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 passionandsong

Joined: 10/9/2007
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Posted: 5/27/2008 8:39:38 AM
actually i am quite able to be friends with someone that has informed me that they are not attracted to me.it depends on the relationship though.if i see them everyday,or have already realzed a friendship ,no problem.however if i just asked you to dance and had a chat over a few drinks.probably not so much.
 Zentimes

Joined: 12/31/2006
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Posted: 5/28/2008 6:36:38 PM
Most men are EGOmaniacs believing that if a female should smile & says hello its an indication that she's turned on by our pressence -- Guess most of us males are somewhat socially challenged.
 lonekthx

Joined: 4/4/2008
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Posted: 5/28/2008 6:45:17 PM
It doesn't matter what you look like, what kind of job you have, how smart you are. People have different tastes. I don't want a woman that's high-maintenance no matter what she looks like, what kind of job she has, etc. I know what I want and I'm going to find the right woman. I can't tell what kind of guy you like just by looking at you, so I'm probably going to come up and try to initiate a conversation. If I get rejected then whatever. I'll wait for the next woman to walk in that catches my eye. It's not that I instantly think you want me if you smile at me or say hello, but I'm going to take that chance and start talking to you and flirting a little. Nothing wrong with that!
 sometimes-miss

Joined: 8/29/2007
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Posted: 5/29/2008 9:39:45 AM
Women go on and on about how they want a 'confident' man, and then complain when we are. You tell us that 'looks shouldn't matter', then complain about the attractiveness of the women we do approach; should we only go after women that we don't find attractive? That would be pretty stupid, don't you think? Women tell us that they aren't the 'shallow'ones, that you have to get to know us first, so when we chat you up so you CAN get to know us and maybe become attracted to us, you complain about that too. We don't expect to 'turn you on' to new things; we have interests of our own, and invite you to come into our lives and experience the things that we enjoy, and if you enjoy them too, your life will be enriched by it. Have I answered your questions, OP?
 passionandsong

Joined: 10/9/2007
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Posted: 5/29/2008 10:26:47 AM
Women go on and on about how they want a 'confident' man, and then complain when we are. You tell us that 'looks shouldn't matter', then complain about the attractiveness of the women we do approach; should we only go after women that we don't find attractive? That would be pretty stupid, don't you think? Women tell us that they aren't the 'shallow'ones, that you have to get to know us first, so when we chat you up so you CAN get to know us and maybe become attracted to us, you complain about that too. We don't expect to 'turn you on' to new things; we have interests of our own, and invite you to come into our lives and experience the things that we enjoy, and if you enjoy them too, your life will be enriched by it. Have I answered your questions, OP?

so you have managed to put together many different opinnions of different women and applied it to what the majority of women think.interesting concept.now time for the public verbal whipping.enjoy.
 WonkaBar

Joined: 2/3/2006
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Posted: 5/29/2008 11:11:26 AM
so you have managed to put together many different opinnions of different women and applied it to what the majority of women think.interesting concept.


Except that it's pretty much true, in that it's impossible to get a general idea of what we're supposed to do in terms of approaching people.

It's a complete coin flip - I see on the forums day in and day out younger women complaining about older men sending them messages, so I don't contact younger women, no matter how interesting they seem... then I get a first contact E-mail from a girl ten years younger than me.

The real question is, are snotty attitudes like that displayed in the OP the majority, or the minority? Depending on how many of them you've met, your answer will vary.

Anyway, to literally answer the question posed in the subject... no, men don't think. We're just dicks with legs. Next topic!
 Triumvirat

Joined: 5/12/2008
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Posted: 5/29/2008 4:04:13 PM
Op....do all women think thay are attractive no matter how fat and ugly they are ?
Do all women think that no matter how much baggage and B.S they bring into a man's life he should be happy with it ?
Do all women understand that they get the best deal because money doesn't get old,fat and cranky ?
 July Morning

Joined: 5/21/2008
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Posted: 5/29/2008 7:35:18 PM
"Do men really think that every woman wants him regardless to what he looks like or what kind of job he has or how smart he is????"

You overestimate men. Some of us don't have a job, we're not smart, and are invisible. And yes, we think all women want us.

"Do men seek women right across them looks wise or do they try to take as many steps up as they can?"

All men start at the top and work their way down. That's why good looking women are looked at by all, whereever they go. That's why the poor, ugly unemployed never get married. They have their standards, and they simply refuse to marry a newt.

"Do men think they can talk a woman into being sexually attacted to them???" You bet.

"Also do men really want to have anything in common with the woman they are dating..."

No, guys want nothing in common with the woman they're dating. The guys want the woman, that's their interest. They want the woman to be interested in exactly the other thing.

"...or do they think they will turn her on to a couple of new things???"

The new things that all guys want to turn their dates on to are despicable, base, unnatural acts. Women know way ahead of time what these acts are, they expect the man's eager and enthusiastic expectations, and it's a turn-off for most women.
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