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Posted: 9/3/2008 8:18:42 AM | | Some have an interest in these things and others dont. It is neither normal or abnormal... Just preference. It works for some and others, not. | |
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Posted: 9/3/2008 10:24:50 AM | Tried it once but none of us were in a relationship.
I admit it was fun and exciting, but probably because it was new.
The upside is the same as the downside IMO. With two other women, it was hard to concentrate on my own pleasure. There was simply too much going on. You're trying to please one, while another is pleasing you.
The two on one aspect was nice though, getting kissed by one and pleasured by another was great, and giving to a women with another giving to the same women was deeply erotic, but overall it wasn't the best I ever had, but it was pretty high up on the list.
I know a couple that have been together for years. They started dating right after the guy had just met another girl. When he told the one he is with now about her, she asked, "Does she like 3somes?" Since then, it's been a several times a month ritual and their relationship has stayed strong the whole time. It's like a friend comming over for cards or something, only with sex after that.
All depends on how secure you are I guess. | |
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Posted: 9/3/2008 10:32:15 AM | | ive had many a 3 some and a couple of 5 somes only with females tho and they were some great sexual experiences i urge all to try woot woot | |
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Posted: 9/3/2008 10:45:17 AM | | I'll probably start by working my way up to one at a time. I seem to recall that being nice enough. | |
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Posted: 9/5/2008 8:54:44 PM | This is very true, in regards to a 3some. Thank you easy_read! :)
In any case, and I'm speaking on behalf of someone who has done a 3some before, they can be enjoyable to both sexes. But I stand firm that both sexes should consider attempting one only if both feel comfortable and are open with communication with each other including the thrid person.
That said, my experience was I became friends with the "girl" I had been with, and
though that may not be the case with everyone, we remained the best of friends up till her death a few years back. | |
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Posted: 9/5/2008 9:47:43 PM | I work with mostly guys, and we're an open group. The topic of 3somes, 4somes, moresomes came up one rainy afternoon. To my surprise, the guy who is usually Sooo talkative was really quiet, and I called him on it, figuring we'd hear a great story.
Leaning back in his chair, taking a deep breath he said, "Two women? Why should I disappoint two woman, I can't keep one satisfied" Thought I'd die laughing!
..... and that's all I'm sharing on threesomes... | |
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Posted: 9/6/2008 12:42:30 PM | I can see this as being really problematic when two of the three are in a relationship. Why would any man want to watch the woman he loves engage in sexual activity with another man? Wouldn't he wonder: "what if he's better than me?" especially if she seems to be enjoying it? Would that not be a major blow to your ego?
While the FFM combo seems to be more the norm, I've known guys who told me that they would find it erotic to watch their gf giving another guy a bj. I'm by no means a prude but just find that really odd. | |
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Posted: 9/6/2008 5:59:08 PM | | Ive had many MMF and FFM and love them. been steady in my realtionship for 5 years and going strong as ever | |
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Posted: 9/6/2008 6:09:48 PM | ADVANTAGES OF A THREESOME: 1. It can get really weird 2. Someone can go for beer without interrupting the proceedings 3. There's always a hand or mouth free when you need one 4. Motel rooms split 3 ways are cheap. 5. You get to watch your best friends making love 6. You get to get watched making love 7. Three-person showers are fantastic  | |
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Posted: 9/6/2008 6:19:41 PM | I have a fantasy about being in a 3 some with a guy and my twin sister but I can not get my sister to participate. She has always been very conservative. We almost did once when we were in high school but my sister thought I was too weird. She said I made too many unnatural noises.
I just want to see the look on the guys face when he sees me (us) both cuming and going at the same time. | |
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Posted: 9/6/2008 7:55:06 PM | My advice for 3sums would be if you and your partner have not done it before to ONLY do it with people you are not that seriously involved with. I think the risk of unwanted feeling popping up is quite high and many otherwise stable relationships can't handle it. Some can, but I think the group scene has probably caused more relationship issues than not.
If you have 3sums when just dating, you can probably handle them when in long term relationships. | |
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Posted: 9/6/2008 8:08:06 PM | | i think its the guy from the 3some that your missin buddy | |
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Posted: 9/7/2008 7:21:19 PM | " I have a fantasy about being in a 3 some with a guy and my twin sister but I cannot get my sister to participate. She has always been very conservative"
What you look at as being "very conservative" your sister might view as not really wanting to get involved with incest. But I am with you Melissa incest is best. Sex would be so much more fun if your twin sister can have some. | |
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Posted: 9/7/2008 8:13:59 PM | Wildman46
What you look at as being "very conservative" your sister might view as not really wanting to get involved with incest.
1: My sister does not have a penis. I do not have a penis. There would be no incest. Just twins making some guy very happy.
2: I can see my humor and sarcasm are lost on some. I might be a little "out there" but that does not mean I participate in every "sin" imaginable. | |
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Posted: 9/7/2008 8:36:33 PM | Sweet Melissa, are you maternal twins? It's rather odd that you'd be so different if you two were raised in the same household and shared DNA.
Anyways, if she's as conservative as you describe her, I'd give her props for even making it to the point when she got to hear the "unnatural noises."
On the threesomes themselves, I think it's a cool thing to try if you're comfortable with the idea. I'm pretty sure the only way it would fit into my comfort level is if it was two girls, and I was in a committed relationship with one of them. Kind of reminds me of the show Friends though, poor Ross! | |
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Posted: 9/7/2008 8:42:19 PM | " my sister does not have a penis. I do not have a penis. There would be no incest. Just twins making some guy very happy"
AHHH Melissa, A woman does not have to have a penis to have sex with another woman, you know that. Actually that's a huge part of the 3 some with WWM. If a guys gets involved with that kind of 3 some a huge turn on for him would be the girl on girl action. Thus that would be incest if you did that with your twin sister. | |
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Posted: 9/8/2008 1:08:43 AM |
I'd be interested in trying it once, but only if I knew for certain it couldn't come back and bite me in the ass.
Ummm, during a threesome, it happens sometimes. | |
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Posted: 9/8/2008 1:26:29 AM | le0
Sweet Melissa, are you maternal twins? It's rather odd that you'd be so different if you two were raised in the same household and shared DNA.
We are identical twins and we grew up in the same household and share the exact same DNA but we were not brought up the same. That is a story for another time and place. My sister could have been me and I could have been her. We took, what appeared to be at first, slightly different paths in our school years. The path I took ended up having a dramatic effect on me. I took a path which lead me away from the "normal" upbringing that my sister had. The experiences on this path have opened my mind and soul in a way that my sister has not experienced. She does not want this experience but she has no problems with my life. She knows we could have easily been in each others place.
We are the same but we are different.
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AHHH Melissa, A woman does not have to have a penis to have sex with another woman, you know that.
Really? You do not say? I assumed this entire thread was a tongue and cheek thread and I replied accordingly. I was goofing around although I have thought about how amazed a guy would be if it did happen. Anyway, if I tried any of my Domme stuff on my sister she would kick my little a$$. She still works part time on a farm and she is in better shape and stronger than I am. You do not want to mess with her and neither do I. | |
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Posted: 9/8/2008 4:02:44 AM | | Your humor's not lost on me. I'll buy. My best friend had twins once (lucky dog). Couldn't see straight for a week afterward...of course, the "joker" smile told us the whole story, too. | |
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Posted: 9/8/2008 10:39:39 AM | | Melissa that is a interesting topic and im not saying you and your sister couldnt have a 3 some with a guy and not have sex with each other as some have indicated ... laws concerning Incest were made to protect the bloodline from genetic mutations from the combining of bad genes ...so two sisters or two brothers could not contribute to this ...so unless you are coming from a religious standpoint ..whats the foul...most have read about the brother and sister that were separated at infancy and unknowingly married and later after having a family found out ...even the church condoned the idea that they would have had to know the relation to be guilty of incest ...but if as sisters had sexual contact and there is no chance of muddying the gene pool whats the foul...im not condoning just asking ??? | |
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Posted: 9/8/2008 12:07:14 PM | | Bween in a few three somes when i was wonger. At first, it was nice but then it got boring. Can't even stand to watch it on a movie | |
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Posted: 9/8/2008 12:39:16 PM | 2 men and 1 woman is a little too busy for me. the thoughts of an 'accidental' touch of another man's nether regions would be enough to put me off.
used to have frequent 3somes with 2 female friends of mine and it was all good clean fun and as there were no romantic or emotional ties it was all fine.
Course, vino had a lot to do with the commencement of such an adventure. | |
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Posted: 9/8/2008 12:50:03 PM | | obviously she never really did like you, and clearly had a thing for your friend. :P | |
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Posted: 9/8/2008 12:51:52 PM | | Relationships vs sex... you will see two different sides to a person. Someone who cares for you, who is in love with you might have a different way of being or acting around you. Sexually, if there are no rules and another comes in... she or he can let loose and do things that perhaps she or he felt odd doing with a significant other. | |
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Posted: 9/13/2008 6:06:44 PM | I've never been in a threesome, and wouldn't consider it with someone I was serious with, can of worms there.
I'd give it a go though, both varieties. I'm comfortable with my sexuality so I wouldn't be too bothered about the proximity of another guy, and I think a woman being double penetrated is an incredibly sexy thing. | |
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