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mthomjmark

Joined: 2/27/2008
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When a woman tells you what you can and can't do... Posted: 6/18/2008 4:57:00 PM
What a ****; I would break up with her in a heart beat. You think they aren't going clubbing at the bachelorette party or get crazy? This guy is a friggin wimp if he bows down to this beatch. I would go. A relationship is about trust and this girl is as selfish as it gets. What a self absorbed jerk. Why is he with her? I would say, I'm going, and when I get back, your going. This is a dysfunctional and unhealthy female. What an arrogant jerk. I would say, your outta here like a newborn. If this guy is this spineless he deserves what he gets. Hopefully he will man up. She will cheat on him someday; I'd bet my last $5; she has no conscious.

mthomjmark

Joined: 2/27/2008
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When a woman tells you what you can and can't do... Posted: 6/18/2008 5:02:58 PM
She basically said that I was right, but it wasn't her fault that she was acting like that. It's her ex boyfriends/husband's fault. Heh. You can't get through to some people. No you can't get through to selfish and immature people; Dysfunctional people make others pay for their past. This is classic baggage. I would dump her in a heart beat. I would say get some help, deal with this because I'm not going to pay for whats happened in the past. She's also not a victim totally. She's the one that picked these guys that cheated; not the present boyfriend. I'm so sick of women choosing losers and then making the future guys in their lives pay for it. This woman is a mess. This guy needs to move on. Love is action; not intentions or perceptions and she doesn't give a rip as to his feelings; she just cares about her own. She will use this,"poor me I've been hurt" routine as a trump card for any and all of her behavior. This is a bad scene.

graywolfe81

Joined: 8/11/2007
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When a woman tells you what you can and can't do... Posted: 6/18/2008 5:17:27 PM
Go anyway and dump her. What an awful relationship to be in.

CaliSoldier

Joined: 6/2/2008
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When a woman tells you what you can and can't do... Posted: 6/18/2008 5:20:26 PM
Id say she needs Dr Phil. Id dump her in a heartbeat

NYinNM

Joined: 5/30/2008
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When a woman tells you what you can and can't do... Posted: 6/18/2008 5:37:47 PM
If as you say, it was a chance to go to a ballgame, I'm gone, to the game and out of that relationship. Anybody male or female that throws a fit and tries to keep you from doing something you enjoy has issues even Dr. Phil may not be able to solve.

Elysion_Field

Joined: 12/29/2007
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When a woman tells you what you can and can't do... Posted: 6/20/2008 5:05:01 AM
@ mthomjmark, good point. People do seem to say 'oh I'm over him/her' and then use their past history as reasons why and why not. I tride contacting someone 4 months ago and they responded with 'you sound like a really nice guy, but I was seeing someone who was divorced recently and had a bad experience with him so I don't want to do that again' gee thanks. tar me with the same brush. It's a common thing though, some people seem to have taking responsibility/control of their own lives and accepting they are partly to blame for past situations. very often they get blinkers and its everyones fault except their own.

Zentimes

Joined: 12/31/2006
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When a woman tells you what you can and can't do... Posted: 6/20/2008 6:50:47 AM
When a woman tells you what you can and can't do.... Its called a MARRIAGE! In this case they are not married. She needs therapy and has to realize that she is selfish and ill. I would not wait for her to seek a therapist. I would simply DUMP her "psycho-messed" up butt so fast! The past is the past -- one cannot store prior experiences & transpose them onto the canvas of a new relationship. What's good for the goose is good for the gander. She is going to the beach with her friends. He should hop on the plane (first class tickets), have a real ball with his pals & most importantly forget that his selfcentered female ever existed. Next!

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