| She said there was No Spark
Posted: 5/25/2008 10:32:34 AM | I think if you thought this girl was so beautiful, so does alot of other people, if after awhile you have only emailed and never offered to call her, she might have thought the NO SPARK was mutual.
In ten days time she could have started talking to someone else and then you randomly send her another message asking when she will move. To me going ten days without talking to someone you are interested in...makes it seem like you arent very interested ...like you found someone else and then it didnt work and now you are back to her. There was no progression...you emailed, talked on aim and then took a vacation ...she moved on based on the fact that there was not really a spark to keep you interested in that ten days.
PS make sure your friend Sarah doesnt have a reason to see this go in the toilet!...I mean you didnt ask her yourself....so whatever she told Sarah would have to be taken with a grain of salt. Not that she didnt tell Sarah...no spark but I know it would be a turnoff to me if some guy I was into asked another girl why I had deleted him...I would tell her something vague vs telling her something about her *friend...next time ask her yourself. I have had a guy's friend tell me how much they like him but he doesnt know it...blah blah blah and it is just wayyyy to much drama to keep being involved with him when his friend is always snooping around trying to find out what is going on. | |
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| She said there was No Spark
Posted: 5/25/2008 10:41:16 AM | I was emailing a guy on here and he was very witty and charming. When it got to the phone call he just talked about his boring job. I think I fell asleep on the phone. NO SPARK! I think his starter died | |
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| Does it really matter why?
Posted: 5/25/2008 11:34:04 AM | Since mutual interest is required, your energies would best be used elsewhere.
Thicken up that skin, it happens. | |
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| She said there was No Spark
Posted: 5/25/2008 12:45:30 PM | Your comment about asking why she didn't know when she was moving here probably scared her $hitless. I would have immediately been turned off by you asking such a thing. Yes harmless on your part however she may have thought of you as being clingy or in her business.
Sarah needs to butt out. She may have been the straw that broke the back.
Good luck! | |
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