| I can't get off :(
Posted: 5/23/2008 6:06:20 AM | Part of the key, I've found, is just being relaxed. Trying will get you no where. Also, remember that the orgasm isn't the key to good sex--rather, it's the icing on the cake. Don't judge the sex you have by the existence of the orgasm. Sex CAN be satisfying without it.
That said. Connection with your partner is key. If you go to bed expecting him to be selfish and do it "wrong" then that is a green light for him to be exactly that.
Worst comes to worse, do it yourself. If he gets offended that you're helping yourself, then toss him out the door. If he won't do it, and won't let you do it, well...do you really want to be sleeping with him? | |
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