| HELP Me get my Ex Back!
Posted: 5/25/2008 2:07:25 PM | I just heard about a man that had saved himself for 26 years and found the lady of his dreams, only to find that she had been a paid escort in order to make her way through college, so he wanted to dump her for that--only he had never found such love before. He told her that even though she'd messed around for years, it was SHE who was and would always be Queen of his heart--they got married and lived happily ever after in Bellingham, Washington.
Maybe if you just told the lady that it was SHE you loved, and you didn't know how much until you tried living without her, and you would like her foregiveness, she will take you back? Best wishes.  | |
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| HELP Me get my Ex Back!
Posted: 5/25/2008 2:26:12 PM | | Honestly, I don't think you can get her back. Sounds to me like she already has this vision of you as a party boy. She probably sees that the grass really IS greener and has moved on. Especially if you've said the kinds of things you said to her. She's probably tired of having her feelings hurt ( i know the feeling alllll too well!) and she probably will (or has) moved on. I know you said you've changed and blah blah blah...but no one can change 100% and i'm sure she knows this. My best advice is to move on. Chalk it up to a lesson learned and go find someone to love when your ready to love someone.... | |
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| HELP Me get my Ex Back!
Posted: 5/25/2008 2:26:36 PM | | Wow, traveling and going on your "walkabout" for a year like you mentioned in one of your replies will really work. Let's see, leave her alone for a year while you go and have fun, and then come back out of the blue and say okay honey Im ready to get married now. What planet did you say your from?? | |
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| HELP Me get my Ex Back!
Posted: 5/25/2008 2:26:49 PM | | so look here...you were and are still a Jerk...she is better off without you as you are better off without her....I also have been a Jerk to someone..and I have emotionally destroyed a couple of people...but there is this little saying what goes around....come on you know it..anyway just forget it and move on...even if she had wanted you and loved you with her entire heart and soul...you ruined it and she is obviously moving on with her life...since you yourself said she has been sleeping with other people...so you need to pick up and move along...you need also to grow up and mature much more than you have done in just a few short months...but I will not preach...god knows I have no right to do that...but I wish you luck in any and every thing you choose to do...but for your sake and hers....leave her alone and if she is inclined to return to you she will...but I doubt that | |
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| HELP Me get my Ex Back!
Posted: 5/25/2008 2:37:54 PM | Sweetie.....your 24 so I'll assume shes about the same age. That means you have been together since late teens or age 20. She had 4 wonderful years with you and now you let her go out into the big wide world and she will def. want to see whats going on there.
Get on with your life. Keep in touch if you must, and if you are meant to be together, eventually you will be. No one can HELP you get her back. That's her choice. And would you want her if you have to do it on someone else's advise. It wouldnt be your doing and probably wont last.
Good Luck on your walk about........................ | |
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| HELP Me get my Ex Back!
Posted: 7/9/2008 12:55:41 AM | Do you really love her? I mean really? If, so you should do what you've heard before--set her free. Sounds like you are really concerned with yourself and how much you miss her, and maybe you're not thinking about her and what she needs. Have you really thought about why she might take you back instead of coming up with a stategy to reclaim her?
One of the best things about life is that you can totally screw up something and still be able to get out of bed the next day and try something else fresh. Yes its scary but you get to try again to do it right this next time.
Love when you're so young seems so absolute, and maybe you think that she's the only one you'll ever be "one" with, but that's not the case. I read somewhere that so many dovorces happen to couples in their twenties because people grow up to be something really different at 30 than what they were at 20. Maybe you grew apart--and that's good and will start you toward someone more compatible--
If anything, the best way that she might see how much she misses you is if she sees you enjoying yourself with someone else -- Go out and enjoy it! | |
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