| Why do girls usually tend to hide and Guys want to show off how many people they have slept with?
Posted: 6/7/2008 5:24:48 PM |
How does one get a job like that? I may want to supplement my income someday. Would I need to print out business cards? Would I have to sleep with ugly women
Not really sure! Business cards would help but what would you print on them? Perhaps Studly Doright? LOL Best suggestion though would be a billboard! Yes you would probably have a few unsavorable clients, but hey make them buy you lots of liquor beforehand! Good luck with your new business venture! | |
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| Why do girls usually tend to hide and Guys want to show off how many people they have slept with?
Posted: 6/8/2008 7:37:55 PM |
Not really sure! Business cards would help but what would you print on them? Perhaps Studly Doright? LOL Best suggestion though would be a billboard! Yes you would probably have a few unsavorable clients, but hey make them buy you lots of liquor beforehand! Good luck with your new business venture!
Hmmmm...A billboard. Not very discreet but I'm sure it would be very effective. LOL This also might save me a lot of time networking. OK, I'll do it! LOL Can I borrow the Studly Doright name? Now all I need to do is figure out how much to charge. How much can a gigalo in his mid 40's charge for his services. I guess at my age I should charge by the minute.  | |
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| Why do girls usually tend to hide and Guys want to show off how many people they have slept with?
Posted: 6/8/2008 9:08:55 PM |
do i believe this, no but its what i been told
Oddly enough, that makes more sense than a lot of longer winded explanations....
In my case, I learned to ask after the bouncer in a bar my girl and I went to tried to beat me up... (His mistake). I said to her afterwards, "What was his f&&king problem?"
At that point she told me she'd slept with him a few weeks before. | |
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| Why do girls usually tend to hide and Guys want to show off how many people they have slept with?
Posted: 6/9/2008 2:52:23 PM | | Its funny cause every serious partner i've had has always brought up how many women i've been with. Yet when I ask them its usually a response of "its in the past, it doesn't matter"...I don't brag about how many women i've been with. Its not important. But it does make me wonder when a women's elusive after asking me this question. My SO bugged me for a week, until I finally told her, give or take a few I forgot or don't remember. I let it drop, and thankfully its never been brought up again. As for why guys brag... Never really understood it tbh...And well never really understood why women hide it. I suppose some would think a high number would signify them as a slut or something. As a guy...well I guess that tells other guys and women that they are a sexual lion. To me it just means more experience coming my way. I'm not a jealous type though. So ya...Should not really be an issue. | |
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| Why do girls usually tend to hide and Guys want to show off how many people they have slept with?
Posted: 6/18/2008 3:15:33 AM | | Well it's a double standard. And it's womens fault. A slut is a slut whether male or female. But when men for a woman for marriage he doesn't look for the biggest slut around. Why? Because you can't turn a hoe into a housewife. We look for a woman that is as close to pure as we can find. Children tend to not respect mothers that sleep with everything around.Women look for the opposite. They want a man who knows his way around a womans body. Has experience. Just ask yourself a simple question ladies. When you look at qualities in a man Is virginity something you look? If he was a very good match in most other ways but had only been with one woman and then decided he wanted to wait for marriage how many of you would like him more because of it and how many of you would discard him because of it? Be honest. About 3%-5% of you might stick with him. The rest of you would drop him like an elbow. A man that's good in bed can choose any woman he want's because his talents are in demand. So the woman that gets to keeps him for herself is the envy of all the other women. A woman that captures a man like that gains respect. A man that captures a woman like that loses respect. | |
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| Why do girls usually tend to hide and Guys want to show off how many people they have slept with?
Posted: 6/18/2008 6:50:37 AM | | I think that society's views are changing. Fifty years ago when STD's could be fixed by a shot or a pill, "sleeping around" didn't have the negative connotations (for men) that it has today. I can't speak for the women, but I wouldn't think that they meet a man that has had sex with hundreds of women, and figure "lucky me, I found an experienced stud". Plus, now that I'm in my mid-forties, it's just a given that the women I date have been having sex for over half their life. I never ask "how many", and as I've only been asked once or twice, I don't think it's a common question. | |
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| Why do girls usually tend to hide and Guys want to show off how many people they have slept with?
Posted: 6/18/2008 11:31:27 AM | I think I may be quite different from most men in my own opinion. I actually find myself to be very very attracted to and turned on by a woman who is sexually open and does not mind spilling the number of guys she has been with. It shows a great deal of confidence on her part because it tells me that she is secure enough such that she is willing to say the truth and doesn't care.
Also, as long as she doesn't have any STDs, the number of men she has been with is of no concern to me - - but in reverse it is actually a turn on because I know that so many men have desired and wanted her and she would most likely be incredible in bed due to all the experience. So, I feel like I could probably learn a lot from her and at the same time have a "rocking" experience. And yes, if she is willing to be faithful to me I would marry her even if she has been with over 30 men. | |
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| Why do girls usually tend to hide and Guys want to show off how many people they have slept with?
Posted: 6/18/2008 4:23:07 PM | This tread is redundant. There is NO double-standard.
Like somebody said, it is easy for a woman to get sex, for a man it isn't that easy. I'm talking about 1/5,000 of a second for a woman to get sex, . Is all about speed and accessability.
a slut is a woman with the sexual mind of a man.
The only way a man can be " a slut" is if he engages in homosexual sex, and still, the speed is not going to be that of a woman. a homosexual man would be like 1/8 of a second, compared to 1/5,000 of a second for a woman. | |
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| Why do girls usually tend to hide and Guys want to show off how many people they have slept with?
Posted: 6/19/2008 7:46:05 AM |
Also, as long as she doesn't have any STDs,
Well, the trouble there is that you don't know for sure if she has any STD's. Some don't show up in testing for months after exposure.
She might have had something, been cured, but carries side-effects, (infertility, liver damage, cervical cancer)
the number of men she has been with is of no concern to me - - but in reverse it is actually a turn on because I know that so many men have desired
Just because she has slept with a large number of men is no guarantee of desirability. I know a couple of women who have slept with lots of men, not becuase they were desirable(they weren't), but because they were easy.
and wanted her and she would most likely be incredible in bed due to all the experience. So, I feel like I could probably learn a lot from her and at the same time have a "rocking" experience.
That is assuming she isn't so jaded from all her 'experiences'. She may be very cold in bed from being used by lots of guys. She may feel that she did 'all that stuff' when she was younger and doesn't want to anymore.
I've met women who slept with only 3-4 guys who were absolutely fabulous and willing to try anything in bed and very capable of letting loose.
I've met women who've slept with many guys who were just useless under the sheets.
A woman is more likely to learn amd have great positive experiences from just a few guys in loving relationships, than she is from being used as a human sex toy for a bunch of guys who only wanted to 'get on, get off'.
And yes, if she is willing to be faithful to me I would marry her even if she has been with over 30 men.
Sorry buddy, but for some of these women, 30 is a low number to them. | |
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