She goes NUTS when you tell her your plans, and FORBIDS you to go because she just KNOWS you'll cheat on her if she isn't right next to you watching your every move.
My oldest brother is psychoanalyst and he identified this behavior in my ex-wife. He told me that I was suffering at the hands of an emotional abuser, and that I should be very careful to see that she does not elevates her behavior to physical abuse.
From my view, this sounds like a woman who hates men yet who need them to control. Perhaps the control problem is a manifestations of the anger, frustrations and ego. This is from me, and not my brother, gracias.