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 Samantha_Jayne

Joined: 3/7/2008
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What do you deem as a slut/slag/scrubber etc
Posted: 5/23/2008 1:53:06 AM
I call myself a 'slaggy housewife' all the time, not in the sense that I have sex with all and sundry, more that I am pretty useless at keeping my house clean & tidy and I dont think Ive picked up an iron for about 4 years!!!!

So I would guess that the term 'slag' comes from being dirty, useless, lazy etc, bit like the way it is used in metal welding....

Slut is a bit of a provocative term, it automatically brings up images of burlesque style 'wenches' in those old wild west style saloon pubs! lol.. Maybe thats just me?

How does that old saying go? The ideal woman is a slut in the bedroom, and a great cook, and an obedient wife?? Oh i forget but its something like that, so I dont think I'd be hugely offended if somone called me a slut on jokey terms, but if its said in an offensive way I'd be unhappy!! lol Probably retort back with summat like 'Rather that than a frigid **** like u!!!'

I think they are out dated terms, nowadays women should be able to go out & have as much sex as they want so long as its between consenting adults and no one gets hurt.. and its safe.... IMO... Men have been doing this for centuries without anyone batting an eyelid..

As for people who have sex with attached people, then in my book they are just dishonest, filthy, home wreckers.... end of... lol.... Ooooh not at all judgemental am I ?!!
 restless_native

Joined: 12/17/2006
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Posted: 5/23/2008 1:59:11 AM
What about Harlot? You don't hear that term used very often these days.
 Miss Grundy

Joined: 4/5/2008
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Posted: 5/23/2008 2:07:33 AM
haha..Harlot's a good one, there's also Jezebel, Scarlet woman, Devil Woman and last but not least the wonderful ...Strumpet !!

As others have said, it's completely wrong to label people and I'd never call any woman names like that, maybe scrubber because that to me means someone common, ignorant and hateful - in fact the very sort of woman who would call another woman names out of spite, a woman who has no class at all.
 Ross PK

Joined: 3/4/2007
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What do you deem as a slut/slag/scrubber etc
Posted: 5/23/2008 2:50:10 AM
Hmmmm, that didn't come out right. I'll try and get back to this.
 peachyperfect

Joined: 4/19/2007
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Posted: 5/23/2008 2:51:43 AM
i dont deem anyone to be any of those thing..just because they have a very active and perhaps not very choosey sex life.

Small minded..pathetic to judge anyone on how many partners they have had or how they want to lead their sex lives.

i have issue over how people treat other people..not how many times a man or woman drops their knickers lol

Lou
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 miz Understood

Joined: 9/15/2006
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Posted: 5/23/2008 4:12:09 AM
I have been called a scrubber in a PM today!

This is by a forumite...In about the third or fourth mail since I asked him not to bother me again. In the reply to that message from me he said "and you don't message me..." He has only sent me two more. Tw@t.

Still he assures me he is going to block me, so can anyone confirm this means he will not be able to message me again.

Personally I feel that to avoid the small minded who like to label people, it is best to keep ones private life private. Gossip seldom enhances anyones reputation.
 johnnycomelately1

Joined: 3/14/2008
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Posted: 5/23/2008 4:35:45 AM

Gossip seldom enhances anyones reputation


Not necessarily true. "There's only one thing worse than being talked about..... Not being talked about. "

I wasn't aware calling a woman a slut was derogatory in an case. Ive always had a great reaction whenever Ive paid that compliment in the bedroom.


We still have the double standards... no matter how many people claim we haven't


I know its shocking really and so unfair. But long may it continue ! pmsl...
 -Mistress Malice-

Joined: 9/6/2007
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Posted: 5/23/2008 5:52:06 AM
I don't use any of those terms in reference to people who have multiple, indiscrimiate sex partners - I prefer the term "Morally Unencumbered"


Sod it - if they're practicing some kind of safe sex (and I don't mean giving a false name and phone number) then why the hell not? Men have been doing it for years - if a gal wants to carve away her bedpost one notch at a time, it's her business and no one elses... we should be less concerned, I think, with what goes on in other people's bedrooms.
 sweetness30

Joined: 10/14/2005
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Posted: 5/23/2008 7:03:30 AM
scrubber would have to be as in the term dirty scrubber, someone who does not use a condom with multiple partners, a prostitute, or similar

slag someone who has sex with all and sundry whom they barely know.

slut, dirty ****. .
 Kath111

Joined: 3/27/2008
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Posted: 5/23/2008 7:55:34 AM
Well i just googled slut,since i seem to remember it had a meaning akin to an unclean female?

I didnt quite get the answer i was looking for but my mind has been well and truly educated in other ways..eeekkk
 faithfey

Joined: 2/16/2008
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Posted: 5/23/2008 11:20:57 AM
A slag is someone who sleeps with everyone, a **** is someone who will sleep with everyone except YOU!

A whore is someone who can be bothered to get out of bed every morning to make it into the office, and occasionally wears a nice skirt, she's a dirty whore if she had a headache last night. They said so on Jeremy Kyle so we know it must be true!

A slut is someone who thinks that by 40 you should know how to launder and iron your own shirts

A woman in her prime , has moved through the ranks of mere floosy (first short skirt or dyed hair ), tart (knocked back spotty johnny at the school disco), harlot ( talks to someone else's hubby at the school gates).

Eventually if she plays her cards right will graduate to hussy, if she's real good she'll make it to brazen hussy right before it's time to collect her bus pass and become an "old bag who wears purple".
To be a brazen hussy is the prize.
 johnnycomelately1

Joined: 3/14/2008
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Posted: 5/23/2008 12:24:43 PM

tart (knocked back spotty johnny at the school disco)


Everybody called her a tart , not just me ! The reason had nothing to do with her morals or lack of but her surname was Bakewell. As for her turning me down.... you obviously didn't hear about the bike shed afterwards when I rode her home [none-handed] As for calling me spotty .... Well, I shan't lower myself to your level and resort to infantile name calling ' specky four eyes...!
 Gut_Reaction

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What do you deem as a slut/slag/scrubber etc
Posted: 5/23/2008 1:49:24 PM
Aww Miss Bakewell wouldn't allow poor spotty Johnny her cherry. No icing on the top of that tart was there matey and deffo no cream.
 astro08

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Posted: 5/25/2008 11:57:40 AM
tart = someone male or female who will do anything to get attention.
slut= someone who doesnt care who it is as long as they get their legover (again male or female)
slag= someone who will do anything for someone of the opposite sex to get validation. ie cybersex, dirty cam chats, meet for just sex. gives them a feeling of popularity.
scrubber = someone who doesnt care who they sleep with, doesnt take precautions ie condoms and passes disease.
well thats my definitions anyways.
 Kath111

Joined: 3/27/2008
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What do you deem as a slut/slag/scrubber etc
Posted: 5/25/2008 12:14:58 PM
Sllaaagg...likely to do it with your fella.
scrubber..likely to do it for half a lager and a bag of pork scratchings.
slut..........likely to do it well
 princessantonia

Joined: 12/14/2007
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Posted: 5/25/2008 3:11:25 PM

slut..........likely to do it well

Looooove it!! So true!
I believe that slag is some kind of rock - small pebbles or something, a scrubber being what you use for the washing up, but a slut is just a slut! And the ones that use it as a derrogatory term have either been turned down by one or is jealous of one.
 Ross PK

Joined: 3/4/2007
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What do you deem as a slut/slag/scrubber etc
Posted: 6/4/2008 5:01:16 AM
There's certainly a few people I can think of.
 COLIN079

Joined: 11/19/2007
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Posted: 6/4/2008 5:15:56 AM
You sound as though you are advocating Slutty behaviour i.e. infidelity. If you are a slut why not come out and say it?
 socialjustice

Joined: 5/28/2007
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Posted: 6/4/2008 8:58:17 AM

What do you deem as a slut/slag/scrubber etc?


someone who is getting more sex than the person calling them a slut/slag/scrubber.

 stuffedlemur

Joined: 7/2/2007
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Posted: 6/7/2008 7:29:54 AM
The ex wife!


Oh thats a bit harsh isnt it.
 susi..q

Joined: 5/24/2008
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Posted: 6/12/2008 2:27:51 PM
just thought I'd mention there's no such word as 'irregardless'.....................
 l3sl3y

Joined: 5/12/2008
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Posted: 6/12/2008 2:46:58 PM
so women who have lots of sex are slags/scrubbers???

What does that make the guys then?
 BearHeartUK

Joined: 11/15/2007
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Posted: 6/12/2008 2:49:28 PM

just thought I'd mention there's no such word as 'irregardless'


That is sooo picky susi, true but picky
slut/slag/scrubber

All words used by insecure people in order to put others down.......it's something most grow out of by their 20's

I've never used any of those words to describe anyone although I do use the word 'tart' in a loving way simply because it's funny
 gladitssummer

Joined: 4/26/2008
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Posted: 6/12/2008 2:49:46 PM
slag/slapper are terms I hear women use about other women more than men do
 l3sl3y

Joined: 5/12/2008
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Posted: 6/12/2008 3:03:24 PM
i prefer the word "trollope"

just love the way it just rolls off the tongue :)
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