to settle for anything:
friendship
romance
Long term
short term
a night fling
And still I get no mail.... I'd even wear the pirate outfit just to be a little kinky if it would help  | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 12/8/2004 1:42:38 PM | Good question. I am fairly new here....maybe a couple weeks at best. I have received one email from someone in the States (I am in Canada). I was happy to get that email because I am not against just talking with someone, though the goal is to eventually meet someone.
I have sent a few emails. A couple were just to say hi and pass along a compliment, the others were actual "applications". You know what really irked me? I pay a compliment, state I realize I do not fit the criteria but just wanted to say hi just the same, and my message history reads a list of "read deleted". C'mon now. I took the time to say hi, the least they could do is nod and say hi back. Maybe these ladies are inundated with mail and don't respond to anything but potential prospects, I don't know. It's not like I am rude or anything.
Anyways, I digress. I think more men respond to mails and the ladies just repond. I agree with another person who answered this string; you have to give to receive. I say keep throwing in your line and eventually you'll get a nibble. If not, perhaps online dating isn't for you. I doubt it is for me, but hey, I'll keep at it a bit and see what happens.
Good luck to all and the best to you and yours.
Randy | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 12/8/2004 1:49:17 PM | | Only one, and that was from a foreign lady who said she was in a big hurry to get married. But that's OK; I'm used to it. The only way to meet women in my town is to go to church, but that's a bit of a problem for a non-believer like me. So if no women write to me, it will just be more of the same. Not a problem. The nice thing about being single, and without a girlfriend, is that you can do whatever you want, whenever you want. There's a lot to be said for that. | |
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| Re: Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 12/8/2004 5:31:57 PM | Arachnoid - But what if there aren't "100" women on here that you think you'd have interest in? Or they have things narrowed (as you once did) so that they are off limits? And, not to be argumentative... but no, "most" do not reply... most ignore... and more than a few just "unread delete" you... very sad... Oh well... seems I have found someone that thinks I am worth conversing with ;-)
Later... | |
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| Re: Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 12/8/2004 5:51:55 PM | sure.
depends what you mean by alot.
essentially everyone i've messaged has messaged me back at least once. those who haven't, well they are a waste of my time.
i did have one unread deleted once, burn! | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 1/9/2005 1:13:44 PM | | msged 40 girls 4 days ago and I think only 4 or 5 of them responded. And then I msged those 5 girls and 2 of them responded. This is really sad. I'm not sure what these girls are looking for, but their never going to find it if they are this picky. | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 1/9/2005 1:15:27 PM | I used to see a lot of read deleted, but now I am becoming familiar with a new demon. It's called the Unread deleted. Their becoming more popular with me.
Just warning you guys. | |
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navy4u
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Joined: 5/1/2004
Msg: 199 | |
| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 1/9/2005 1:42:28 PM | | when i was first on here no i didnt recieve a lot of emails but when i got on the forums and putting myself out there, i have recieved many! I think being on the forums and letting your personality come out is the best way to get emails....searches suck!...lol | |
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| Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted: 9/18/2005 5:12:54 PM | | Seems this is more popular in canada, but I have gotten some responses to emails. But mostly I am just here to exchange messages, make friends. Some women don't like that. Those are the ones that I stop emailing. I am looking for someone more independent, willing to take their time getting to know me. Plus I just got this puppy dog and I am going crazy trying to figure out how to deal with him! But the best thing you can do is to add some lightness to your profile. Some humor helps, goofiness, too. Chicks want to be entertained. | |
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