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 Diablera Bruja

Joined: 4/11/2008
Msg: 76
dont know what to do
Posted: 5/25/2008 9:52:10 AM
The recurrent theme in your post is sex, sex and more sex.His feelings don't change from day to day, cos he has none for you.Unless you count lust as a feeling.Stop getting emotional and needy over this waste of space, his only interest in you is sexual.He knows he has power you and can get anything he wants. You are a lovely girl and deserve more than CREEPS like this.He is fvcking with your head and pulling your strings, so don't let him.Once again its trash day so put this guy out for collection.When you are older , you will spot these guys immediately and I know any guy who tries to fck with me or my head will be triple whammied back,.
 mac390

Joined: 4/22/2008
Msg: 77
dont know what to do
Posted: 5/25/2008 3:22:19 PM
awww honey!!! its too late for me to say nip it in the bud !!! but i do agree with the others he has someone else.....dont let yourself be used like that!!!! sorry babe its hard i know but you will have to break it off
 tinydancer123

Joined: 3/3/2007
Msg: 78
dont know what to do
Posted: 5/25/2008 8:15:11 PM
If this guys is for real and has a good career and is saving for a home then he has goals and is focused on himself and his needs and what's in it for him. Fine. You should be too..

Tell him you realise you need to party less, focus on your life, your career, your finances, your homelife stability (save for a condo) same as he is and you also want a serious open and honest relationship and all he is offering is sex and it's not enough for you and it's distracting you from your goals and tying up your emotions so you are messed up and it's no good for you. Then go your own way and focus on you and build up your life. Then you will have far more options and guys to choose from. Make sure they are good enough for you. You seem to have a very generous heart and that's priceless. Save it for someone who has the same to offer you back. Take care and good luck.
 Gourmetchef50

Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 79
dont know what to do
Posted: 5/26/2008 12:18:01 AM
ur pushing him too hard..let him come to you. You sounds insecure & clingy. You're basically only hooking up for sex..take it for what it is.The crying & i love you's are just gonna make him run away.Stand up for yourself..gain some self-respect and confidence & dump this loser.
 nightwolf1969

Joined: 5/27/2006
Msg: 80
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dont know what to do
Posted: 5/26/2008 1:01:10 AM
lol maybe he is a spy and cant tell you anything. Just keep having sex with him. Yes just keeping having sex. OMG girl wake up. If the sex is good keep having it because thats all there is. His wife provides everything else.
 virgogidget

Joined: 11/10/2005
Msg: 81
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dont know what to do
Posted: 5/26/2008 1:22:44 AM
His using you and playing mind games as well
Delete block no MSN ,calls nothing.
Move on. Red flags are everywhere.
Dont be conned back.
 opnmydm

Joined: 3/23/2008
Msg: 82
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Posted: 5/26/2008 2:10:00 AM
my dear he is playing you like a used guitar...lose him
 cindy39

Joined: 6/24/2005
Msg: 83
dont know what to do
Posted: 5/26/2008 2:39:04 AM
Sorry to say....but he is playing you...from reading your post you are way to smart for that...:)
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