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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 8/8/2008 4:57:14 PM | Men do NOT overlook "good" women!! However,they may NOT run across them.
What is a "Good" Woman, and by whose standards?
Really now--Who says that you are a 'good' woman? If you ARE a 'good' woman,
why are you NOT still happily married to a 'good' man??
A 'good' cook, is only a 'good' cook, if you like what he/she cooks==DUH !! Contemplate what was written on one of these forums...but, not Me !
Stupid women, ask:
" why do men only care about sex???"
Posted somewhere: 6/12/08
The reason is obvious!
Men like to talk about the following in order of importance.
1=Sports 50% == The Female brain shuts down!
2= Cars 20% == The Female brain shuts down!
3= Handyman projects 10% = The Female brain shuts down!
4= Politics 10% == The Female brain shuts down!
5= Travel 5% == The Female brain shows some interest.
6= Sex = 5% == The Female brain goes ballistic!
7= Hunting== FORGET THAT !!WHERE DID SHE GO?
So the girls THINK that men ONLY talk about sex! DUH!! Ladies, it's because 'your' brains disengage when men talk about their favourite topics. A man can talk about his favorite topics for hours and the only time the female brain engages is if he mentions the size of the cheerleaders tits! Or yours...
Think about it ! It happens to be 'ALL' your own fault. Too, women dress provocatively, and then 'wonder' why men look, and want touch! DUH!! Wake up--girls. You tease, and tease--set the trap....then get mad,hurt,confused when men want to be pleased!
AND, KNOW THIS ! We men know the score! We know exactly what you are up to. You say you aren't into games. Bull S...!! Don't run that one on us!! Women are the ones playing games!! You are the ones that demand to 'control' --'IF' & when there is going to be sex---it is ALWAYS YOUR CHOOSING. Think about it. Men have to spend a small fortune just to get to know you, not to mention the time involved. And, Ladies-most of you are better off financially than most men.,thanks to some other unfortunate man!!
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One man's 'Answer' to "Where are all the "Good Men"?
Found on a "Love Thread", someplace..?
Note: I did NOT write this.
Although I share a lot of his views !!
~~Some Women Ask---"Where are all the good guys?"
I'll tell ya. A " lot " of us good men, are sitting back, with what "dignity" we have "left", comtemplating "why", a " lot " of women, "say" that they "want" a "good man", when in "reality", all those
( 'good men'= seeking women ) are going to do once they "get" us, is cheat on us with the "bad men !". Women say they want a "good man", but yet, they can't seem to "handle" being treated "good"... DUH------ I guess you're so use to being treated bad, that you can't accept someone who will be good to you, and "that" is so very, very "S A D" !!!
You "want" us, but when you "have" us, you screw us over, time and time again. It's almost like you would rather "be with" someone who is going to treat you like Shit, use you as a damn "punching-bag", talk bad about you to all of their friends, hide things from you, etc.etc.,blah, blah, blah......
I "personally", just can't fathom "Why" a lot of "women", want men to be so bad to them. "Some" of you "MUST LIKE" men to beat the crap out of you, or cheat on you....
Now I know most of you will say,,"that's b/s, but really now, sit down and think " REAL DEEP" about it;
Have you ever "had" a "good man" ? If you answered "yes", then WHY= aren't you still with him?
If you have a "truly good man", then "he" will "not" cheat on you, because "true" good men , actually "C A R E" about "YOUR FEELINGS", so ( for the "most" part ) you can't use "cheating" as an answer. "Good men", treat people with "respect", "kindness", and "appreciation", so It would be somewhat "hard" for me to believe that- "
" well, he didn't treat me right, or good", "he CHEATED on me", he called me names, he hides his feelings( or information,etc.etc.)
"Wake up--He wasn't a good man=in the first place!!
Because I know a lot about how "good men", treat "people". I'm one of them; but we get tired of falling for someone who "says" they "want" us, but "act" in a different fashon, and insult our feelings, pride, and intelligence. So, If you "had" a "good man", and "lost" him, then 9 times out of 10, you were NOT a "good woman", and you deserved losing him. And he "surely" is better off "without" someone who is "FAKE and FLAKE".
It's no wonder "some" of you can't seem to find us...
You can't open you eyes, mind, OR HEART.
Most of the time, we are right here under you nose, but in order to "see" us,
you will have to take your "head out of the CLOUDS." And get RID of those yippy
little dogs. Did yore EX have one?--I didn't think so----wonder why?
And you're home alone---wonder why?
Good Luck, God Bless.
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 8/8/2008 5:22:08 PM | Hi ISHTAR38,
Here ya go.....
I think that You have a totally wrong attitude about men, Gal.
For every whoremonger, there is a "good" woman involved--duh!
Takes two to Tango. Not all men are thinking only about sex..
It's the women that write about SEX , in their profiles!! We men get very -
let's say 'Torqued' when catagorized, that way. They read like a broken record!!
You might try this.....
~~Single, seeking a Relationship~~P.O.F.
Find someone who knows the Lord, someone you can be friends with forever, someone who knows what love is and knows how to love, someone who is giving & caring, someone you can have some fun with, someone you enjoy talking to, someone that supports you but does not enable you, someone who will compromise, a person that speaks words of affirmation and encouragement, that is compassionate, that is clothed with humility, that does not gossip or slander, someone who prefers you over themselves, and someone that will pray together with you.
…….and then be that person yourself. You have to do the hard work. Look, look,
search, cull, look some more!!  | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 8/8/2008 6:35:37 PM |
Lust!!!
I agree. It is the lust of the bad boy, of the boy that is****, that flirts with you, that does not make himself readily available all the time. The person that plays hard to get, that is elusive. For some reason, this proves to be very attractive, and I have been noticing it myself, even though I am not the greatest, nor the tallest guy around.
As a test, I stopped going to my favorite karaoke. I did it for about three weeks. Then I started acting mysterious. All these girls were asking me what was going on with me, why wasn't I coming, why was I so strange all of a sudden. There was all this sudden attention that I did not enjoy before. Why, because I wasn't buying drinks to every woman I knew, because I stopped coming, because I was playing hard to get.
For some reason, not being easy instigates certain actions on the opposite sex. It makes you more attractive and therefore they seek you more... | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 8/8/2008 6:49:29 PM | | I'm as picky as a woman. lol. I DID do the shallow hal thing though one day and REALLy tried to get off my outer fixation or whatever...monkey shine breeding whatever...here's what I found...you could KINDA tell who is less desirable. | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 8/8/2008 7:30:33 PM | | Good women should try wearing high heels men who are real tall only see them when it's too late. | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 8/8/2008 11:09:14 PM | For the same reason Women Overlook Good Men...
Chemistry, Lust and Sheer Ignorance... put 30 years on a life . What we're missing.
The stronger of the 2 gets to get the walker and open the door !
Aaww , Thanks Honey Now thats TRUE LOVE!  | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 8/9/2008 7:26:53 PM | ...Like it or not, there has to be mutual physical attraction, along with great communication and emotional chemistry, for a relationship to last. I've spent 17 years in two LTR, and neither relationship would have lasted a week if we weren't physically attracted to each other.
This may sound harsh, but speaking as a man, I want to come home to be with a woman that totally turns me on. I want to be with someone that makes me want to rush home just to be with her. To share what happened in our days, to kiss and nibble on each other, and lots of things I will leave to your imagination. 
IMHO, a good man will never cheat if he's with the right woman, and this includes a strong physical attraction to her. | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 8/10/2008 12:06:49 AM | Here is my 2 cents
As you said it goes both ways man can not hold on to good women and vise versa, but here is why i think that is, becouse there are more bad women and man out there, the good women and men are out numberd a good women or man is more likely to find a bad women or man we all just need to keep looking, and i can not say which one i am i suppose it depends on who you ask , which is the case with most people in the world alls i can say is keep looking your bound to find a good man for you.
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 8/10/2008 12:22:27 AM | I think attraction does play a big part of it, but should not be what you base a relationship on, how many times have you heard the guys select the pretty thin blondes, only to hear they ran off with another guy... sorry boys what does that tell you.
when i was a teenager there were lots of sexy guys about, know your lucky if you can find 5. | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 8/10/2008 11:23:26 AM | | Hard to say.My own experiences tell me that i get plenty of women looking at my profile,but not may out of those will send me a message. Unless my profile's really unappealing,which i like to think it's not,then it's my looks,i'm not the most handsome chap,to say the least. And when i do get a date,sometimes nerves can overcome me,so they're not getting me at my best. I laways make allowances for that kind of thing,why can't others? I'm always getting told i'm such a nice,caring,funny guy(not my words!)and i feel i have a lot to give the right lady. Who knows what the answer is? | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 8/10/2008 11:46:11 AM | To put a whole bunch of concepts in a nutshell... it's because something inside prevents them from seeking/ noticing them.
It's that simple. | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 8/10/2008 11:52:19 AM | to BOB2013,
YOU HAVE AMAZING INSIGHT ON THE SUBJECT.THAT EXPLAINS ALOT OF WHAT I HAVE EXPERIENCED ON THIS SITE. PEOPLE WHO CAN NOT LOOK PAST THE PHYSICAL APPEAL TO FIND OUT WHAT IS IN THE CORE OF A
PERSON.
HOPING TO SEE MORE OF YOUR COMMENTS ON THE SITE. | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 8/10/2008 12:11:10 PM | rennaissance man."On what basis, if not physical attraction"....How about getting to know women on the basis on interests and intelligence??..What about seeing if she likes history, travel, science, sports, the outdoors,hiking, swimming ,photography, cooking?..Im an average in attractiveness, size 12 and I do ALL of those things..Why does it always have to be looks that are the deciding factor?...Im not saying to date an unattractive woman but be more inclusive about other chracteristics too
You are wrong about average looking women being more miserable than gorgeous women, especially when those size 6 model beauties are young...Ive been around plenty of 20 something women who are stunning physically but are drama queens and whine and complain about everything while us older ones can chill out and not sweat the small stuff.. | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 8/10/2008 12:31:50 PM | | I believe I am going to agree with "mthomjmark" and I also believe it works both ways folks. If you plan to fail, then you fail to plan....simple. | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 8/10/2008 12:49:24 PM | | here's my experience..35yr old sbw..no kids..never been married..have my own job and transportation...and im always overlooked. my last relationship last 3wks..he was a gr8 funny..good looking guy..the type of man i've always wanted to find..things were going good and boom..he breaks up with me by EMAIL telling me another woman from his past whom he promised 1yr ago became available and he wanted to give it a 2nd chance..so i guess i have to become a **** to find a good man. | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 8/10/2008 1:48:35 PM | | funny my friend and I were talking about this tonight,and I think men like a challange,from what I have seen the ones who play around with mens emotions,seem to be better thought of,,seems you got to play hard to get play games to keep someone interested,thats one of the reasons am still single,because if i have to treat them mean to keep them kean then they are are not right for me,is there something wrong with treating men well,starting to think its better to be a ****! | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 8/10/2008 2:15:27 PM | RENAISSAINCE MAN1950-
sorry i wasn't aware you couldn't use capital letters,also to let you know i am not angry or rude,and i'm not shouting.i am not here to offend anyone,this is just my point of view.sorry if thats how you interpet it. | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 8/10/2008 2:20:20 PM | My Boyfriend always dated cold hearted ****es... beautiful, but ****es. He says I'm the first women to ever be consistantly nice to him... But I asked him one wine soaked evening, why guys like ****es?... And he said, "They can't be controlled, there's something about that..."
I think, sometimes, when you're nice... there's sort of a confusion that occurs. Guys tend to think you're weak, or a doormat.. or something.. I am neither of those thing, and all the guys I had dated in the past learned that I am nice, until you dis me, and then I'm gone... And most of the guys I split from were really shocked at how, when they screwed up -- in a big way -- I walked without a second glance backwards. They thought they could talk their way back, or I would forgive.. but never go back, there's just no point. Once someone's done the unforgivable, that means you can't forgive it.
So there's this idea that if you're nice you're sort of too easy... no challange... when WE ALL have to realize -- men and women -- at some point (took my guy 43 years ... and possibly counting) is that the really "hard to get ones" are the nice ones. Because most guys know, there's a LOT of ****es out there... and they're not that exciting once you've got them. | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 8/10/2008 3:17:50 PM | I am sure many people will disagree with me, but here goes, WTH.
I think good people in general are in short supply in our culture because we do not value them. It seems sometimes they are hard to find. They may be quiet, unassuming types who do not "stand out".
"We" as a society seem to worship vacuus hollywood types. We are barraged by the media on a daily basis by these images. Another point may be that the most beautiful people inside may not be in the most attractive packages.
Many people who face hardships grow as people as the result of them. They may become more sensitive to other people for example. Real beauty comes from the inside out.
The most physically beautiful people are given preferential treatment in many ways. In some ways this prevents them from spiritual and personal growth.
Another point is that I think we are all programmed to be attractive to a certain "type".
We are driven by our physical needs. My preference in women is not what the media hypes.
So if you can identify with any of this email me. Jim | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 8/10/2008 7:03:30 PM | ...If physical attraction isn't that important, why do successful POF profiles always include pictures?
Humans are all visually oriented, it's part of our nature. ( especially men, just look at the ratio of men to women photographers/cinematographers, it's more than 20 to 1 )
It's part of our biology, and this isn't going to change no matter how much you want it to... | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 8/10/2008 7:09:01 PM | Im beginning to feel that noone takes dating seriously anymore, or at least maybe not on online dating?....
It seems like dating is just a game and its a matter of whos going to win or lose...
I have asked myself this question before as well, but it does seem to come down to looks it really does. If you have the perfect body, ect. then your worth dating, if not they move on. | |
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| Why Do Men Overlook Good Women?
Posted: 8/10/2008 7:44:34 PM | | i agree most of them cant see the inner beauty not just outer beauty. For me it's the really old men over 40 answering my ads like i want a grandpa figure no thanks im only 28 also im an incredible girl but all the great guys dont want great girls they want bad girls and rebels never a sweet lovable girl who cares and is faithfull sucks royally the phrase nice guys finish last doesnt compare to great girls never get the great man they only get heartaches and headaches never true love wheres my knight in shining armor wheres my long term love eh. | |
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