| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue?
Posted: 5/27/2008 9:35:08 PM | Don't care to comment on my skill, however I know one thing you can never do before giving her some lip service.....eat jalapeno nachos!!
You want to get your hair pulled out, eat some J's before you go south!! | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue?
Posted: 5/27/2008 9:52:48 PM | First off, it is sad but not surprising that some of you ladies have not had men who are good at giving oral. On the other hand, have you ever been with a man who has NOT said they are good at everything sexual? Please!
Like a guy is going to say: I have no clue how to eat a pu$$y! Damn!
I do agree with other posters that if you know what you are doing it should not be all that difficult.
I have never had any complaints. In fact, i still get e-mails from this one woman I used to date. She had to move away and ended up with another man BUT she STILL makes sure I never doubt my ability in that area.
I confess I work hard enough to sometimes be a little tired for marathon lovemaking BUT my tongue never sleeps.
(Unfortunately, my tongue always ends up on/in women who have to move away for one reason or another! Damn!)
P.S. to the poster who had to TEACH a younger guy. . .if you dated MEN you would not have to waste your time teaching when you could be making love/having sex! I never had to be taught because i did my homework. . .perhaps if you wait until the boys graduate. . .lol. . . (No offense. . .just an F.Y.I.. . .) | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue?
Posted: 5/27/2008 11:21:12 PM | Oh, man! Did you ever just remind me...
About 15yrs ago, I was making something that involved cleaning some fresh habanero peppers. I knew good and damn well not to touch Mr. Happy without really washing my hands well, so after three washes, I went to pee and STILL lit myself up. Now, fast-forward to bedtime, which for us at that point was probably 3am or so. We'd had a great evening cooking, eating and drinking with friends, and so the mood was right for some lovin'. Short-circuit THAT thought!!! Both of us still had capsicum resin on our hands, and poor baby- Many hand washings later and I think she was glowing RED inside,lol!
Yeah. Watch what you're doing sexually after you've been playing with hotter-than-average chilis!
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue?
Posted: 5/28/2008 12:21:51 AM | | YES !!!!!!YES!!!!!YES!!!!!!! actually the one who rocked my world the most .....a guy i will NEVER forget ... he was slow gentle teasing and ABSOLUTLY was into what he was doing.....but i find its also vice versa if oral is to be GOOD for a man or a woman .... the giver has to LOVE GIVING.... then watch the fireworks.....Its easy to even lose time and space if done right... i remember one time ... i was giving my man a little goodbye ... we were on our way to the airport... and we lived in a fairly rural area.... so on one deserted back highway i decide to go south... and we are really into it.... then i notice that the car is stopped... i raise my head.... there next to the car window was a road construction worker.... he grinned and gave me a big thumbs-up.....i didnt finish the job ... was a bit peeved at my man, for not giving me the (pardon the pun) HEADS UP about the road construction....... | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue?
Posted: 5/28/2008 4:09:05 PM | Never tried before. Can't wait to start, though.
I agree with most of the female consensus: if I am able to enjoy pleasing my lover, then she will be able to enjoy being pleased by me.
I'd rather be able to say I only ever needed to please one woman, and that she loves it, than to say that I've pleased multitudes, which obviously means most of them are not being pleased by me anymore.
~ David | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue?
Posted: 5/31/2008 1:25:37 PM | | sigh..whatever happened to slowly undressing your lover while exciting her lovezones with inquiring hands to excite her sense of sensuality? If a man starts and ends with chasing the butterfly with the tip of the tongue he really has went to step two before enjoying the warmup of step one. Nothing is more pleasurable for me than to caress a lover to orgasim before tripping the light fanstic with a little, or lot, of oral sex. Passionate lovemaking, face to face can wait until my lady's more erotic desires have been fulfilled. Having said all that, well, whatever two consenting love partners figure turns their world is alright by me... | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue?
Posted: 5/31/2008 1:40:56 PM | OK, guys, don't get mad at me for this but, there is special knack to having a so called velvet tongue. I know "most men think they are awesome at oral sex", but as most women know, there really is a technique to it, Some men are to rough, to slurpy, to eager, and on and on, Like a lot of the posters have said, you have to start with the other stuff first, slow soft kisses, lots of touching,caressing.
I really hate it when a man thinks he is all that, and I just wind up feeling sore afterwards, or he could really care less if I try to direct him the way I like it
You know, velvet is soft and sensual. | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue?
Posted: 6/1/2008 8:54:27 PM | Angel, How could I possibly get mad? You know, I don't profess to be an expert, but neither do I have an inkling that I'm lacking... I'd really like to test-drive a Vulva to see if I LIKED the damn car... It's like when you turn on the turn signal... You don't hold it up until you're pinky's tired, you just kind of turn it on and let it blink until it quits on it's own, right? And, if you switched it fully 'on' in the beginning, why, hell! It should function purrrfectly until the turn is completed!!!
Kind of like shifting gently, with just the tips of a couple fingers, instead of grabbing the stick full-fisted, and JAMMING it into gear...
Uh-huh... I know what you're sayin'.....
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue?
Posted: 6/3/2008 5:56:11 PM | OK!!!
I'm Bayuck!!!!
HEY!??
Listen up peeps!!
Yeah, you too lil one...:)
I asked some of the women at work, and they all said the "Velvet Tongue" is a sweettalker.
No such thing as a tongue built for a woman, but the woman in recprication there-of!!
God Bless,
Scott.
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue?
Posted: 6/3/2008 6:55:33 PM | I believe the sweet talker is typically referred to as "silver-tongued" (i.e. silver-tongued devil).
I, myself, have never heard this velvet tongue reference until I read this thread....but I get what it means.....and I love it when I get it!
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue?
Posted: 6/4/2008 8:35:37 AM | | Well Ive been trying to perfect the art over my many years and partners.Giving oral pleasure to a turned on woman is just about my favorite activity.Each woman is different and requires different technique.To do it well requires tuning in to both verbal and body cues as to what works.And when it does....... booom boom booom .... | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue?
Posted: 6/8/2008 6:40:55 PM | All so true Angelnurse10!
It's not about ego - its about genuinely wanting to please your lady & also about loving & enjoying cunnylingus (or is that "cunning lingus" lol). Its also paying attention to your lady & learning & knowing just how she likes it & what she doesn't so much like.
You are always learning & like they say "practice makes perfect" | |
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| Have you ever enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue?
Posted: 6/19/2008 9:05:29 PM | | If you've never experienced this, then you really don't have any idea what it is. Some of us have, and it's really an amazing thing to share with someone you're very close to. | |
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