| Would you be interested in becoming
Posted: 5/23/2008 10:10:07 AM | If I was with someone and they didn't orgasm, I would feel dissappointed in that they were not turned on by me. Yes, it would be a let down. You want to feel attractive to your partner and if not so I wouldn't want to waste my time with them.
Compatibility is important , I don't have to have sex with them. It is about liking the other person and wanting to know them. Friendship. | |
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| Would you be interested in becoming
Posted: 5/23/2008 11:08:43 AM | | Has anyone read the OP's profile? Trust me, when you read it and look at the pictures, I think you will regret having responded to this thread. It is quite ridiculous to say the least. Whoever mentioned this guy getting a psychological examination was right and it had nothing to do with this guy not orgasming! | |
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| Would you be interested in becoming
Posted: 5/23/2008 2:07:04 PM | | I think this guy isn't orgasming for other reasons. I won't say though. That way it's not malicious in intent and not benevolent at the same time. | |
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| Men who can't Orgasm during Sex
Posted: 5/23/2008 2:23:35 PM | | Those women in your pic look like they are from the eastern block, and even they look bored shitless.......maybe they read your profile like I just did zzzzzzz g'nite zzzzzz | |
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| so, elaine88....
Posted: 5/23/2008 4:35:56 PM | You are not supporting my nomination of the OP for the NExt Pope... | |
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| Men who can't Orgasm during Sex
Posted: 5/23/2008 4:59:05 PM | I started this trend to see if anyone else has similar problems who learned to leave with it or got over it, it is a important part of life, I am not lying about any of it. Nor am I looking to be judged, criticized or looking for a hand out.
Stop addressing and attack me, I have done nothing wrong my whole life or hurt and insulted anyone to deserve your debasing criticism just like someone with a handicap and physically impaired would you insult and attack him?
Address the issue of this trend and not the person representing it, we all have our problems if you like insulting handicapped people, and the mental and physical disabled you got worse problems you need to fix in your self. | |
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| Men who can't Orgasm during Sex
Posted: 5/23/2008 5:05:42 PM | you said no girl has ever helped you along to an orgasm... how about guys? 
ok just kidding. honestly though you should probably see a shrink. thats a psycological thing, and you owe it to yourself to fix your schween | |
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| Men who can't Orgasm during Sex
Posted: 5/23/2008 5:10:03 PM |
Stop addressing and attack me, I have done nothing wrong my whole life or hurt and insulted anyone to deserve your debasing criticism just like someone with a handicap and physically impaired would you insult and attack him?
No, but that person wouldn't be silly enough to post something as ridiculous as this on a forum on a dating site. They would go seek the professional help that they truly need, like from a doctor. They wouldn't try to promote what you are as a lure to get women.
What you have done is akin to a physically challenged guy bragging about much of a disability benefit he gets so he doesn't have to work so he can give a woman sexual pleasure all day and night. And yes, I would call that person out and make fun of them because it's ridiculous. Just like what you are saying. Have you even read your profile?
Jeebus, dude. People have addressed the issue of this THREAD and given you perfectly good advice that you said no to right away. That's when I begin to NOT take you seriously. You're the guy who complains about ridiculous crap and asks for help but gives every reason in the world why you don't agree with the advice given. The advice in this thread has been very consistent......seek medical and psychological help to get over your "affliction". No one here is going to magically give you any miracle advice, besides you wouldn't take it even if it were offered.
Now back to your regularly scheduled whine-fest from someone that doesn't really have any problems.......... | |
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| Men who can't Orgasm during Sex
Posted: 5/24/2008 9:59:10 AM |
ummm that has nothing to do with. I'm cut and have never had any problems getting aroused or ejaculating, so you can throw that theory right out the window.
considering the foreskin has lots of nerves, removing it means less fealing. so there's no theory to throw out the window... | |
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| Men who can't Orgasm during Sex
Posted: 5/24/2008 11:25:00 AM | ( ( th helpfull otherposter wrote:)
you said no girl has ever helped you along to an orgasm... how about guys?
ok just kidding. honestly though you should probably see a shrink. thats a psycological thing, and you owe it to yourself to fix your schween )
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The OP may also wish to sample woody allen's infamous Albanian Ewe... Dance, banana dance! | |
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| Men who can't Orgasm during Sex
Posted: 5/25/2008 12:06:31 AM | | I think people were mean taking the mickey out of his pics, I mean, hes slept his way around the world so maybe his pics just dont do him justice!!?.. Seriously though I dont think thats ever acceptable.....its just plain nasty.....We can work on our personalities and hangups but we cant change what we look like.... | |
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| Men who can't Orgasm during Sex
Posted: 7/8/2008 2:17:46 AM | | I don't like sexual intercourse for this reason.I get hard and start to have sexual intercourse then I go soft.It 's not the woman fault in my case.I can cum by fast and hard masterbation only.I still like to please women. Mostly through giving her oral,masterbating her with my finger and dildos I refuse to take that viagra stuff though | |
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| Men who can't Orgasm during Sex
Posted: 7/8/2008 7:31:25 AM | Well OPie, I'm going to jump into the fray on this one. I've seen your posts in other threads and understand you position yourself in the same realm as Style, Mystery, etc.. OK, cool. But in your intro headline of your profile you say "..Never met a woman I couldn't satisfy". But then you have this thread going about not orgasming during sex.
Time to let you in on a little secret...your inability to orgasm is very unsatisfying to most women. Granted, while an extending f***ing session is great and all, women need...not just want...they NEED an emotional attachment to have the most incredibly powerful, mind-blowing orgasms. And with that, they need to feel that they have satisfied you. So when you don't orgasm from being with them, they are emotionally shaken to their very core. Moreover, the mental imagery you've instilled in them about how great it's going to be has been shattered. They need to feel they are an intense, intimate part of your orgasm...heck, I've had g/f's that swore they had orgasms just from watching me go through a prolonged (like 1-2 minute) orgasm.
So let's drop the crap about satisfying women...they're not truly satisfied...yes, they're well-f***ed and smiling, but satisfied...ehhhhhh, not so much.
Which brings us to how you do have orgasms with a woman...Develop deep emotional bonds...yes, even (gasp) dependencies on her in the sense of not only her being your best friend (yeah, your wingman will be PO'ed at this comment), but also that your her best friend, to the point of exclusion of others (IOW, quit plying your trade). It's gonna suck for a while...but the you obviously made a set of changes to get you into the attraction mode, now it's time to learn to do something adult and meaningful with it.
Here's the secret...it's not about keeping score...or bragging about how great you are. Cassanova was quoted to have said "A great lover is not a man who makes passionate love to a different woman every night; a great lover is a man who makes passionate love to the same woman every night."
Bottom line...you ain't cumming cause your heart isn't in it...and the girls know that...and as such, they know you're going to be hitting the road soon so their heart isn't really into it enough to want to make you stay.
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| Men who can't Orgasm during Sex
Posted: 7/8/2008 9:20:40 AM | | The poster is a troll, when he first had his profile up, he had how he was a virgin and feel sorry for me and all this crap. The next time I looked at his profile, he had that he was a porn star. He is a kid with some mental issues. He thought that all women were looking for is a man that could go all the time and when we pointed out that there was something the matter with his head, he stopped posting on this thread and had even taken his pictures down. I didn't check again, but last time I checked, he has photos with women to make it look like he is all that. I really believe he needs mental help. | |
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| Men who can't Orgasm during Sex
Posted: 7/8/2008 11:15:30 AM | Happened to me once. For the life of me, I couldn't get off! But I wasn't attracted to her so I chalked it up to that. I thought I could "do" anybody bet apparently not, so now I know.
Life lessons friends, life lessons... | |
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| Men who can't Orgasm during Sex
Posted: 7/8/2008 12:13:10 PM | | Could be stress, I had a case when I couldn't even if my life depended on it. I thought it was a good thing but it was really the fact that the woman was driving me crazy and my body acted out in frustration. | |
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Joined: 6/24/2008
Msg: 42 | |
| Men who can't Orgasm during Sex
Posted: 7/8/2008 9:21:15 PM | | I dont know. I mean you say that you have been with over 40 women and you cant cum. I know guys cant do it sometimes but thats more emotional. I dont believe its all physical. Sounds like a joke if you ask me. | |
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eazk
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| Men who can't Orgasm during Sex
Posted: 7/9/2008 8:02:31 AM | Somehow I envision a lot of recently divorced guys are reading the above post and thinking "Hey...my ex...I've got just the woman for him".
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| Men who can't Orgasm during Sex
Posted: 8/9/2008 12:54:52 PM | I have a male friend who has a simular problem have known him some years.We have spoke about this in great detail. He has had problems having orgasms and erections during ,or dosant last long in the process.We narrowed it down to a couple of things.He divorced his x wife due to her having an affair in their house ,he didnt know about it. And has never got over it 10 years now. He never went out for the first 3 only to work.Since then has lacked in the bedroom department.Another reason we thought didnt help was the types of medication he was on.Also some women he slept with also were not sure of themselves in the bedroom side of things.
It could be a variety of things.If you find a gf that really likes you and will take the time to find out what the problem is. Things can only get better.
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| Men who can't Orgasm during Sex
Posted: 8/9/2008 1:23:57 PM | | Hey, you are not the only one, and it does not has to be because you are cut or uncut, I am myself uncut and have that problem( advantage) too, but I take medicine to help it easy, and it has nothing to do with sensation, believe me I get plenty of it, so, my recomendation is start always with the lady, then make her start with oral and then move along to the sexual intercourse, also drink a lot of caffeine, it helps; hopefully my tips will help you and good luck... | |
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| Men who can't Orgasm during Sex
Posted: 8/9/2008 1:33:41 PM | Those women in your pic look like they are from the eastern block, and even they look bored shitless.......maybe they read your profile like I just did zzzzzzz g'nite zzzzzz
Love that line...
Anybody have smiley that raises a BS flag? | |
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| Men who can't Orgasm during Sex
Posted: 8/9/2008 5:27:33 PM | Ok, This sounds very odd, and I have to ask, are you sure your not Gay, you say you get no joy or pleasure, but Im assuming your only trying it with women.. this may be the problem..
Another thought.. you mentioned condoms being uncomfortable for you, I myself have NEVER achieve orgasm while using a condom, I simply,, have you ever tried it without them.?
just a few thoughts.. | |
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