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i suppose my initial message was to break the ice with some flirty humour, which did have the desired effect!

So, you've broken the ice with humor and flirts....you continue beating the living crap out of the ice with flirts and ignoring her opening...You PLAN to whack away at the ice for at least one more email before telling her ANYTHING?
The ice is water now, you're beating a bowl of water, not breaking the ice. Serve the damn drink already!

If you're going to whine about her not giving you what you want at least add ONE sentence that doesn't sound like you're stroking your penis waiting for her to cyber pleasure you!!!!!!!!!!

As one poster mentioned you refused to say anything about ANYTHING but her body. And you didn't even attack it as a whole. Just the legs. Not complimenting anything else.

A poster mentioned your profile, but I didn't glance at it because I don't care all that much....If her profile is filled out and yours is not you ought to say SOMETHING. She's giving you the chance to tell her something beyond the four traits she already knows: You are attracted to her, you are attracted to her legs, you are male, and your screenname.

You've given her nothing more than a construction worker yelling cat calls. How many stories do you hear about women taking them up on it?
"How did you know daddy was the one?"
"When he tilted his hat and told me my legs go well together but they'd be better apart with him between them."

^^^Is that the common tale? You know WHY it isn't the common tale?

Would you recommend i send a message of apology or should i leave it?

A reply is not always positive, and while you took it as working as a woman I disagree with you. When a woman responds with We'll see, what we are saying to you is Prove to us your worth it, show us what you want and who you are. So in reality, it was her flirt back that was leaving the door open for more but sadly when you responded stating you were hoping for a picture you slammed the door on it. had you left that line there - then went on to a subject that was not visual or superficial I would bet you would have gotten a reply. You were given an opportunity to prove to her why she should show you, and unfortunately you blew it. You may disagree but think about it for a moment and you may see if multiple women on here are telling you the same thing, well maybe we know what we are talking about.

^^ Your getting far to defensive, she was not stating emphatically that you were, just stating that when women get messages that are flirty about body parts and remains on that topic past the first compliment it is how it sounds, like sexual fodder. We are not stating that is your intent or what you were doing, we are just stating that the perception is that.

All we are telling you is on the second email along with the flirty comments just add in some more detailed questions or comments that are not about appearance but about her character her as a person. I cant speak for all women but I can tell you when I get a second message from someone with that only superficial content again, I don't respond because they are keeping our communication to physical only. It is almost like a 2 strikes your out rule. May not be fair but it happens

If you are truly attracted to her (as much as is possible based on what can be seen or read in her profile), then it wouldn't hurt to send another e-mail. The worst that can happen is she could block you. The best that can happen is that she could see something in your e-mail that she likes and she could open the door for more communication.

If I was in her situation, I would have been disappointed when I saw that the second e-mail showed no interest in me as a person. If this is how she is feeling, then you need to find a way that shows you have character and are interested in her personality. Let her know that the two of you share some of the same interests. Show her that you have depth and that you can see something in her other than her body.

If you decide to send another e-mail, continue to be flirty and fun, when appropriate. She seems to like that, but be sure to show her more of who you are and do your best to learn more of who she is.

It doesn't matter if you are the most perfect man in the world for her if she is never able to know that. If you seem to be interested only in her body, she will perceive that to be true, even if it is not. Early in relationships, perception is everything

But... then how can i analyse the situation and rectify my mistake if i have nothing to go on?

Try reading the ice breaker comment. You quoted my whole post but did you READ anything besides the penis stroking? "sound like" is not, "proof that you are and no other option." It SOUNDS LIKE you're doing x, because when you are INCAPABLE of telling her anything besides, "I want your legs" what other conclusion can we come to but, you ONLY want her legs. That is the only thing you've mentioned in all your oppourtunity, so what would make her think there is anything else? It's not like you're giving her much, just leg comments. Since you did not state you are a prosthetics person and looking for a good leg mold, you are likily just a regular guy who values nothing but her legs. Most commonly that would be sexual.

Take it easy!

If, in two months, we get a post about some psycho cyber stalker who is obessed with legs and even found her after she closed her last three accounts, I'm comin' back and blaming you, leg man!

I reply when it's convenient for me to do so. Pretty simple actually.

I'm afraid i can't find her profile to be able to apologise!!

It is obvious your shift works to put the capital I at the begining of the sentence, so it is obviously just totally laziness on your part to not use it in the sentence. Please read the threads about people being able to read emails. Laziness is a red flag to some people.