| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue?
Posted: 5/26/2008 5:26:37 PM | | You would be susprised how many men can't hold their own when it comes 2 oral but yet expect it in return! If a man enjoys doing it then it really shows! So if I reciprocate then I would want him 2 enjoy it also.... A man that can make me have an orgasm !! Wow | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue?
Posted: 5/26/2008 5:56:06 PM | omg funny post thanks for the laugh :) some men enjoy that region keep in mind hair breeeds bacteria = smell
2nd point women know their "spots better than any man" teach him ! | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue?
Posted: 5/26/2008 6:58:33 PM | My ex didn't like giving or receiving oral, so I am trying to get back into the swing of things.
One other observation about some of the comments made here: Most of the people I know who are really good at something won't say they are good at it, and most of the people that claim to be "Gurus/Experts" are just plain dumba55es.
Just an observation. | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue?
Posted: 5/26/2008 8:38:29 PM | Fellas -- Imo this is a great "cheat sheet" for those wanting advice.
Ladies -- Don't be afraid to provide a little direction (see cheat sheet above). Guys want to provide women with the ultimate pleasure, but if they don't know it's up to us to tell 'em.
Hey Itsjustme... Great observation!
Why don't we let the guys talk a little about techniques for the ladies while we're at it?
I'm just thinking about an experience I had long ago where the poor, sweet girl clenched(almost) her teeth around the business end of my you-know-what, and then commenced this hand/arm movement that I'm certain was intended to remove the skin between her teeth and my lower abdomen... I still have nightmares about that once in a while!
If nothing else, I bet we'll read some laughable memoirs!
-Nomad- | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue?
Posted: 5/26/2008 9:09:15 PM | | Yes... been far longer than I want to admit, but yes. Still, there are so many other factors to an oral 'o' than just what he's doing physically. As said earlier, foreplay, building towards the moment is very important. Physically, over-stimulation can be worse than under-stimulation. ... I got far more out of my oral 'o' if I gave it first... extremely turned on by doing that. The most important factor, to me, is being in a relationship with someone who cares about you and whether or not you are enjoying yourself... from there, with communication and practice, practice, practice... the 'velvet tongue' is real. | |
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| Have you every enjoyed being a man with a velvet tongue?
Posted: 5/27/2008 12:47:25 PM | 1. Tease her with your tongue
2. Use the flat part of your tongue, not just the tip
3. Tease her some more
4. Not too much pressure right on "the spot"
5. Tease her a little more
6. Don't be afraid to suck on it
7. Keep teasing her
8. A finger on the g spot is always good
9. Tease her some more
10. Don't forget the labia too
Have I forgotten anything ladies? | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue?
Posted: 5/27/2008 1:56:38 PM | In the fear of sounding redundant, I am gonna go out on a limb here and say that the velvet tongue exists for the women only, and has nothing to do with the male appendage.
What I mean is, I believe the velvet tongue, per say, is merely a receptive notion, and not the actual tongue in play.(No pun intended)
You could have a tongue with a built in vibrating mode, fireworks, aspirin, and a candle-lit dinner; but if the recipient is not emotionally and/or physically able/aware, then the tongue may as well be made of cardboard!!
Sorry, I just fail to believe that it's the man that makes the tongue velvety.
God Bless,
Scott | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue?
Posted: 5/27/2008 2:25:23 PM | | Hmm... There possibly is an element of truth in that the woman has to be into it and has to be open to a degree (not meant in a litteral sense!), but it really is largely down to the abilty of the gentleman! Well, perhaps ability is the wrong word, performance might be more accurate? | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue?
Posted: 5/27/2008 2:40:56 PM | | There are two secrets to giving a women great oral sex. Number one and most important KEEP YOUR F-ING MOUTH SHUT and by that i mean no talking dont ask her if shes almost there or are you close or anything. Number two spell out the alphabet with your tongue at a slower rate of speed with medium pressure. | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue?
Posted: 5/27/2008 2:59:42 PM |
There are two secrets to giving a women great oral sex. Number one and most important KEEP YOUR F-ING MOUTH SHUT and by that i mean no talking dont ask her if shes almost there or are you close or anything. Number two spell out the alphabet with your tongue at a slower rate of speed with medium pressure.
Keep my mouth shut?? No tongue for you, you come back one year!!
If one has to ask questions to see of their mate is complying, then one should take up Golf!!
No teenagers here sweety.
I REALLY need to stay away from this thread. lol Its been wayyyyyy too long for me!
Hmmm...A gorgeous Scorpio female? I fail to believe your post completely!!
And please, don't go....
God Bless,
Scott. | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue?
Posted: 5/27/2008 6:03:47 PM | Most definitely; if they didn't I wouldn't be bothered with him. Who wants someone down there who doesn't know what they are doing? Only the experienced and skilled need apply. | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue?
Posted: 5/27/2008 6:13:07 PM | Hmmmmm..
Most definitely; if they didn't I wouldn't be bothered with him. Who wants someone down there who doesn't know what they are doing? Only the experienced and skilled need apply.
A bit selfish, but honest. | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue?
Posted: 5/27/2008 9:35:08 PM | Don't care to comment on my skill, however I know one thing you can never do before giving her some lip service.....eat jalapeno nachos!!
You want to get your hair pulled out, eat some J's before you go south!! | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue?
Posted: 5/27/2008 9:52:48 PM | First off, it is sad but not surprising that some of you ladies have not had men who are good at giving oral. On the other hand, have you ever been with a man who has NOT said they are good at everything sexual? Please!
Like a guy is going to say: I have no clue how to eat a pu$$y! Damn!
I do agree with other posters that if you know what you are doing it should not be all that difficult.
I have never had any complaints. In fact, i still get e-mails from this one woman I used to date. She had to move away and ended up with another man BUT she STILL makes sure I never doubt my ability in that area.
I confess I work hard enough to sometimes be a little tired for marathon lovemaking BUT my tongue never sleeps.
(Unfortunately, my tongue always ends up on/in women who have to move away for one reason or another! Damn!)
P.S. to the poster who had to TEACH a younger guy. . .if you dated MEN you would not have to waste your time teaching when you could be making love/having sex! I never had to be taught because i did my homework. . .perhaps if you wait until the boys graduate. . .lol. . . (No offense. . .just an F.Y.I.. . .) | |
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