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 talldogdad

Joined: 6/29/2008
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Posted: 7/4/2008 11:35:30 AM
i work with several Filipino women and they are not my favorite people. most of them are shallow, money hungry and just plain stupid. they are not exactly the brightest people in the world. all they do is gossip constantly and they are always eating too


Curveyone, Hmm..how do I put this delicately....from looking at your pics I'd really have to say that you commenting about Filipinas eating all of the time is really a case of the pot calling the kettle black, as you look quite a bit overweight and probably don't miss many meals.
Your profile has a angry tone to it...you,re pissed because guys who looked at you don't answer your emails. Just a hint...they looked and didn't like what they saw, that's why they didn't contact you.
 Smuggler1

Joined: 2/2/2008
Msg: 402
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Posted: 7/4/2008 11:38:21 AM

go to the Phillipines to find a woman? well that is one of the dumbest posts i've ever read!!
LOL... Oh really... why would that be one of the dumbest?? Because maybe it would be taking away from your potential dating pool?? Phillipines, Russia, Ukraine... There is a world of possiblities...


i work with several Filipino women and they are not my favorite people.
So, are you trying to date any of them?? If not.. maybe you should leave that up to the menfolk.


most of them are shallow, money hungry and just plain stupid. they are not exactly the brightest people in the world.
And you are??


all they do is gossip constantly and they are always eating too, at least the ones that i've worked with.
LOL... You do NOT look like you have missed too many lunches there ... Im sure you are aware of the saying, people in glass houses...


and of course there is their shoe penchant, they all own over 100 pairs and i'm not joking.
Maybe you are not joking, but you are stereotyping... Something I think you admonish in a later post..


yes i can see how they would make a good wife. they were all born over there and came here so that should tell you something.
Yeah, its called immigration. Look it up.


although to be honest, i also work with a Filipino guy but he's NOTHING like the women. he was born here though so that might be why.
So date him...
Sounds to me like you are one jealous woman. Bitter to boot!


Arlo, NOT every woman has over 100 pairs of shoes. if you think so, then you are stereotyping. i actually have a few woman friends who HATE shopping!! yes, can you believe that? seems they are missing the shopping gene.
Yeah, umm you cant have it both ways... dont go telling Arlo how badly he is stereotyping, when you do the EXACT same thing. I have several friends who are Filipino.. Have dated a few too.. But no, really... keep on posting, because apparently an American woman like yourself just has so much more to offer....
 ScaryClown

Joined: 4/2/2008
Msg: 403
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Posted: 7/4/2008 11:42:09 AM


Not exactly. You might be surprised. That's one reason I was really sad when I was reading the OP's post. It's not so easy for women.


Even still, on average, women have it vastly better than men when it comes to dating options. Maybe not easy, but easier. Yes, exactly.
 talldogdad

Joined: 6/29/2008
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Posted: 7/4/2008 12:00:28 PM
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I am not spoiled, I am not angry, I am scared. I am scared to fall in love with a woman and one day find out that she is/was a tramp. I want a woman that I can respect, and I would lose that instantly. Could you imagine falling in love with a woman, being in love with her, and not wanting her at the same time? That would be inhumane torture, and I don’t want that. (quote)

Translation, this was brilliant and right on the mark. It made something clear for me. Thanks for posting it.
 ismudgealot

Joined: 5/15/2008
Msg: 405
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Posted: 7/4/2008 12:01:19 PM
part of what I have found is I think that most of us both men and women hit the 40's and decided
not to just settle for anything maybe we have had past relationships that dealt with depression or some
type of malfunction as we see it and won't go there again. I too am starting to give a darn less and less
about finding someone in part that what I'm seeing in women is the expectations are too high and the same
probly could be said for some men . But it can be disapointing when it seem as if we are car shopping
so why shop at all when we don't need a new car?
 keyzguy369

Joined: 5/26/2008
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Posted: 7/4/2008 12:12:29 PM
WOW, ,,CURVEYONE,,,


IM SO GLAD YOU POSTED THAT MESS OF A BLOG....

NOW ALL,,,,,,,, THE PEOPLE WHO BELIVE I HAVE,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, ANGER ISSUES,,,,'

CAN SEE WHAT REALL ANGER ISSUSS ARE....

ALL ONE WOULD HAVE TO DO,,,,,,,, IS READ YOUR PROFILE TO SEE

true hatred for mankind,,,,,,,your a real life saver, let me tell you...

I feel so much better about my self that I want to send you flowers,,lots of flowers,,,

you,,,,,,,,, CURVEYONE,,, make me look like a nice guy...

and swo to stay on topic,,,,,,you,,, are the reason men go to the other countries seeking wives...

And I will add that in fact I went out with a philipina lady and she was without a dout the love of my life and nothing like that which you speak...

she was spotless in her being and soul,,, and i was 24 years old and did not want to get married...

If i had t9o name three mistakes i made in life,,,not marrying Chrissy was by far the biggest mistake i ever made,,,

and you really should not go around commenting on how the phillipina ladies you know never stop eating,,,,,

I find it hard to belive theres any food left for them, at the buffet after you get though,,,

IM JUST SAYING,,,,,,,,,,,,,

PS, CHRISSY had three suitcases wrth of clothes and shoes, and would get up at 4 am and msake me breakfst lunch and dinner, then pack it fresh and then go off to work and work 12 hours and so and so on,,,

The nicest lady I ever met in my life, without exception...!

And as I said, the one biggest mistake I ever made in my whole life as far as blunders go,,,

th3e keyzguy369
 Capitano_Blaugh

Joined: 3/18/2008
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Posted: 7/4/2008 12:12:31 PM

It means your 'sexual power' doesn't work on him - and I think some women find that threatening.


That IS one of the interesting things that I've noticed since I can't be bothered going out of my way to find a woman. Some really are taken aback by a man who has no interest in 'chasing' them.
 Jeep Mama

Joined: 12/15/2007
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Posted: 7/4/2008 12:30:36 PM
If you can be happy buying one ticket and going places solo, then more power to you. After you have had a taste of having someone to go and do things with, then flying solo is hard to do. If I ever get to the point that I want to get off the dating merry-go-round, then would have to make the best of flying solo.
 curveyone

Joined: 2/21/2007
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Posted: 7/4/2008 12:49:32 PM
talldog - judge much? how come you don't have a photo?? and just for the record, i have 5 men who want to meet me at the moment. i admit that i'm FAT, there does that make you happy? i said i'm a BBW and yes i LOVE to eat, that's all i do all day, sit here and shovel food into my fat face. if you're so athletic and good looking then prove and post a pic!!! at least i'm not hiding anything.
 curveyone

Joined: 2/21/2007
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Posted: 7/4/2008 12:51:30 PM
and YES i'm angry, it's because of all the ahole men on this site that i have anger issues. maybe you should all grow the f*ck up and grow a brain too.
 Erik da Viking

Joined: 3/23/2008
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Posted: 7/4/2008 12:55:44 PM

(curveyone) and YES i'm angry, it's because of all the ahole men on this site that i have anger issues. maybe you should all grow the f*ck up and grow a brain too.


Definitely a keeper, guys!

Arlo
 talldogdad

Joined: 6/29/2008
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Posted: 7/4/2008 2:38:37 PM

talldog - judge much? how come you don't have a photo?? and just for the record, i have 5 men who want to meet me at the moment. i admit that i'm FAT, there does that make you happy? i said i'm a BBW and yes i LOVE to eat, that's all i do all day, sit here and shovel food into my fat face. if you're so athletic and good looking then prove and post a pic!!! at least i'm not hiding anything.



There, I posted a pic just for you curveyone. I am athletic, but never claimed to be good looking...I've noticed it's usually the women who like to gush about how good looking they are here, ignoring the fact that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Your mindless rant about Filipinos was foolish. Good luck to those 5 guys who find you appealing.



and YES i'm angry, it's because of all the ahole men on this site that i have anger issues. maybe you should all grow the f*ck up and grow a brain too.


I was a boxer. I suggest you hang a heavy punching bag in your garage or basement, get some good bag gloves and use it! It is a great workout and a good aggressive outlet. Eating all day just isn't very healthy. Just Do It! you'll feel and look much better.

 punkgeek

Joined: 8/15/2005
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Posted: 7/4/2008 3:34:42 PM
I've never used these forums before - but isn't ironic that the OP was made around two years ago-And with all this tempest in a teapot drama on here, we are assuming that the tale he told was truth- (one of the claimants is a Catholic priest of all things)- What people claim and how they feel inside are two different things-
Yes punching bags are good - my drug is hiking-
Oh well -Happy 4th to you all-
 Smuggler1

Joined: 2/2/2008
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Posted: 7/4/2008 4:32:56 PM

talldog - judge much? how come you don't have a photo??
ROFL... Look who is talking about judging... You've already condemned an entire race of people by calling them fat, stupid and horders of shoes... DO YOU JUDGE MUCH??


and just for the record, i have 5 men who want to meet me at the moment.
ROFL..... And your point is? Some guys will do anything with enough beer... dont flatter yourself.


i admit that i'm FAT, there does that make you happy? i said i'm a BBW and yes i LOVE to eat, that's all i do all day, sit here and shovel food into my fat face. if you're so athletic and good looking then prove and post a pic!!! at least i'm not hiding anything.
Oh Aint that the truth there Sister...

So far, we've seen your attitude, your anger issues, your bigotry... What else would you like to provide us??


and YES i'm angry, it's because of all the ahole men on this site that i have anger issues. maybe you should all grow the f*ck up and grow a brain too.

Oh... so now you're blaming everyone else for your own anger issues. When you are the one spewing hate and anger about Fillipino women. I wonder if maybe you were in your "prime" (maybe 15 years ago, and about 40lbs lighter) when you got dumped by some guy for someone of south east asian descent? What is it that has you wound so tightly?

As for growing a brain. I see several people have posted against your vitrial, and have stated opinions that not only counter yours, but make you look foolish to boot... Maybe you should stop slamming yours against a brick wall... take a step back and let some air in.
 hearttwoheart

Joined: 12/11/2007
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Posted: 7/4/2008 4:42:46 PM
yes this is all very true and there are a lot of women now living w the same philosophy. unless your highly educated friends have all taken some personal statistical study on 10-100 women they've dated, sounds like they've gone out w only a few and convinced themselves this was indicative of the whole female population which is a very ignorant analogy. great to know there are people out there like that (and sounds like growing). i guess in a matter of years we'll be down to a "0" population growth rate as well as a lot of great left over wood shops.
 Capitano_Blaugh

Joined: 3/18/2008
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Posted: 7/4/2008 4:45:30 PM

- but isn't ironic that the OP was made around two years ago-And with all this tempest in a teapot drama on here, we are assuming that the tale he told was truth-


Better check again, man. OP was written two MONTHS ago.

I like tempests. I don't have much of an affinity for teapots or whatever comes out of them. I'm a coffee and beer guy, though I don't drink the two together. One's for early morning, the other's for late morning until whenever I fall down....

.... and besides, who REALLY tells the truth anyway?

Happy 4th to you too, my American cousin. I'm kinda pissed off, though, that you didn't wish us Canadians a Happy 1st, but I'll get over it. We're STILL the only country that ever kicked America's ass.....

 hearttwoheart

Joined: 12/11/2007
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Posted: 7/4/2008 4:47:46 PM
P.S. Tell your priest friend to also explain to you why the catholic church is almost down to a null and void recruitment rate of men willing to give up and think like he does which is why they've had to resort to deacons who are already married and already have families. If you and your 'guy' club enjoy each others company that much then just continue to keep dating each other which sounds like what you're already doing.
 PoeticBliss

Joined: 6/6/2007
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Posted: 7/4/2008 4:50:01 PM
God-- I hope its not a new social phenomenon either! This comment really sucks--- it shows us that men and women are learning all the more to live alone and not to live as partners ... which is really selfish when you come down to it.
Its a sad alternative to take because the sexes have divided themselves so far between each other --- that men are staring to say, "hey, we dont need ya!".
Well its out of anger if you ask me. This comment fills me with a sense of abandonment
and sorrow for sexuality, relations, romantic love and all the many wonderful fulfilling aspects of being with a partner and in a relationship.
I have met WAY too many men in my age bracket who DONT want to commit and it makes me ILL. I WANT a relationship -- one based on mutual love and support ... one that offers
cooperation and inter-dependency.
I dont think its a good idea for men or women FOR THAT MATTER to sit on the fence and turn away from one another.
Still hoping to have a REAL relationship, Poeticbliss
 Capitano_Blaugh

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Posted: 7/4/2008 4:51:35 PM

Tell your priest friend to also explain to you why the catholic church is almost down to a null and void recruitment rate of men willing to give up and think like he does which is why they've had to resort to deacons who are already married and already have families. If you and your 'guy' club enjoy each others company that much then just continue to keep dating each other which sounds like what you're already doing.


Why so bitter and angry? Why stoop to slagging a guy for his choices? When women make similar proclamations, most women jump on the band wagon waving nicely scented candles in the air yelling, " You go girl! You don't NEED a man! You got the POWWWWwAH! "

I love when women feel they can't control something.

 Capitano_Blaugh

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Posted: 7/4/2008 4:57:37 PM

Its a sad alternative to take because the sexes have divided themselves so far between each other --- that men are staring to say, "hey, we dont need ya!".
Well its out of anger if you ask me. This comment fills me with a sense of abandonment


Well, many of us have been taking the lessons we've learned over the past 25 years very seriously. Mostly what we've done is copy or at least react to the Woman's Dating and Relationship Manual. We've learned some important stuff by studying and observing how women go about things.

Contrary to popular female myth, men are not nearly as stupid as you have been led to believe by all your sistas.


 beadonna

Joined: 9/9/2007
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Posted: 7/4/2008 5:36:06 PM

Maybe, but who's 'sitting a home...' - I'm out in the big world both mentally and physically playing and having fun, and I know tons of singles doing the same. I not sittin at home being miserable about being alone.


what he said

and thanks, coruja, for reminding me to take what i like and leave the rest
 bralda-him

Joined: 8/15/2007
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Posted: 7/4/2008 5:46:40 PM
If it were not for Asians, teenagers and or beer, this could mean the eventual extinction of mankind. Ever see the movie "Last man on planet earth", it was a sad world IMO.
I for one still live in the fairytale land where girls are looking for true love and a lasting, mutually beneficial, monogamous relationship.

But then again I have not had one leave and take me for everything I have....haha
 neondove

Joined: 12/6/2007
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Posted: 7/4/2008 6:07:34 PM

Why so bitter and angry? Why stoop to slagging a guy for his choices? When women make similar proclamations, most women jump on the band wagon waving nicely scented candles in the air yelling, " You go girl! You don't NEED a man! You got the POWWWWwAH! "
I love when women feel they can't control something.



I've never understood why women have to proclaim how independent they are , who the **** cares , I don't think I've ever heard a man say that , ever.
 beadonna

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Posted: 7/4/2008 6:16:05 PM

I've never understood why women have to proclaim how independent they are , who the **** cares , I don't think I've ever heard a man say that , ever.


i'm thinking maybe it has something to do with the fact that until about 60 years ago (when the male population was in Europe fighting WWII) was the first time that women were widely accepted in the workplace to do something other than nurse or teach, and that the "average" woman was thoroughly expected to be completely dependent financially on her husband while she stayed home raising the children and having little true choice in the matter

that wasn't so long ago.........
 jadegreen

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Posted: 7/4/2008 6:16:32 PM
Yeah I'd rather be alone than accept the new FWB relationships and being potrayed as so normal.....I don't consider it normal...I will not allow a man to use me for sex...I don't need sex so desperately that I will settle for that...I've also been brainwashed by some into making me think it was so normal. I do come from a Christian upbringing. Eve was created to be Adam's companion not to be his FWB in the garden. This lil POF lady is not fooled by society's new ideas that are being played off as so "normal"...if these trends continue it will be the end of the normal family unit as we know it...the future generation of kids will never know the secure family life of having a mother and father that love one another and love them as well....I will have no part of encouraging this idea for the sake of the next generation of kids....I will be able to look the kids in the eyes when I get old and know I did not encourage this change in society...
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