| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 6/1/2008 7:46:01 PM | I have it. The real reason Men Overlook Good Women. Women are to hard to figure OUT If they were as easy as men we would'nt be in this Predicament Come on Ladys get as simple as guys | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 6/1/2008 8:03:28 PM | | you say most people are more into the looks than anything else....welll....i think that MEN are more that way,but maybe a small percentage of women could be that way too....i think women are more emotional and look for the man that will make them feel good inside...and looks does not really matter ...bc women see with their hearts...... and not their eyes .... as men tend to do | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 6/1/2008 9:41:23 PM | ....i think women are more emotional and look for the man that will make them feel good inside...and looks does not really matter ...bc women see with their hearts...... and not their eyes .... as men tend to do
Hmmm... I sure have seen a lot of threads on here from Short, Bald, Fat , lower class, Men who would defenaltly say otherwise... PEOPLE like things that appeal to them. Do women lust after the Brad Pitts, Mathew MCconuheys, LL Cool J's, Justin Timberlake's, George Clooney's and the Mat Damon's of the world because of how "Good" these guys make them feel inside I think not.. If anything guys like Bruce Bruce, Jack Black, Danny Devito are all funny great guys, who can make anyone laugh and feel good. But I don't see ladies lust'n after them type of guys..
Yes men are very visual and yes MOST men ar gonna go for the "Barbie doll knock out" the " Prom Queen" Eye Candy" Trophy Girl" whatever you wanna call it. However what I don't like is that when a guy does go for these types of women its viewd as being shallow. Also how come if a girl is drop dead georgeous its automatically assumed that she's a mean, stuck up Bytch?? Why can't a drop dead georgeous lady also be the "Good" Woman ?? Why does the " Good "Woman always have to be the plane jane or the Big Lady ??
As far as Fat goes.. Fat is unattractive PERIOD. The only type of people that I know of that PURPOSELY try to get fat are Summo wrestlers. Everyone knows its unatractive wich is why the dieting busniess has sky rocketed over the past 20 years. People are try'n to bust their butts to get in shape, shed pounds, shed fat. Cosmedic surgery is at a all time high from people try'n to get rid of FAT. Being fat doesn't automaticaly mean a person eats too much, even though here in the States thats often the case. But it could also be from just a bad choice of foods or beverages. Only a FRACTION very very small percent I don't remember the exact number but I know it was in single digets, are overweight do to health issues... If your Fat, then your Fat !! I don't know why its such a big deal. Those are the choices YOU made. What you want to do with your body is your busniess and nobody elses. Its almost to the point where call'n someone fat is worst then call'n them a racial slure. If you turn the tables, do you think buff guys such as your Vin Disel's , LL Cool J, Brad Pits , most professinal athletes, get that way by accident ? No its the lifestyle they live and the CHOICES they make. You don't come out your mothers womb all jacked up with muscles LOL.. Nor do you come out full of fat... Well maybe some "Baby fat".
Life is about choices.. You should be free to choose who you want to date, and free to eat whatever you want when you want and how much of it you want... I've been to countries where there's barley any food to eat, and it SUX.. I've been to countries where your PARENTS pre- arrange your Marriage... THAT SUX!! So lets enjoy the liberties that we have and remember the ones who have faught so hard to give us these liberties...  | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 6/1/2008 9:58:28 PM | | Like I just answered in a previous post. Dating is a sale. Some people are natural salesmen/women. Sometimes having a great product is not enough. You have to have great presintaion and advertising. I hate to put it that cold but it is. | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 6/1/2008 10:46:28 PM | | Triumvirat, who cares? If you're not attracted to someone who's overweight that's fine, but saying there's no reason for anyone to be fat, who are you to dictate what everyone should be like? There are overweight women and men who are attractive, if you don't see it, well that's up to you but I'll have you know that there are people out there (of all body types) who prefer a partner with meat on their bones. If you're going to say that good men and women don't do anything to make themselves attractive, that's a load of crap. As far as I'm concerned, you and Masked_Hero can get together and fat bash all you want, the world doesn't revolve around you (and I thank god for that). | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 6/2/2008 6:39:23 AM | | Yeah why do men overlook good women? I have a question for anyone who cares to answer it. A guy starts seeing a woman, 9 weeks later his ex gets broken into. He then goes to stay at ex's. After 1st night he visits woman he's seeing, tells her where he is. Then adds when challenged as to whether he would go back with ex. "He doesnt do second chances" but then adds but he did go back to his job he'd left previously. He tells woman he would only be at ex's 1 more night to make sure his child was ok. but then woman finds his car outside her house 3 times more in that week. when emailed he claims his actions are totally innocent but doesnt bother to go make sure she's ok and continues to stay at ex's for a week in total. Then leaves it for another week before he decides to go see woman he's upset. By this time womans in quandry over him and decides she doesnt want to see him. This guy btw has another child which 1st mother knows nothing about. Man admits she's the only one he lies too. Was woman right to dump him? | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 6/2/2008 1:04:19 PM | I don't think men overlook good women as women don't overlook good men. I believe it all has to do with timing and being ready to make a commitment.
Men and women both say "I want a good person" but I do believe we all want the naughty and nice in the person we commit to. | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 6/2/2008 4:24:50 PM | | AustinTyler - First whhat is a definition of a "GOOD woman or man? I am sure you would come up about 40 things all diffeent from someone elses definition. Is she\he good as in (nice personality, sweet - etc.) or is she\he Good if you get my drift. You either click or you don't no matter how good or bad you are. I hope this is the last thread that asks that question. | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 6/2/2008 4:33:52 PM | | formulasfataltotheflesh After looking at your profile I can see why you don't get any mail. Woman are probably wondering is this what he is going to be doing in his 40's or will he get a real job - lol | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 6/2/2008 4:41:14 PM | | Jim33903 it was refreshing to hear what someone our age had to say. My post also said the same thing. I guess you have to live a while before you get it right huh - lol | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 6/2/2008 6:12:36 PM | | This is a stupid question. If the women were "good" like you said they were, they wouldn't be overlooked and the problem solved. Obviously they are flawed and thus "undateable" as is the consensus. Same with "good" men. I'd guess the problem is being needy or too open. | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 6/3/2008 3:33:49 AM | | "bc women see with their hearts.....and not their eyes"....yeah that's why they like jerks and therapy patients so much...with all the women here complaining about their player bf and wandering husbands maybe they should s use their brains for a change...being addicted to feelings is no better than being addicted to anything else. | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 6/3/2008 3:53:37 AM | | sometimes men think pretty women are out of their league, so they dont bother. not to mention the fact that they are not sure if you have a boyfriend. i had many hot girls in school i thought were to cute and sexy for me, later on, i found out many would have dated me.... wish i knew that back then... but thats the major point.... | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 6/3/2008 4:42:50 AM | | Many women who BELIEVE they are Good Women may not fit that category to many men. This applies the other way around as well. It's like the people who claim they are intelligent but cannot write a sentence using proper grammar. | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 6/3/2008 4:46:55 AM | | Mr. Internet has got it exactly right. If you are not the most attractive woman in the bar/club, just have fun. Be open, playful. Dance. Some men are shy. Ask guys to dance. Don't got out looking for a man. Go out looking to have fun. People are drawn to people who are fun. That is one thing I learned in the swinging lifestyle. Have fun with your spouse/sig other. People will flock to you. So, if you go out, have fun. If you go out with a friend, do not let them sabotage what ever may happen. I have seen it many times where one girl has found a guy that is interested in her, and the friend will interfer. Be yourself. | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 6/3/2008 4:55:37 AM | you say most people are more into the looks than anything else....welll....i think that MEN are more that way,but maybe a small percentage of women could be that way too....i think women are more emotional and look for the man that will make them feel good inside...and looks does not really matter ...bc women see with their hearts...... and not their eyes .... as men tend to do
Men are turned on by what they see.
Women are turned on by what they hear.
(Like if they hear he has money)
How many times have you seen the hottie with the ugly rich guy?????
You can intrigue and for lack of a better word "capture" a woman by sparking her imagination. I was told Casanova said. "Tell a beautiful woman she is brilliant, and a brilliant woman she is beautiful. Women ALWAYS want what they don't have, or want to be what they don't feel they are.
Disagreement anyone? | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 6/3/2008 5:06:11 AM | I agree with the person that asked, what is a good man or woman??
I think that everyone has their own ideas about what it takes to be the good man or woman that an individual would except to be their other half.
To me it would be someone who either has a place to live and wants me to share their life with them , or would want to move here to be with me in my place and share in my life..
Either way I wouldn't want to become a burden on someone and wouldn't want anyone to become a burden on me..
We both would need to be willing to share life without trying to dominate the other..
But would also need to let the other have enough space to breath..
I go to camp with others at large gatherings and enjoy nature and music.
If she didn't enjoy those things,, we probably wouldn't be a good match.. | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 6/3/2008 6:36:09 AM |
Women ALWAYS want what they don't have, or want to be what they don't feel they are.
It may be true in some cases but not in all. Some women just like to be appreciated for being the goddesses they are just as some men like being appreciated for being the gods they are. My two cents. :-) | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 6/3/2008 9:18:22 AM |
This question is a comeback question to all of the men who keep asking the eternal question, "why do women overlook good men?" and so on and so forth. I have heard it a million times before and I have sympathized many times providing the best advice I could give. However, I would like to know "why is it that men overlook good women?" Because remember, the question {and the situation} goes both ways. I know "good men" who also have issues in their closet and have a hard time holding on to a good woman due to their own issues. So let's talk about that.
Because looks mean a whole lot to men, even more than women. If a girl is pretty, men will love them for it and not look at the rest of the package. | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 6/3/2008 10:55:29 AM | Pamperpooch000, they say brevity is the soul of wit. I think you just proved it. Thats a very insiteful, honest and correct.
Because 'good' isn't necessarily sexy, and people are attracted to sexy people. I'm not just talking about appearance, I'm talking about attitude. Good is too complying IMO. | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 6/3/2008 11:10:07 AM | The reason men overlook good women is because they are not very bright
its proven to me everyday. | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 6/3/2008 11:29:28 AM | I dunno, when you find the answer why women overlook good guys let me know!
Must be the lust and money factor at play.    | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 6/3/2008 11:40:36 AM | | Because people only guide themselves upon appearance, you have to learn the virtues of a person before starting anything. | |
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