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| Why do men dump women for someone whose soooo NASTY? Posted: 5/21/2008 8:05:16 AM | | you women with all do respect dont nkow didley.for the hundreth time it has nothing to do with looks.if his emotional needs are being met hes happy.as far as you being happy about seeing her stating she was ugly remember he chose her over you so for me i wouldnt be happy at all. | |
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| Why do men dump women for someone whose soooo NASTY? Posted: 5/21/2008 7:02:22 PM | | I like nasty women, with their slathered on make-up and not-found-in-nature hair color, spangly bling, bras loaded for bear, and sumpin' sumpin' fragrance recalling lilacs and Butterfinger bars. Because they treat this mortal coil as the first thing handy grabbed to cover up stepping from the shower to answer the door, and, upon seeing the hunger in your eyes, let it fall open with a smile saying, Eat, Baby, have your fill! | |
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| Why do men dump women for someone whose soooo NASTY? Posted: 5/21/2008 10:27:49 PM | Argument #1 for a nasty chick: does she put out?
Argument #2 for a nasty chick: does the original hot chick put out?
Argument #3 for a nasty chick: how high are the chances Hot Chick will catch me with Nasty Chick?
Argument #4 for a nasty chick: how low are the chances Hot Chick will totally dig it and join in? The odds on this one are painfully low, but it's still worth doing the math.
Argument #5 for a nasty chick: could have low self-esteem. Might put out.
Come on, gal! He's a guy.
It still baffles me how few women understand the economics of human reproduction. Women have a limited commodity that is in high demand. You can't be reckless, because the economics of your choices include nine months of pregnancy, the terrible twos and teenage angst.
Men simply don't pay the same price as women for reckless sexual behavior. And even when we do pay an awful price, such as an STD, it's treated as a funny story and not much more. We're practically applauded for screwing nasty chicks, because it reinforces how virile and reckless we are. You guys have to be careful about screwing nasty guys, because in nine months a clone of the nasty guy might crawl out of you. | |
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| Why do men dump women for someone whose soooo NASTY? Posted: 5/21/2008 10:35:19 PM | It's a well-known fact that ugly women do it like they're grateful.
Gratitude is an attractive quality, and women tend to get on their knees when they want to say "thanks" with sincerity.
OP, there are no "nasty" women; there are only "catty" women who have "nasty" ways of dealing with being rejected. | |
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| Why do men dump women for someone whose soooo NASTY? Posted: 5/22/2008 12:50:41 AM | Hah! It's a well-known MYTH!
Ugly women are just as emotional, self-serving, needy, jealous, spiteful and close-kneed as those less ugly.
They just don't expect as much attention and care, so there's less griping and general moping about how lousy or insensitive the dude is. They hate him just as much when he's a jerk.
There are NO free rides. When nasty girl gets dumped, she will post here, too. "Why do men dump women for fake women in a video game." BTW the answer to that one is because the game is always ready.
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| Why do men dump women for someone whose soooo NASTY? Posted: 5/22/2008 2:02:10 AM | i'm torn between these two schools of thought now.
On the one hand there are Molesworth's eloquent words about ugly chicks gladly fellating me if I feign interest in them, but what if someone catches me with them....and should I really be so lazy this late in the game
and then there is wackmc, who says it's not worth the trouble of closing my eyes and letting them, because ultimately all women are selfish manipulative scum, they just happen to be low maintenance scum...I might as well go for a pretty one.
is there a third option? How about a pretty girl, who thinks she is ghastly, who will be just as subservient as her ugly competitors.
Who here has low self esteem in my area? I have a proposition for you... | |
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| Why do men dump women for someone whose soooo NASTY? Posted: 5/22/2008 2:56:13 AM | Post 36: "...It's a well-known fact that ugly women do it like they're grateful...."
Actually, it is a well known myth. What holds more is that beautiful women tend to be lazy in the sack. And real nasty women are real "nasty" in bed!
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| Why do men dump women for someone whose soooo NASTY? Posted: 5/22/2008 11:30:31 AM |
My ex fiancee' broke up with me on New Year's Day 2007. I know so get over it, you say. That's not the point right now though. He through me out of his house over a video game!
Hey, never come between a man and his Halo or GTA. That's a death wish waiting to happen. Just kidding. Hey, some guys are douche bags. There's no doubt about it. The problem I see with a lot of complaints about guys is that they're identical to the complaints about women a lot of times. The problems don't just surface overnight. There had to have been SOME signs of what was to come. You should've saw them and gotten rid of him as soon as you did. Just take this as a learning experience. If you meet another guy like him then you'll know to run for the hills.
He has been seen lately with an older women, nothing wrong with that I am 14 years older than him.
And you're complaining about how he kicked you out over a game? Sweetheart, when you date someone way younger than you the chances of crap like that happening is much higher. Next time, try to go for your age group. That way, at least you'd only have to worry about getting kicked out over football...
Toooo much make-up, to much hairspray alot of fake bling my 5yr. old grand-daughter wouldn't wear.
Once again, check out the quote from you that I put above this one. You were with someone 14 years younger than you are. Assuming he's a decently younger person there's a good chance he'd go for that type of woman. Not criticizing you. In fact, I'm criticizing him. Some guys will go for women like the one you're referring to like idiots.
So what's up with that guy's? Has any of you guy's ever done THAT? Why? Just Why? I have nothing against Polish men, in fact I prefer them, just not now.
Goodness knows it isn't just the Polish. Believe me on that one. What's up with that? Nothing special. I say it's both genders that'll pull some crap like that or something similar. You just gotta know the person you're with and do a thorough screening process. When I date a girl I ask her all the questions in the world. That way, it'll eliminate the excuse of, "well, you didn't ask." Get to know the person more in-depth before you go for them. Furthermore, date people in your own age range. Relationships like that have a much higher probability of lasting for some reason. Hey, at least that's what the numbers say. | |
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| Why do men dump women for someone whose soooo NASTY? Posted: 5/22/2008 2:53:57 PM | OP, you mention "early retirement" in your profile, perhaps he could be one of those guys who wants a "sugar mama" and she was able to "ante up" more than you. Far fetching? Possibly, but just a thought.  | |
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| Why do men dump women for someone whose soooo NASTY? Posted: 5/22/2008 8:22:54 PM | A very few men fail to appreciate a good woman and dump her for some absoloute beech. (BTW you havent proved to me that you are anything better than his present one so tread carefully there)
Quite a few more women dump good men (whimps in thier language) for wife bashers, and then spend the rest of thier lives howling about what baa baa baarstards men are. | |
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| Why do men dump women for someone whose soooo NASTY? Posted: 5/22/2008 9:40:47 PM |
and then there is wackmc, who says it's not worth the trouble of closing my eyes and letting them, because ultimately all women are selfish manipulative scum, they just happen to be low maintenance scum...I might as well go for a pretty one.
is there a third option? How about a pretty girl, who thinks she is ghastly, who will be just as subservient as her ugly competitors.
I've been misquoted!!! I didn't say all women are scum! And I definitely didn't say it wasn't worth the trouble! I just said the emotional reactions are the same, but the behaviors are different.
Your Third Option is viable, but understand I never said "subserviant" either! I said they complain less, that does not infer they'll do whatever you ask. They might just walk away without a word. | |
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| Why do men dump women for someone whose soooo NASTY? Posted: 5/23/2008 6:44:57 AM | I've seen it done, but never done it. Of course, I'm thoroughly convinced that in situations like yours, women see exactly what they want to and not reality. I have moved on to some insanely hot women, and had the ex tell friends that she was nasty.  | |
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| Why do men dump women for someone whose soooo NASTY? Posted: 5/23/2008 3:49:41 PM | I understand the compulsion to look at the new flame in a critical way..especially with the way they look.
But the fact is...he broke up with you for one of his own mysterious reasons. She had something that he liked. It may have been something you lacked. It may just have been something he liked totally outside of comparison to you.
But it's no longer about you...You don't factor into his life, and so...you should do your best to cut him out of yours to the best of your ability.
No sense in hating on someone who won't hear and doesn't care. It only damages you. | |
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| Why do men dump women for someone whose soooo NASTY? Posted: 5/23/2008 8:43:20 PM |
There are so many possibilities; without knowing your ex, how could we possibly guess why he left you? But you can bet on one thing: torturing yourself overanalyzing probably won't help much.
No, no, no, AZgradstudent, you missed the point. EVERY MAN is like this. She was asking why MEN do this, so we must all do this, right? Or no?
Call it what it is, it's a pity post and really not worthy of responding to and probably should have been deleted, but we've all given it life by posting. I guess I'm just as guilty, although I'm really trying to avoid responding directly to the question. | |
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