| When a woman tells you what you can and can't do...
Posted: 5/22/2008 8:01:07 AM | | Give her a Rock and Roll headbutt Wesley Willis style, then go with your guy friends and cheat on her anyways just to make her feel vindicated so she can at least have that to hold on to when you break up with her. He's going to break up with her, right? If he doesn't, then he deserves every ounce of crazy she spits at him. | |
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| When a woman tells you what you can and can't do...
Posted: 5/22/2008 8:08:05 AM | Sounds like my ex. She would show up to my job every night as I was getting off just to make sure I wasn't going anywhere. She checked my phone to see who called and searched my internet useage to make sure I wasn't contacting anyone. She even called the pizza delivery girl one time and cussed her out. Poor girl just called for directions to my house.
It took me over a year to get away from her.
The most clingy, insecure person I've ever run across. And the most volatile as well. | |
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| When a woman tells you what you can and can't do...
Posted: 5/22/2008 8:08:16 AM | I'd ask her for a ride to the airport so she can watch my @ss as it gets on the plane. If she's there when I get back, maybe we'll try to work through it, maybe we won't. Either way I'm going to do what I want and there's not a damn thing she can do about it. The sooner she realizes this, the sooner she can start working on getting over it.
I've also found in my life experiences that the reason that someone will start accusing their partner of cheating is because they themselves are cheating or thinking about cheating. | |
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| When a woman tells you what you can and can't do...
Posted: 5/22/2008 8:13:10 AM | Oh, how's this for an update? He's not going.
He just came down here (we all work in the same building) to apologize for thinking of going and making her upset.
Heh. I don't feel sorry for him either. She's sitting here grinning like the cheshire cat with a triumphant "I won" look on her face. | |
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| When a woman tells you what you can and can't do...
Posted: 5/22/2008 8:31:20 AM |
Oh, how's this for an update? He's not going.
He just came down here (we all work in the same building) to apologize for thinking of going and making her upset.
Heh. I don't feel sorry for him either. She's sitting here grinning like the cheshire cat with a triumphant "I won" look on her face.
This is the most depressing thing I've read this week. | |
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| When a woman tells you what you can and can't do...
Posted: 5/22/2008 8:31:42 AM |
Oh, how's this for an update? He's not going.
He just came down here (we all work in the same building) to apologize for thinking of going and making her upset.
Heh. I don't feel sorry for him either. She's sitting here grinning like the cheshire cat with a triumphant "I won" look on her face.
Well I guess they'll stagger on in a nice codependent relationship where she has all the power for a few years then :).
I think an anonymous card with "I'm sorry for your loss" on the front, and balls of all shapes and sizes on the inside would be appropriate here. sigh... | |
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| When a woman tells you what you can and can't do...
Posted: 5/22/2008 8:33:10 AM |
Oh, how's this for an update? He's not going.
Oh, man. She must have had him neutered a while back...what a waste. Yeah she tested the boundary and won. No good comes from that. But it's his eunich-like life to live I guess. | |
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| When a woman tells you what you can and can't do...
Posted: 5/22/2008 8:46:56 AM | She seems control freakish, and she thinks it's okay for her to drink wine while preaching water to her boyfriend. He should just go on that trip and enjoy the game. And he might want to consider kicking her to the curb. It's what I would do.
Edit: Just read the update. Apparently he needs someone to treat him bad. In that case: He got what he wanted. Good for him.
Personally, however, I will never cease to be amazed about how the worst b*tches always get their way and how they get away with it forever. Stuns me over and over again. | |
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| When a woman tells you what you can and can't do...
Posted: 5/22/2008 8:49:29 AM | They both need to get some sense beat into their freaking heads. What a pu$$y!
What's his address? I'll send him a nice purse so at least he'll have somewhere to carry his balls if she ever decides to give them back.
I wish I was there to slap the sh!t out of both of them. | |
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| When a woman tells you what you can and can't do...
Posted: 5/22/2008 8:56:45 AM | Angela, do they live together?
If so, don't be so quick to judge him folks. I think he's playing it cool for now. Some of those situations need to be handled with finesse.
And look at it this way as well. He's just going to become more miserable and in the end, she will end up alone. He won't stick around for that. Everyone has a breaking point and he will reach his sooner or later. | |
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| When a woman tells you what you can and can't do...
Posted: 5/22/2008 9:00:00 AM |
Oh, how's this for an update? He's not going.
Hey Red!! RED!! I think we just found the guy who should be attached to those balls we found in the dungeon!
Angela.... ask him if he's got my missing bullwhip stuffed up his a$$, will ya? Haven't seen it in awhile......
Omg.... she sure sounds like a piece of work......  She must REALLY be good at somethin'.......
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Posted: 5/22/2008 9:07:02 AM |
Would you go anyway, or would you give in and give up the opportunity?
I would probably go. I would not stay in a relationship like that. It sounds like a lot of extra stress. | |
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| When a woman tells you what you can and can't do...
Posted: 5/22/2008 9:07:40 AM | Gets out my "Little Black Book", turns the page and calls another.........
OT........If you can not trust another, you have little future but that of a prison with a guard at the gate controlling all you will ever do.
If I can not hold the one I am with, with my total presence, even if not there, then there is no need to even try. To be free with one another is the greatest gift of a real relationship.
If you care for them, you will set them free, and if they care for you, they will stay....
Just my opinion......   | |
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| When a woman tells you what you can and can't do...
Posted: 5/22/2008 9:11:26 AM |
This is the most depressing thing I've read this week.
Ditto, poor guy is probably going to loose all his friend over her too. So now that makes him officialy a doormat.
Your friend need some sense slapped into her before she screw up that guy's social life. | |
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| When a woman tells you what you can and can't do...
Posted: 5/22/2008 9:11:44 AM | Let me clue you into my experience. The computer savvy clingy psycho that I dated knew all my passwords, bank info, credit card info, where I kept things of value and how to get to them and so on. She got that from sneaking onto my computer. So I couldn't just kick her to the curve.
Take it from me, that situation had to be handled with a soft touch. When I was confident enough that she couldn't screw me, that's when I started ignoring her and pushing her away. She didn't like porn so I filled my computer up with it because I knew she would find it. She didn't like me looking at other women so I drooled over them on purpose. I did those things so she would just go away because on top of all the misery she put me through, she kept pulling the suicide card BS. It finally came to the point that I told her straight up if she kills herself that it's not my fault. This was after I called the cops to kick in my front door because I thought she actually did it (in reality, all she did do is drink a bunch of wine and pass out). A few weeks after that, she finally came to the conclusion that I didn't want to be with her and left.
So take it from me, these controlling people are not to be toyed around with. They get that way because they have something else in their hands besides your balls. | |
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Posted: 5/22/2008 9:24:38 AM | Well I'd start by trying to get her a ticket as well to the game. Having trust issues happens, it's a lot easier to try and accommodate the person with those issues instead of trying to fight them.
If that doesn't work for some reason, no I wouldn't go, but the relationship would be on thin ice for sure.
BUT, I'll tell her if I'm not going to the game and she wants to still go to Myrtle Beach she'll find her things packed and ready to move out when she gets back.
I'm an accepting guy but theres a limit and from what it sounds like this girl would have reached my limit. | |
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| When a woman tells you what you can and can't do...
Posted: 5/22/2008 9:25:18 AM | So he's not going, eh? Wuss! He'll regret this decision, perhaps for the rest of his life, and resent her as well for forcing the issue. Her "victory" may be short-lived. His friends will get on his case for years to come over this as well. This relationship probably has a short lifespan ahead, unless he's so undesirable or submissive that he can't do better than this controlling manipulative woman.
I'd see a demand such as this as a major red flag and would end any such relationship if reason and perhaps a little compromise couldn't be established immediately. | |
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| When a woman tells you what you can and can't do...
Posted: 5/22/2008 9:31:25 AM |
Note that this girl admits that the guy has never ever given her a reason not to trust him, and all of this insecure anxiety comes from her past.
Would you go anyway, or would you give in and give up the opportunity?
There's a part of me that wonders if you are secretly attracted to this guy in some way.
I could be wrong. Just an observation. | |
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| When a woman tells you what you can and can't do...
Posted: 5/22/2008 9:35:27 AM | Alright, after reading the rest of the thread I guess I'll give more of my input.
If she told me she was just going to ruin the trip I'd say she's not going then. Sorry, if I can't go and have a good time with my friends with or without you then it isn't going to happen. If thats how she felt about something that was important to me I'd probably just go at this point and not give a shit what she thinks. Not trusting me is one thing, going and making the trip miserable for me is something completely beyond having trust issues.
The fact that he told her he wasn't going and she just grinned about it completely pisses me off. If I was this girls guy and saw that I'd end it on the spot. I'm sorry if that sounds harsh but theres no excuse for that.
I understand having insecurities from a past relationship, they happen and I have no problem bending over backwards to accommodate her but I'm sorry at this point it just seems she's using that as an excuse to be a controlling **** and there is nothing she could do or say to make that better | |
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| When a woman tells you what you can and can't do...
Posted: 5/22/2008 9:36:10 AM |
There's a part of me that wonders if you are secretly attracted to this guy in some way.
Hah, doesn't it figure that when a woman talks about a disfunctional couple it means she secretly wants the guy in the duo to at least one person listening to the story...
He's about 20 years older than I am and looks like my dad. Your observation is a giant negative, chief. | |
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