| Good Girl/Bad Girl, What's the difference?
Posted: 6/24/2008 6:15:39 PM | Pretty much all guys want a sex monster in the bedroom. No duh.
I think some guys are worried about what other people will think of them dating a well established and visibly obvious slut in public. They are worried about parents. They are worried about work relationships, etc.. Those are somewhat superficial, yet not entirely irrelevant issues to think about for some people. Public perception often does matter.
Some other guys are not so worried about such things, but are probably more concerned about whether or not they could actually trust someone like that for a long term relationship enough to put their heart into it. But the reality is that some of the most visibly "nice" girls out there have turned out to be some of the least trustworthy in my estimation, so looks are deceiving eh? Some of the most fiercely loyal women I have known were bad bad bad girls. Its probably safe to say that a girl who is nice in public and not so bad in the bedroom either...is probably trustworthy...but also pretty boring. | |
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| Good Girl/Bad Girl, What's the difference?
Posted: 6/24/2008 6:34:28 PM | Whats the difference has little or nothing to do with sex.
A bad girl is the kind who
- thinks that there is no such thing as husband bashing. Only wife bashing.
- abandons the current boyfriend when he can't take her dancing causehe's bronken a leg. AND
- after she's abandoned him, (right when he needs a litle help) spends her time maoaning about "man shortages"
Got the idea ladies? Nothing to do with sex. | |
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| Good Girl/Bad Girl, What's the difference?
Posted: 6/24/2008 7:25:27 PM | depends upon what you mean by good girl/bad girl.
too much good can be bad, and sometimes bad can be really good, however, nobody wants a dishonest cheating b!tch.
so i guess someone who can go out drinking without throwing up in the car, laugh out loud at your buddys dirty jokes, hang around your family without letting the F word slip out and look like an angel in her sunday dress   | |
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| Good Girl/Bad Girl, What's the difference?
Posted: 6/24/2008 9:50:38 PM | I think the whole "good vs bad" concept is based around sex. When are we going to start being comfortable with ourselves as sexual beings and not look at is as "bad" or naughty. Why is it that kids can play video games and pretend to shoot and graphically kill other humans, but if there was any nudity or sex that would be forbidden?
To answer the question, I prefer a lady that knows who she is and is not ashamed of any aspect of herself. | |
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| Good Girl/Bad Girl, What's the difference?
Posted: 6/24/2008 10:58:55 PM | What all guys want, and this is from a genetic standpoint, is a woman who will be "true". There is no exception to this. We are all created to breed. Weather or not you do this is an entirely different story, but this is why guys get jealous. It's not because they care about the woman necessarily, it's because their genes are making them mad (releasing chemicals into the body which cause the emotions) because they are selfish and want to be carried on to the next generation.
So the best way to explain it is this.
Every guy wants that girl who's the "bad girl". They hook up at a bar, have an awesome time together and then she gets rid of her bad girl ways (with other guys, not with him) and she gives herself over to him (and vice versa). And the live happily ever after. At least until the divorce ;) | |
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| Good Girl/Bad Girl, What's the difference?
Posted: 6/24/2008 11:43:49 PM | i like bad girls. i like a woman who kicks ass, who does what angelina jolie pretends to do on film. i like a woman i cant trust completely, who will tell me she loves me before she tries to cut my throat. a woman who will call me the foulest names in the throws of passion and rake my back with her nails when she climaxes. i like a woman who can break down a glock and rebuild it while blindfolded, who knows how to throw a decent roundhouse kick, who can master the deadly art of filipino knife fighting, who likes it when i pull her hair...hard and doesnt mind a spank or two.
i also like good girls....so i can corrupt their asses and turn them into bad girls. | |
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| Good Girl/Bad Girl, What's the difference?
Posted: 6/25/2008 12:31:43 AM | I don't mind a girl that's plenty bad in the bed room, so long as it's only my bedroom. As far as myself goes though, I can't stand bad girls for long, I know it's a generalisation and I ain't trying to call anybody out on this kinda thing, but drinking smoking and in general not-givin-a-f*ck all the time generally doesn't work for me. Too unstable for me to have any kind of relatiosnhip with, plus you know they're gonna be a heart breaker.
If she's too good though, it's just as bad, too boring and won't test any kind of limits I may have. | |
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| Good Girl/Bad Girl, What's the difference?
Posted: 6/25/2008 7:03:44 AM | | Think it depends on the guy. I know some 'good guys' ho had the 'bad girl'/bipolar/ addict woman. Think they must have had some kina rescuer need and they 'wanted to help', that is until they came to their senses. My galpals and I have joked around that we're still single bc were not out causing scenes dancing on tables or living in crisis/helpless. Oh well, we may be single, but we're strong bc we've made it this far on our own at times, and we are our own best friends. Probably better anyways to enter a relationship not from a place of 'need', but of having something to offer, and having it 'together'. Hopefully, there are guys out there who can appreciate that we dont have to cling to them , that we have our own interests, lives, family and friends | |
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| Good Girl/Bad Girl, What's the difference?
Posted: 6/25/2008 2:07:00 PM | well gin, depends. i think most of us guys will always have a bit of attraction for the bad girl type, even when what we want is to make em a good girl. i personally like both about the same. the bad girl type tends to be more honest and open, if sometimes a bit more rude, the good girl type is more caring and friendly (both of these are "rules",. there are no hard fast laws for situations involving literally half the worlds population (women). | |
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| Good Girl/Bad Girl, What's the difference?
Posted: 6/25/2008 2:11:04 PM | | I'm too old to be either, I'm a lazy fat girl who likes being a couch potato....so I don't have much of a chance to get into any trouble and I'm way too old and done too much in my youth to ever be thought of as a good girl. | |
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| Good Girl/Bad Girl, What's the difference?
Posted: 6/25/2008 2:20:34 PM | | BOTH - I don't get why a woman wouldn't be a "freak in the sheets" with her man. I'm a one man woman and my guy sleeps very well b/c I put him to bed with his favorite bedtime activities. | |
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| Good Girl/Bad Girl, What's the difference?
Posted: 6/25/2008 2:39:31 PM | good girl/bad girl?
therein lies the problem! Someday you have to grow up and become a woman, where it is no longer an issue of good/bad, but rather, knowing who you are! That's when the confidence arrives....and that is BEAUTIFUL !! | |
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