| Freaking out when a girl looks through your cell phone..?
Posted: 5/24/2008 9:33:33 AM | Birds of a feather flock together. Please remind your friend to "Hang with the winners". If your dating a thug , badboy, rockandroll tatoo freak, or HS dropout, things will continue to go this way, or get worse. Good men are looking for intelligent, active, disciplined, hardworking, honest, open and spiritual women.
Now that she knows what freaks him out....she can either learn from experieince and accept things, dump him, or keep on same ole same ole. | |
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| Freaking out when a girl looks through your cell phone..?
Posted: 5/24/2008 9:48:49 AM | | My ex used to look through my phone all the time. Didn't bother me. One day I picked up his phone and as soon as I opened it, he snatched it out of my hand. Of course I flipped out about it and nagged till I got a straight answer out of him why it was ok for him to go through my phone without permission but not the other way around. He eventually told me there were text messages from a female coworker that he didn't want me to "take the wrong way". I wasn't even mad about that (and yes, he was seeing her behind my back), but the fact that he acted like a child was what pissed me off more. | |
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| Freaking out when a girl looks through your cell phone..?
Posted: 5/24/2008 1:15:07 PM | My exhusband wanted to see my new phone. He checked out my pictures but I think he wished he didnt. He saw some really hot guys in some below the belt shots and some naked pictures of me also. I have nothing to hide.
Dont worry (you know who) it was last month so you didnt send me your picture yet but it is my new screen saver. Keep those pictures coming please | |
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| Freaking out when a girl looks through your cell phone..?
Posted: 5/24/2008 8:36:21 PM |
She thinks this means he has something to hide.
Maybe not...some people just dont like other people going through their stuff...wether they are hiding something or not.
I know they are dating but keep in mind that the what's mineis yours phrase does not apply to everyone's way of life. | |
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| Freaking out when a girl looks through your cell phone..?
Posted: 5/25/2008 12:36:29 AM | If it's a new phone then she should have asked to view it. Viewing it does not give her the right to snoop through it. Nobody snoops through my phone however, they are free to look at it if it turns them on that much.
this guy and her CONSTANTLY fight .....Appears to be a rocky relationship anyway.....lack of trust perhaps??? | |
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~Kyn~
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| Freaking out when a girl looks through your cell phone..?
Posted: 5/25/2008 3:43:51 AM | If he freaked he likely had something to hide.
Wouldnt occur to me to not let anyone see my phone.
Wouldnt occur to me to look through another person's phone either.
However...after the way he reacted...I sure as hell would wanna take a look through his.
Its funny...people usually get caught out after they've ridiculously over-reacted to something that meant absolutely nothing at the time but then sets off the warning bells. | |
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| Freaking out when a girl looks through your cell phone..?
Posted: 5/25/2008 5:29:16 AM |
If he freaked he likely had something to hide.
Wouldnt occur to me to not let anyone see my phone.
Wouldnt occur to me to look through another person's phone either.
However...after the way he reacted...I sure as hell would wanna take a look through his.
Its funny...people usually get caught out after they've ridiculously over-reacted to something that meant absolutely nothing at the time but then sets off the warning bells.
This "He values his privacy/doesn't want people frigging with his stuff means he has something to hide!" attitude is amusing. I value my privacy/don't like people frigging with my stuff, but I don't have anything to hide! So, I have all the disadvantages of being a private person, but none of the advantages of having something sneaky going on the side! I'm being short-changed here... 
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| Freaking out when a girl looks through your cell phone..?
Posted: 5/25/2008 5:31:22 AM | People who fight all the time do not belong together. The phone isn't the problem here it's simply a symptom of a much larger disease.
She needs to drop him like a bad habit.
Life is too short to waste on such drama. | |
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| Freaking out when a girl looks through your cell phone..?
Posted: 5/25/2008 7:22:12 AM | Aha, now I see why so many SINGLES are around....Because, for the simple fact that some of us, don't believe in being open with our partners, and have problem in the infidelity department....Most of the articles I've read use the word "someone's phone." RELATIONSHIP is a strong term, which goes with TRUST, HONESTY, ........ECT........
The point here is, this woman happens to be this man's girfriend and not just someone. No one wants to probe through a stranger's phone. Right? You have to be insane to do that. And who knows whether they were not into a serious relationship?
If there is a relationship, BOTH should be open with each other, there should be NOTHING to hide from each other. And there must be TRUST. On the other hand, maybe, he give her a reason to be suspicious, and if she had asked, he would have lied... So true.
Now, guys/gals you know, if your mate give you any reasons not to TRUST him/her or strange telephone calls that come in, you know you will definitely want to know who's calling your mate, Especially if the call seems suspicious.. come on now,.. be real and empathetic. | |
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~Kyn~
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| Freaking out when a girl looks through your cell phone..?
Posted: 5/26/2008 2:33:21 PM | "He values his privacy/doesn't want people frigging with his stuff means he has something to hide!" attitude is amusing.
Ya know...he flipped out...read the OP.
If he didnt feel comfortable thinking she might *do* something to the phone (break it*?*)...he coulda stood over her shoulder and watched her...or held the phone himself and showed her the features.
To freak and snatch something away indicates somethings up whether it is or not and you're gonna reap what you sow.
Plant the seed of doubt in someone through your own recluse and idiocy...then wanna point the finger at them? Yeah that makes absolute sense and yet...the world doesnt revolve around YOU...its the signals you send another person.
Behave like a slut...you'll be treated as one.
Behave like an idiot...you'll be treated as one.
Behave defensively...you'll insprire deception & suspicion
ie. Action......> Reaction
Im an exceptionally private person myself...but I dont over-react over something as trivial as a phone.
Seriously...its not bloody bank account details.
And YES...how a person reacts over something trivial IS in more cases than not an indication of guilt...that aint rocket science.
Cheaters for example...dont hook up with suspicious people...
...they hook up with people who trust them so they can get away with it.
Its just life.
More power to you for being so private you'd feel it necessary to snatch an object over nothing.
Im not a suspicious person by nature by any means, you get my trust up front...Cant say...in all the time I was with my ex...I ever even went to his wallet.
But...gimme reason to doubt and I jump to the wrong conclusion...fair call...I'll eat my words & apologise...do it more than once...its you and your behavior and your ridiculous privacy issues...not me.
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| Freaking out when a girl looks through your cell phone..?
Posted: 5/26/2008 3:05:17 PM | I allow most anyone to use my phone at their leisure.
I don't usually have anything to hide, and if I do, it comes out sooner rather than later anyway.
I would be wary of a boyfriend who didn't want me seeing something in his phone. | |
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| Freaking out when a girl looks through your cell phone..?
Posted: 5/26/2008 3:30:01 PM | (Arlo) "He values his privacy/doesn't want people frigging with his stuff means he has something to hide!" attitude is amusing.
(~Kyn~) Ya know...he flipped out...read the OP.
I did. I still find this attitude of "Something to hide = hanky-panky!" to be amusing in the extreme.
If he didnt feel comfortable thinking she might *do* something to the phone (break it*?*)...he coulda stood over her shoulder and watched her...or held the phone himself and showed her the features.
Then you lot would be harping on his "paternalistic" behaviour. Admit it.
To freak and snatch something away indicates somethings up whether it is or not and you're gonna reap what you sow.
Plant the seed of doubt in someone through your own recluse and idiocy...
*shrug* Then, I guess we'd never be right for each other. My stuff is my stuff; don't go messing with my stuff. I can make whatever rules I want for stuff I bought and paid for, and if the way I behave doesn't float your boat, then we'll just be two ships passing in the night, eh?
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| Freaking out when a girl looks through your cell phone..?
Posted: 5/26/2008 6:03:18 PM | | Ok the fighting is a sign that there is something wrong in the relationship. She knows he is cheating on her but hasnt had the proof yet to convince herself yet. Thats why she wanted to look at the phone. People have said she is snooping no she is not. You know when you are being played for a fool and there is always signs that most people choose to ignore. You can ask anyone who has had a cheating partner you always know but you dont want to believe it. | |
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| Freaking out when a girl looks through your cell phone..?
Posted: 5/27/2008 12:20:16 AM | Uhmm, we know what y'all mean when you want to see the phone. First it's the phone then next thing you're moving the litter box into our bathroom. Number one reason all my cell phone does is talk.
It doesn't even hold numbers. If you check it says, refer to black book.
But seriously, he's doing her best friend. She should drop him asap. | |
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~Kyn~
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Joined: 2/15/2008
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| Freaking out when a girl looks through your cell phone..?
Posted: 5/27/2008 6:48:51 AM | *shrug* Then, I guess we'd never be right for each other. My stuff is my stuff; don't go messing with my stuff. I can make whatever rules I want for stuff I bought and paid for, and if the way I behave doesn't float your boat, then we'll just be two ships passing in the night, eh?
Works for me...just dont be touching MY ship as I pass...after all...its not yours its mine and I bought it and I paid for it and....and....and....and...but mum...she's got more in her glass than meeeeeeee!!!!!
That kinda childish crap reminds of the way kids whine "dont touch that its MINE" 
Just ridiculous and yet...so amusing in a patronising kinda way. | |
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| Freaking out when a girl looks through your cell phone..?
Posted: 5/27/2008 6:51:03 AM | The point here is, this woman happens to be this man's girfriend and not just someone. No one wants to probe through a stranger's phone. Right
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No, the real point is, these two are nutcases and always squabbling. The 'title' of BF or GF does not entitle anyone to more than normal people expect. Of course people should be open with each other, and RESPECTFUL of each other...In this case we have two nutcases incapable of normal behavior and expectations. I'd love to see their traffic record, school grades, etc. They are children, I think that's the point.
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(((Behave like a slut...you'll be treated as one.
Behave like an idiot...you'll be treated as one.
Behave defensively...you'll insprire deception & suspicion)))
I concur, thank you.
Remember, "Hang with the winners".
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| Freaking out when a girl looks through your cell phone..?
Posted: 5/27/2008 6:56:52 AM | as I have said, I have nothing to hide, and I like privacy. Why do I like "hiding it", I'm not. I just don't want to be accused of cheating, getting yelled at... or have to explain that courtney is a 36 year old 6'3" black guy, that was in my refreasher class. To have her call me a liar, and have her call and ask for courtney to find out it is a black guy. Or to have her call one of the females in my phone, only to find out it is a cousin or a friend at work to help me do my work. (I'm a truck driver, so alot of these places these people have been before)It would be easier for me to tell her to keep her snooping eyes out of my personal stuff.
OP. Your friend should dump the guy, he would be better off without her insecurities. She has some major issues to work out before she can become a decent person.
Behave like a slut...you'll be treated as one.
Behave like an idiot...you'll be treated as one.
Behave defensively...you'll insprire deception & suspicion
One can only laugh at this statement. I seen virgins act like sluts.. why? attention! I seen people act like idiots, (many fields)one is a doctor.... there is normally genuis behind such behavior.. ever heard of patch adams... and not the movie.. the real doctor. | |
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~Kyn~
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Joined: 2/15/2008
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| Freaking out when a girl looks through your cell phone..?
Posted: 5/27/2008 6:59:12 AM |
Remember, "Hang with the winners".
~Kyn~ Appears on 61 members favorites lists
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Hows that working out eh?
Freaking out when a girl looks through your cell phone..?
Maybe OP...just maybe...he didnt want her to see he didnt have any friends.
*just a thought*
Edit:
Yes, knowing more people on a site for folks who can't meet people on their own really proves that you are smarter. /sarcasm
*blinks*....
Thats it...?
Stating the fricken obvious here...you're here too *lol*
Should we mention anyone elses favorites list? Nah...too easy.
Maybe a couple of you could put each other on your lists and exchange cellphone numbers.
*just another thought*
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