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 Spoken For

Joined: 12/26/2007
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asking alot?
Posted: 5/23/2008 5:54:24 PM
I don't want 100% of anyone's attention. I just want to feel appreciated and loved. I want to just have that "knowing" that you love me even when I'm not with you. I want to know I'm special to you, and I want to feel like you put our relationship first.

I won't ask for anything I'm not willing to give. If I feel like you are willing to put as much into our relationship as I am, I will be very content.
 actualizing

Joined: 5/2/2008
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Posted: 5/23/2008 6:54:59 PM
A man is always allowed to be himself and so is the girlfriend. Enough attention is just that, enough. A man knows what the fine line is, so does the woman. It's all va et vien, give and take. I guess the cheating part is the real question here. Why would a man or a woman cheat on his or her partner rather than bringing up the "attention" question? That is the mystery and communication is the key. It always comes down to that.
 smileee4u

Joined: 11/8/2007
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Posted: 5/23/2008 6:58:56 PM
Even if you give the woman one hundred percent attention, if her self esteem is low, she will still cheat.... in order to prove to herself that she can receive attention from more than just you. She wants to feel powerful about her looks, she wants to think that she can "rule the world" and manipulate the cards in her direction with everyone out there. This is why women cheat. They want to prove to themselves they are "still desireable" to a number of male suitors. This makes women feel powerful.
 Eddie2704

Joined: 3/27/2008
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Posted: 5/24/2008 2:51:18 AM
Well, Ladies and gentlemen. I don't mean this to sound ugly but i don't think i could stand being around a woman all the time. Even if i loved her. Sometimes a person needs to take a breath that someone else hasn't already taken. There are times when i want to do things with her. (That's when you are suppose to give her 100% of your attention), Then there are times that i want to do what i want to do. So, With that said, If my wife wanted to "chat up" the mail man while i was out in the junk yard hunting that elusive part that i can't seem to find then all i can say is, Good luck mail man. Maybe you will have better luck keeping her satisfied than i did.
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