| What guys say and what they mean
Posted: 5/26/2008 2:47:37 AM | | In reply to you WackMC, I think you're comment is unjustified!!! I do not put all men in the same brackets, I do realise that alot of men kno what they want but I am talking about one guy in particular not the whole male race! I went into this with no expectations what so ever and no I am not pissed that he doesnt want me because at the end of the day I dont want to be with a guy that will mess not only me but my child around too. I am not and will never be a man hater as I have good men in my life, so I do know there are good men out there. This is a way of venting something I have found in a few men, so if you take this as a personal attack on you as a male then that is you're problem and not mine!!! | |
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| What guys say and what they mean
Posted: 5/26/2008 8:22:04 AM | This is going to sound bad, but it's the truth.
The only male friends I have that don't make things very clear about their intentions, wants, desires, needs, etc are the gay ones.
Myself, and all the other straight guys I know are all pretty good about saying it. In fact, I have a chick friend that that is constantly accusing me of hinting or that kind of stuff. I have to tell her daily that I don't hint, I don't send mixed signals, if you're trying to read into what I say, you won't have much luck, because my words are the only thoughts I'm conveying.
OP, there are women that would complain if he put "friends" up there, went out with one, started to like her and told her that. As far as I can tell, he was honest with you. Any long term relationship should start off as friends first. | |
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| What guys say and what they mean
Posted: 5/26/2008 11:20:32 AM | | I understand relationships start off as friendships and tht isnt what i was asking about at all. Like i said I have a little boy who i have to consider in my decision making and it isnt like i havent been in relationships before. But there are things this guy is doing that makes me think he is playing games. EG. He said he wanted to be friends and see what happens but has jumped at the chance to fall into bed with a girl that we both know. All I am saying is if all a guy wants is sex then make it clear to a girl and then let them decide. | |
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| What guys say and what they mean
Posted: 5/26/2008 11:26:21 AM | He is probably looking for something long term then, and decided to get a little pie on the way. Until he's firmly in a committed relationship, more power to him. Nothing will quench a man's thirst for pie | |
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| What guys say and what they mean
Posted: 5/26/2008 11:34:05 AM | Haha thts funny, its cool anyway the subject is over with. I have decided to move on n he is chasing his next conquest cos he never got anything out of me!!!! :D:D:D:D:D:D
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| What guys say and what they mean
Posted: 5/26/2008 11:43:07 AM | Good, giving up or holding on to the pie will really tell you a lot about a guy. We all want it, but the longer he'll stay without it, the longer he'll stay with it. | |
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| What guys say and what they mean
Posted: 5/26/2008 12:35:08 PM |
I found a guy that i thought would b nice to get to know and on his profile he said he was looking to find his missing other half, and it clearly stated that he was looking for something long term. However, we have been talking and i have found out he actually does know what he wants but told me he wanted to be friends and take it from there. Which is fine by me as I have other things to consider before jumping into a relaitonship head first, like the fact I have a son.
My Question to men is, why cant you say what you mean and man what u say?
He does mean what he says! Kind of. This will help you understand where he's at...
Translation of his thoughts:
"You're quite cute, but I have doubts about whether you're really what I'm looking for long-term. However, I'd still quite like to sleep with you so if I tell you we'll just be 'friends' and see what happens, I am absolved from any guilt of 'leading you on' if we do end up sleeping together and then I decide not to pursue anything more meaningful." | |
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