| Drinking the cheater...
Posted: 5/28/2008 10:06:29 AM | actually, OP, my thoughts are it's far more likely to happen in the world outside of committed (or uncommitted in the committed) world of relationships...
meaning, isn't it the casual daters and fwb and multi dating and multi sexual people that are single that your thoughts would be more likely or possible than the cheating world?!
and i say that because i thought most cheaters are hiding their cheating - so doing everything in their power to hide the smell, taste on or in any of their orifices of their other lover.....and in fact, i thought often cheating meant you actually are not making love to your spouse/couple usually, or rarely....and never when you've just been with your 'cheatee'.
so, 1. i don't think this is nearly as likely to happen in the cheating world as you are thinking - quite the reverse actually.
2. i really think your post is more appropriate for the sex threads than here and i'm surprised it was not deleted, but you wrapped it in the 'cheating' wrapper (perhaps so it would get more attention?)
3. and, human nature, if you warn us that this is graphic in detail, how many of us just could not close it and move on, but had to look to see what he was talking about?
4. is it too much to say, 'thanks for sharing'?  
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| Drinking the cheater...
Posted: 5/28/2008 10:20:30 AM |
CHEATING IS DESGUSTING AND UNNACCEPTABLE. I would never put up with someone cheating on me. And if the b*tch hes banging behind my back KNOWS hes my man and screws him anyways ill smash her teeth in. In this day and age HIV is to f'ing common to be screwing around.
xchaosx--- if he bangs another benind your back he aint YOUR MAN anymore and going to smash her teeth is very immature, like the post sais...YOUR MAN most likey would have told her that you guys are splitting up and not having sex....
About the HIV, instead of risking a lawsuit for smashing in her teeth you should dump his sorry ass cause he would put you at risk for HIV by 'screwing another chick behind your back.
Just a thought.
I agree on cheating is discusting and unacceptable and I would dump him as soon as I found out and there would be no taking him back. EVER! | |
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| Drinking the cheater...
Posted: 5/28/2008 10:40:13 AM |
OMG This topic is hilarious. What about threesomes? If you were one of the males in a male male female threesome, how would you feel about kissing the girl after the other guy has been in her mouth (this being done knowingly)?
I think this is all about sticking your head in the sand and not thinking about the naughty bits splashing around.
Whethr or not it's cheating, a 3 some or moresome... or just a girl/guy that's had a lot of sex partners, no one really wants to think about all the liquids being exchanged. Whether or not it's recent or took place a few weeks, months or years ago... it still happened... | |
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| Drinking the cheater...
Posted: 5/28/2008 10:54:34 AM | | cheaters are losers. never give a cheater a second chance. its pointless. | |
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| Drinking the cheater...
Posted: 5/29/2008 8:31:06 PM | Tuckerjo,
Urine IS a sterile substance, and there's no myth here. I never said the anus was clean or sterile. It stinks! And the smells the crotch produces are not the most pleasant but they aren't nearly as bacteria-laden as the mouth. Urine works to cleanse these areas. And last time I checked people don't sh1t from their browneye to their bellybutton. | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 10:02:18 PM | I have never denied that urine itself is sterile because it is. Once the urine passes through the urethra it is no longer sterile. Also although urine is normally sterile it can get contaminated through bacteria on the skin and the genitals on its way out. Did you know that even just farting will cause trace amounts of feces to exit you anus and distribute itself around your genitals? Hey if you don't believe me go make an appointement with your doctor and ask him or her.
So you see this is why it's a half truth at best that urine is sterile and that it sanitizes your genitals. | |
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Posted: 5/30/2008 7:19:41 AM | | Once it exits the body it is contaminated by airborne particles. Men don't really have this issue with hygiene that women do because our bits are exposed and allowed to breath, not to mention only a bit of the tip of the penis is exposed to urine. Women have much more "area" to work with there and as such the urine asks as a disinfectant on initial contact. People think that because women pee and don't wash right away that the area is dirty. It's not. This is the point I'm trying to make. | |
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| Drinking the cheater...
Posted: 6/30/2008 12:33:38 PM | my feeling on this OP is if u know someone is cheating on u or cheated dont bother with them so u dont have to deal with discusting problem  | |
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| Drinking the cheater...
Posted: 6/30/2008 5:23:43 PM | This thread should be linked with one (if there is one) "Should I take a cheater back" or refer anyone who asks you that question to this one.
For me, at least, nothing will kill the love quicker, kill the second thought should I take him back faster than to stop and think of all the places his manhood was put before he came back to you! Ditto for men asking should I or shouldn't I take her back. | |
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Posted: 6/30/2008 5:44:52 PM | | Yeah, when a guy takes a woman back after she's slept with others (ie durng a breakup or cheating) he certainly has those nasty thoughts of others guys putting their manhood into her orifices and leaving their 'fluids' in her and now he gets her back, slightly more used than before. | |
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| Drinking the cheater...
Posted: 6/30/2008 5:51:45 PM |
or even forgive cheating.
~OP~ Forgiveness isn't about the offender. It's something we do for ourselves. It's called healing. My ex cheated. I forgave him for me, not for him. I don't even entertain the thought of taking any ex back. No matter what the reason for the break-up was. It didn't work once ~ why bother. I move 'him' to the friend-zone and carry on.  | |
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