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 djpapparitchey

Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 201
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Posted: 9/18/2005 5:27:27 PM
Want more post? Arrange a POF get-together. They'll knock you out!!
Going to get-togethers helps you get to know more folks in da hood and some tend to MSG then later. Happy Fishing
 scarletletter

Joined: 7/29/2005
Msg: 202
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Posted: 9/18/2005 7:04:46 PM
Same here..I get tons of emails but I send alot also...and you have to want to do this and hoping to find mr. or mrs. smith if you know what I mean...you may find them or you may never...whatever you do ..never take online stuff personally.

It might take 200 emails before the one clicks.

Never give up
 BlondeBabe40ish

Joined: 9/8/2005
Msg: 203
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Posted: 9/18/2005 9:55:48 PM
Hey guys, it might help, if when you join, you have a clear bright pic of yourself and when you write to someone, put a subject in instead of leaving that boring one that is already in the space..Just my opinion..It might help.. Sweet Addiction
 bakedsalmon

Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 204
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Posted: 9/23/2005 8:12:19 PM
except for those from the freaky stalker type, I don't think so...
 ShadowKnight59

Joined: 9/18/2005
Msg: 205
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Posted: 9/23/2005 8:35:09 PM
Nary a one, but then I haven't been here long.
 know life

Joined: 9/7/2005
Msg: 206
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Posted: 9/24/2005 9:29:44 AM
ive been here for a month or so and ive got 2. i swear chicks hate my f'n guts
 nergal

Joined: 5/12/2005
Msg: 207
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Posted: 9/24/2005 9:34:32 AM
I swop a lot of emails with various women on the site, all friendly chit chat really and a spot of banter, it helps pass the time.
 Raiderfan24

Joined: 11/14/2004
Msg: 208
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Posted: 9/24/2005 11:05:40 AM
WHat I hate is the ones that email you for awhile then they just stop and disappear what the Fu** is that.
 Iron Wolf

Joined: 10/11/2004
Msg: 209
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Posted: 9/24/2005 11:20:01 AM
No, I don't, but with me, it's about quality...not quantity. I'm looking for one...not 101.
 lips1002

Joined: 12/10/2005
Msg: 210
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Posted: 1/26/2006 12:36:33 PM
i think women get alot more messages espescially if they're hot.i really think women don't do a whole lot of messaging because they like to be chased but i could be wrong.am i?
 soulasylum

Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 211
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Posted: 1/26/2006 1:37:04 PM
After reading most of the guys responses to this thread combined with my own experiences I am quickly coming to the conclusion this site is really a waste of time in terms of looking for a significant other. Really what this site is is simply a chat forum and message board, period. Is mind boggling how many people spend a month or even year and only get one or two or a handful of messages. The chances of meeting someone in a bar are almost guaranteed within two weeks. Like I say, this site is a message board and forum for people to chat, that's all.
 TechnoBear

Joined: 11/10/2004
Msg: 212
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Posted: 1/26/2006 1:47:42 PM
I really can't explain why at all, but, yes, I do get more than my fair share. I guess I'm just lucky for once. I received about 20 new contact messages from ladies last October!

Go figure.
 TechnoBear

Joined: 11/10/2004
Msg: 213
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Posted: 1/26/2006 1:51:07 PM

The chances of meeting someone in a bar are almost guaranteed within two weeks.


I am not a bar person. Never have been and never will be. I could have a buff body, Robert Redford looks, be dressed as a firefighter, and be throwong money around, and never even have the flower-selling girl approach me!
 lips1002

Joined: 12/10/2005
Msg: 214
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Posted: 1/30/2006 12:26:21 PM
i agree.it is a message board.i wonder how many guys actually even meet any women in person.especially the really hot women.i don't think they really need a site like this to meet men.they can meet them anywhere.just walking down the street.i do meet some women on here but that is as far as it goes.
 thegreatrockyhill

Joined: 12/26/2005
Msg: 215
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Posted: 1/30/2006 6:53:59 PM
I haven't been on the site long and I've gotten a few.
 Admin

Joined: 3/27/2001
Msg: 216
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Posted: 1/30/2006 9:48:19 PM
Women make first contact 26% of the time in canada.

Women on average contact men that have 631 letters or spaces in their description field. Men contact women with a average of 506 letters or spaces in their description field.
 arri

Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 217
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Posted: 1/30/2006 9:53:11 PM
^^^ so .. to get mail .. one needs to cut and paste a copy of war and peace in the profile .. got it
 daylillies

Joined: 9/26/2005
Msg: 218
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Posted: 1/30/2006 10:01:40 PM
depends what ur restrictions are ....
 chevy529

Joined: 12/14/2005
Msg: 219
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Posted: 1/30/2006 11:39:46 PM
@arri

That was priceless!
 Popsicleman

Joined: 12/22/2005
Msg: 220
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Posted: 1/30/2006 11:52:09 PM
We are supposed to get messages on here? Why didn't someone tell me that? I thought I was just supposed to write to women and hope they will pick me.
 princess-b

Joined: 11/29/2005
Msg: 221
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Posted: 1/31/2006 6:22:13 AM
i imagine the women get more mail than the men do and i know i get my fair share but i also send them out to men - particularly those with interesting well written profiles - so some men must be getting them!
 Hams007

Joined: 12/22/2005
Msg: 222
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Posted: 1/31/2006 6:42:09 AM
The last message i got on here was in the year 1972,I printed it,framed it and hung it on the wall

 nipoleon

Joined: 12/27/2005
Msg: 223
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Posted: 1/31/2006 12:08:37 PM
It would be helpful if the guys who send every woman about 50-100 XXX-mails everyday would Stop it. Most girls just don't want to wade through that stuff every day.
Then the serious, sencere guys could have a chance of getting noticed.
The fact is that all the other guys who are dumb ass's ruin it for everyone.
 Bandito

Joined: 11/9/2005
Msg: 224
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Posted: 1/31/2006 12:50:29 PM
I send out about 4-5 messages a day and get back about the same number. The messages are normally to friends or people that actively post in the forum. I do very few intro type e-mails on a weekly basis, perhaps 1 or 2 and I normally get back responses to them too.

The trick is to be very selective and then very pointed in your e-mail. Being creative, funny, warm and non-threatening also helps.
 panthers45

Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 225
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Posted: 1/31/2006 12:55:28 PM
I have been on plenty of fish for almost 2 weeks now and I have recieved over 200 e-mails. Up until a week ago I only had about 20, but after I posted a picture, I got a much better response.
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