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 BeerShark

Joined: 10/5/2006
Msg: 51
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Posted: 5/23/2008 5:19:39 PM
Let me be alittle less sarcastic for a moment. I do know a little about the health risks involved in cheating. A very dear friend of mine almost lost her life to PID because her no good husband [now ex] couldn't be bothered to wash between trists. In fact he did it intentionaly because he found it a turn on to come home and nail her soon after having had boned his lover. Something about creating a spiritual bond betwen the two girls.
 quirkyfishy

Joined: 5/6/2008
Msg: 52
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Posted: 5/23/2008 5:24:12 PM
Something about creating a spiritual bond betwen the two girls.

Oh, that is the excuse they are coming up with these days, huh...
 *Babydoll272*

Joined: 9/8/2006
Msg: 53
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Posted: 5/23/2008 6:37:11 PM
This has been the most hilarious and entertaining thread that I've read in ages. I really needed a good laugh...thanks, especially to you Deuce. Your comments are a little crude , h*ll...lots crude but I hear ya.

Now I've heard it all ...
 The Ace in the Hole

Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 54
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Posted: 5/23/2008 9:00:53 PM
What's crude about bumping zee uglies?! Well, aside from everything...NOTHING. It may seem dirty but the genital areas are one of hte most sanitary areas on the body, with urine acting as a natural disinfectant.
 Silver Calla

Joined: 4/10/2008
Msg: 55
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Posted: 5/23/2008 11:53:32 PM
^^^^So Deucey, does urine cleanse sperm from a vagina? I thought urine came out of the urethra...maybe you could write a medical journal with your groundbreaking new view of the human body?


My spelling of "sno-ball" was, you know, like the snack, as in snacking on another dudes spooge. Get it? Your ASSumption that I may be ignorant is probably due to trying to read between the lines instead of reading what is actually written.

Actually, I didn't once call you ignorant, nor suggest you were. You are the only one who said it.
Using (sic) is my choice if I would like to use it in my posts so the words I am using myself and the quotes I am using from another poster are consistent with my writing style.


And my whatever comment was about your attitude and your ASSumption that I did not care about STD's. When the OP makes statements like,"why not just drink the sperm right out of the vagina", sounds like he is targeting the "ICK" factor not the health factor. That is what I was addressing.

Actually, you are really ASSuming (look, "dude", I can do it too!) here. You made multiple ASSumptions in this thread, first on the OP, and then on me. The "ICK" factor of this OP is a means of expressing the disgusting nature of cheating, nothing more.


Please stop ASSuming you know anything about me. Oh now I get it. You're ONLY 23. If I read between the lines I can see you think you know everything!

As Ace and His Ho told you, you ASSume a lot about me for someone who likes the word ASSumption so much. And yes, of course the only logic says, because I'm "23", I MUST "think I know everything!", right?
 The Ace in the Hole

Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 56
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Posted: 5/24/2008 1:46:50 AM
If you look closely Snapdragon I never said the vagina was the most sanitary spot. I said this whole area, both male and female, is. Urine is ultra sterile. And I won't even validate that question with a response, as we all know it doesn't have any affect on the swimmers.

Where's the OP in all this? Maybe he can reign in on the swap meet theory some more, and maybe give us his take on the whole thing.
 The Danger Zone

Joined: 4/22/2008
Msg: 57
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Posted: 5/26/2008 1:05:05 PM
^^^The purpose of the thread Deuce is to see who might and who might not consider something like this when they entertain the idea of cheating... My take is if a person is not bothered by it then more than likely will lend insight into their personal views on cheating and how likely they are....

Sorta like the old saying: Denial... First sign of Guilt!!!
 tuckerjo

Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 58
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Posted: 5/27/2008 6:07:13 PM
Urine is ultra sterile



Actually this is a myth and really should stop being spread about as if it were fact. Urine while it is in the bladder is sterile , once it passes through the urethra it is no longer sterile. And as for the entire area between your genitals to your anus being the cleanest place on a human body, wrong again. Feces is extremely filthy and no matter how long or how well you wipe yourself there are always trace amounts of feces lingering in that area.


There is no excuse for cheating. Anyone who goes out and cheats does not deserve to be taken back. If you relationship is that terrible that you feel the need to cheat then get the heck out of it or fix it.
 tinydancer123

Joined: 3/3/2007
Msg: 59
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Posted: 5/27/2008 6:14:33 PM
OP

Your post is brutally honest and to the bone. I think you are being very realistic. That's exactly what happens. It's disgusting.
 SunsetStorm

Joined: 5/27/2007
Msg: 60
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Posted: 5/27/2008 6:32:58 PM


I love It but Im sprised there hasnt been a ton of In Denial losers who got back with the second hand guzzler coming on In defensive denial

Totally true but - and worded In a realistic way - not some denial factor way by someone getting cash to convince the cheatee the cheater was trying to make up for something lacking.

No Id never be with someone once they cheated = trust me the odds are the same as you winning lotto tommorow that It was the first time or will EVER be the last. You just finally got to see the real person for a glimpse that they normally hide from you.

And of course you lick sip and suck the other person - niiiiice

Once cheated = forever out of my life = let someone else live like a second hand sucker If they want - but It WONT be me
 Sharzi

Joined: 10/6/2007
Msg: 61
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Posted: 5/27/2008 6:50:34 PM
tallirish wrote:

****** i would like to think that if a woman is cheating,i doubt VERY seriously that they would have sex with someone and turn right around and jump on the person they are with within a few minutes or even hours ******

I used to know someone (friend of a friend) who was cheating on her husband for years. One night she started "giving lessons" to everyone and one of the things she said.... "make sure you close your eyes and "F" the crap out of your husband while thinking of your lover before you leave to go meet the lover. You'll keep your husband from thinking there is anything wrong, and you'll get even more excited to be with the lover."

She would have a makeout session with her husband or have sex with him just before leaving the house only to keep him from wondering what she was doing. She would pamper him, treat him like he was the love of her life and all the while, she was sleeping with someone else. Around other people she would pretend he was the most special man in her life, but to the girls, she couldn't stand him touching her.

She had no intentions of leaving the security she had, but she felt unfulfilled sexually with her husband so felt perfectly justified in looking for it elsewhere.

Personally, not only do I think cheating is unforgiveable, but hanging onto someone just so they keep you in the style you've become accustomed while getting it on the side, is disgusting! And what she was doing.... something a person without a conscience has no trouble doing.

Sharzi
 skyydancerdreaming

Joined: 11/15/2007
Msg: 62
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Posted: 5/27/2008 6:51:17 PM

^^^And would gargling be good enough for you to kiss a woman who just got done swallowing another guys load?

No, but at least she wouldn't smell like scrotum.


OMG, I'm still laughing at the answer!! This is the funniest thread I think I've ever read. The OP is brutally honest (and correct), but some of the replies have me practically spitting out my mocha in between swallows. Oops! I said swallow -- well, it's my mocha, so I don't have to gargle and rinse.
 mthomjmark

Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 63
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Posted: 5/27/2008 7:04:00 PM
You have way too much time on your hands but thanks.
 Javan2

Joined: 7/9/2005
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Posted: 5/27/2008 7:21:30 PM
This is why most Brothers don't go down on women and would rather just have them as friends with bennies. We catch hell for it, but I see some seem to be coming along. No pun intended ........... LOL !!!
 The Danger Zone

Joined: 4/22/2008
Msg: 65
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Posted: 5/27/2008 7:30:42 PM
^^^Javan2, do you kiss those friends with bennies? Do you get oral off those friends with bennies? Don't you think they have more than "1" friend with bennies if they have you?

So you get yours oral to oral instead of vagina to oral... Same thing!!!
 jazz555

Joined: 4/21/2008
Msg: 66
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Posted: 5/27/2008 7:32:49 PM
Wow I was enjoying my Fudge cookies a min. ago now that and the milk is all over my computer screen.
 LabLite

Joined: 12/14/2007
Msg: 67
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Posted: 5/27/2008 7:34:29 PM
So lablite, what you are saying is, if I was dating and committed to you, which will NEVER happen between us because of your position on this subject, you would find it ok that I went and slept with other partners, as long as I used soap? Since your so open to the idea, I'd just do her right in our bed. How's that?

And since you are so open to the idea as long as soap is used, could you please use that soap both internally and externally anywhere that might have been penetrated with a body part or fluid... I hope you like the taste, because that's what your suggesting!!

One more thing LabLite, does soap get rid of STD's like: HIV, Herpes, Syphillis, Ghonorea, Chlamydia?




OP

I wouldnt find it OK, but if you had a shower and USED soap I'm pretty sure I wouldnt know and wouldn't be thinking of it as I was giving you a BJ .

I have never been in the middle of sex and had thoughts of him being with someone else before. Who would wanna even think that? And I hope the hell it doesnt come to mind the next time.
 Silver Calla

Joined: 4/10/2008
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Posted: 5/27/2008 7:49:17 PM
^^^^I'm so confused...are people ignoring that the thread is about cheating, not about how every partner you ever have sex with (obviously assuming they are not virgins) will indeed have been with other partners in the past, or are people just not reading the thread? It's so hard to tell sometimes...
 BeerShark

Joined: 10/5/2006
Msg: 69
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Posted: 5/27/2008 10:13:38 PM
Maybe people just don't see it from the same point of view as you. Maybe people don't think about it the same way you do. Yes, the situation that you and Danger Zone present in the OP is gross and disgusting. Perhaps, if you were trying to make a point about the health risks involved, you should have been more explicit. And yes, while it is disgusting and gross, apparently most people think that is tertiary to both the health risks and the emotional turmoil of cheating.
 The Danger Zone

Joined: 4/22/2008
Msg: 70
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Posted: 5/27/2008 10:25:11 PM
I'm confused here BS.... In your 1st 2 posts to this thread you joked about this topic.... Then you came back saying a friend almost died because her spouse cheated...

Now, you are saying the health risk is tertiary...

Now, I am the OP on this... And I am concerned about the physical/mental/emotional aspects of this subject... That's why I did not post a specific "explicit" direction for the thread. Rather I left it open to different opinions so that it might evolve in whatever direction people chose to take it...

Now to imply that I conspired with another member in the posting of this thread is both insulting to me and a defamation of my character. All who know me on here know that I post on my own and allow others to post in whatever manner/direction they choose without my guidance. I'm curious as to where this comes from, this accusation if you will.

As far as the topic goes... I personally find it disgusting on all aspects and as I said long ago, people responses often will show their personal views on cheating... Me thinks your flip flopping on this topic shows your true colors...

But what do I know, I'm just a Financial Marketing Analyst... Not nearly as educated as you!!!
 BeerShark

Joined: 10/5/2006
Msg: 71
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Posted: 5/27/2008 11:03:03 PM
1] I never joked about it.
2] I never said the health risk was tertiary to the grossness. In fact I said exactly the opposite
3] I never accused you of a conspiracy, I did imply that you and another member worked together on the original post. As to where that came from is from the messages we exchanged recently. Since I messaged her and you replied, using her screen name, I believe it is safe to suggest that this thread is a team effort.
4] If you truly wish to allow others to post in what ever manner/direction they wish, why then do the two of you attack me when I post my opinion.
5]I've never claimed to more educated then anyone else here.
6] I stand by what I said in my first thread, I think you have issues.


I'm good, Quirky, just shruggin' off some of the arrows being tossed my way.
 quirkyfishy

Joined: 5/6/2008
Msg: 72
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Posted: 5/27/2008 11:16:00 PM
Me thinks Beershark need someone to come help him relax a little....
 Just_Another_Gurl

Joined: 3/27/2006
Msg: 73
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Posted: 5/28/2008 3:21:05 AM
I have always thought about that when it came to finding out my man was cheating on me. Not knowing made it even more offensive and repulsive because I know for a fact (although not at the time) that my man slept with me mere hours after he had slept with his fling. To know I was in contact with some chicks poon made me so absolutely grossed out and sick to my stomach!!! I don't understand how people can even think about touching their mate after being with another! My ex is just lucky I never caught anything because I would be in jail right now for murder!
 custis

Joined: 3/16/2005
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Posted: 5/28/2008 3:46:43 AM
"Are you just sour because you drank some dude's load?"

(Gagging horribly, eyeballs bulging, face turning purple while tongue protrudes and quivers like a popsicle stick in a hurricane wind.) Man, you paint a pretty picture.
 The Ace in the Hole

Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 75
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Posted: 5/28/2008 9:43:20 AM
^^^I'm all about affect.

Me thinks Sharky needs a beer! Relax cool cat... no one is targeting you or your posts for any reason other than the content of them. You have neglected to see the intended purpose of this thread or the meaning of the OP's message, and for your ignorance on this issue you pass blame. It's alright to not understand it but then you should either walk away from that argument or ask for some embellishment.

In Beershark's defense he said:

while it is disgusting and gross, apparently most people think that is tertiary to both the health risks and the emotional turmoil of cheating
...meaning OTHER people find the ick factor tertiary to both the health and emotional factors. Wait a minute..... Beershark, me thinks you are your own worst enemy and you've just explained and supported the one thing you are lobbying against, unknowingingly, because of a poor choice of words. Consider going over that statement again for your sake.

You are not attacked for your views. Your views have holes in them that the posters see, as they some of them have been like holding a cheese grater up to the sun and hoping for shade. They are glaring, like the one above.

Everything here is all casual, friendly banter and thick skin is always required in debates, because not everyone will agree or laud your views or opinions. Let's all play ball nicely!
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