| Star sign attraction Posted: 5/27/2008 11:32:57 PM | well we had this conversation at a party last night...... friends trying to set me up or talk me into getting together with a guy.....
i say whats his star sign?... got told ... said nope..noway....... the reaction was.. would you dismiss someone b/c of a starsign?........... nooooooooo....never......... but ill watch and if they exhibit the traits .... then my caution. of not getting romantically involved ... saves me going through it all again...
theres 2 signs...... ive tried over and over with... and i will stay open minded... and have done (ie got involved with )..... but everytime the same traits have come out....... ive met this guy before (from last night).. and am not attracted to him at all..physically.. so his starsign has no relevance... but .. yep.. he arrives... talking and mentions words affliated with this trait....of that sign... manipulation and how he needs to manipulate a certain person to get things done... etc etc... besides star signs are a whole chart....... i have friends of these signs ..... nice people.....but noway id fall in love with 1 of them... every sign has good/bad traits.. ... edit... but then theres physical attributes im not attracted too... that ive ... gone ahead anyway...b/c of the persons heart...etc...... but ended b/c of yep...manipulation... player etc... so... sighs..
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| Star sign attraction Posted: 5/28/2008 5:57:17 AM | I personally think it's a whole heap of crap, but hey, thats taureans for you.
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| Star sign attraction Posted: 5/28/2008 6:11:24 AM |
I personally think it's a whole heap of crap, but hey, thats taureans for you.
I agree with that....but then again maybe it's just that Uranus is passing through my house of cynicism and has given me the sh!ts. | |
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| Star sign attraction Posted: 5/28/2008 11:57:54 PM | | I think that soulmate is doing things that very few people actually do and not falling into the trap of deja vue dating. You are actually spoting personality traits that you have learnt that arent good in relationships or don't help with having a healthy relationship regardless of whether the astrology side of it comes out or not due to lack of attraction...bravo! | |
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| Star sign attraction Posted: 5/29/2008 4:59:31 AM | In the same vein as finding a 'perfect match' by start sign, would you seriously discount a person as a possible partner/friend/mate simply on the basis of their star sign??
I don't believe in categorising people so for me I wouldn't give a fig what star sign anyone was. I think you are who you are because of a number of things, experiences, influences throughout your life. When you were born maybe just a part of that but not the sum of that. | |
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| Star sign attraction Posted: 5/29/2008 9:27:33 PM | I firmly believe as the Chinese do that the Elements of Life mean more than the star signs when looking for a relationship.
Since ancient times the Chinese have recognized that life is a composition of five essential elements. These elements interact to influence all things in the world. Producing harmony, empowerment, balance and prosperity of life. Accordingly all things in nature have varying qualities of these elements. These are ,, Earth, Fire, Metal , Water, and Wood, and each of those elements have characteristics that mean something in life. You are all born under one of these elements, and each day of the year means something as well. Each day has its own characteristics and if you get to read them you will be surprised how many of you, are the embodiment of that day! I have made a bit of a study of these elements, and if you wish I can help you with your individual traits....... apply if you wish!
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| Star sign attraction Posted: 6/1/2008 10:49:04 AM | | Me = Scorpio water dragon, My Partner = Scorpo earth pig. Despite being told that 2 Scorpios would NOT be a good idea, my partner & I have been together for nearly 15 years - I guess we know each other's limitations & when it is a good idea to "back off" & allow each other some space. (Criticisms/comments are welcome!) | |
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| Star sign attraction Posted: 6/2/2008 7:08:49 AM | I never believed it but now I'm leaning towards it the more I read.
Aries guys seem to want to control me so I shy away from them Because that's what we do! Give him something else to control and he will ease off. | |
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| Star sign attraction Posted: 6/2/2008 9:52:43 AM | ok, so i meet this chick right, and her star sign and mine are supposed to get along real bi1chen right, even our chinese thingies tell a story about a future full of bliss right, and bugger me if we didn't click! and i mean didn't. go figure? | |
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| Star sign attraction Posted: 6/2/2008 2:45:53 PM | ^^^^^^^ vandy its not really about sun signs ... its a whole chart.... and what part of the month etc your born.....
anyhoo..... how i got an interest in it was...... many , many years ago a woman was talking all astrology blah blah... i said what a load of crap.... etc (as you do)........ and this woman said to me... "do you know anything about astrology?"
hmmm nope...... was a sobering lesson.. in how many things /subjects? etc do we dismiss or form an opinion on.. without fully investigating it?
so i did...... but i still wont assume about it..... i spent years asking people.......... it says a virgo is like this... do you find that true for you? for eg.......(ive actually found the more a person knows themselves/likes themselves the more true to the sunsign traits they have)
anyhoo. over the years and much anthropolgy.... and to me its been abit like human chess as in.. ill try and guess someones star sign........ etc.. keeps me amused and even boring people become interesting...... the only problem with that is your ascendant is your social/interaction sign... so.. that can camoflague the actual sun sign.... (water signs are the easiest to pick)
so yesterday... a guy comes over sits at our table.... we shake hands introduced names... and i say.. ok you are a water sign.. (ive seen this guy for less than 1 minute).. he looks surprised says yes..... I say.. hmmm either a skinny pisces or a neglected crab?.... debating my choice.. he says neglected crab.. thats amazing.. how do you know that?..... the guy im sitting with says yep shes good ..lol. cause i picked him as aquarian .. when i first met him..
the neglected crab.. then says.. whats amazing is.. i dont believe in astrology..... lol yep me either..i say.... funny though... isnt it?
edit and as for the scorpio couple...... when your in love with the same sun sign.. its called mirroring...... your looking at the same positive/negative traits..... but once again compatability is in your moon sign... for home etc..... they say... they say a persons twinflame is of the same starsign.....so maybe you met your twin flame... im smiling for you anyway...... now.. 15 years together? show me your sting marks....ha ha ha//
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| Star sign attraction Posted: 6/2/2008 2:57:11 PM | definitely no virgos for me ........... bad bad bad!
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| Star sign attraction Posted: 6/2/2008 3:03:06 PM | ^^^^^lol... yerrrr not unless they are a dirty... dirty... bad virgo otherwise they are just to finicky for great..ummm hmmmm well.. hmm...
my gf is virgo/librian cusp... when we used to go out shed neaten the table up. in a nervous way........ id just watch and ask her what was wrong? cause virgos like to put things in order when theres chaos within..
i cured her though.. i used to just sit and start cleaning the table.. stacking smokes/lighter etc .. before she could... over and over.. to eventually... she could sit in peace/comfort.. with the lighter out of place......
she would laugh.. .. realising what she was doing.... but now shes met a wonderful man.. happy inside and no longer compulsively organises stuff when at the pub...lol s smiles/peace | |
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| Star sign attraction Posted: 6/2/2008 3:19:54 PM |
yerrrr not unless they are a dirty... dirty... bad virgo
What about a cusp Virgo/Leo......Dirty, dirty, bad Virgo with a dominant streak....lol | |
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| Star sign attraction Posted: 6/2/2008 3:38:26 PM | first wife virgo hmmmmm sheesh.....second wife gemini...gone four years and i am still trying to exorcize her 15 other personalities from the home....lmaooooo
it can be fun reading about your signs and how they match up but i do not think there is any golden rule...maybe...lol
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| Star sign attraction Posted: 6/2/2008 3:52:58 PM | ^^^^^^hmmmm your a sagge... hmmm interesting... laffs to self.... you know sagg is respresented by half horse and half man.... now i dont think ive ever been with a sagg in the biblical sense but every woman i know who has will testify that sagge is definitely half horse yep thats right...i said it.... their feet.. like hoofs.. u watch.. a sagge man (signs are differ in the sexes).... say something completely honest.. true.. then walk away and trip over his own feet..ha ha ha... ohh they are alllllllllllll man.... yummy .. yum yum... anyhoo i digressed... re the gemini... yep.. at least 2 personalities most have 4...
my ex lover was a gem.. ( i say gem loosly)....every day... id wake up roll over... smile ..hold out my hand and introduce myself... cause i never knew which personality (or if a new 1 grew overnight_) i was waking up too... actually id do that during the day too. cause i knew his eyes and when they changed.. .. i knew.. hed changed..
he had hair halfway down his back... when he showered he would put it up in a bun.... hmmm ( so i call him bunman) so 1 day he ... has a shower... bunman.... i say .. omg you look so fooking hot/sexy... do you wanna make love?
he got the shites.. b/c i was supposed to be in love with him and how dare i flirt with bunman.... confused? yep.. i tried to explain bunman looks alot like him and really.. its a compliment..... i never spoke to bunman again after that..... sighs.. but geminis are fun... i just dont want to keep 1.. smiles/peace | |
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| Star sign attraction Posted: 6/2/2008 4:12:34 PM | OMG...crikey am sitting here cacking myself laughing trying to work out a reply to your post soul and not having it bounced for being offtopic....hahahaha..
Ok ummm yea half horse ,,,all ya gotta do is look at my head to see the similer looks and racing lines of the draughthorse...hahaha..
And as a sag i do believe that over the years i have kinda leant towards certains signs...altho not intentionally, for sexcapades it seems to be other sags, leos, taureans and librans..and there is a couple of signs that i havent experienced yet......
god i hope that come out right .,..hahaha
cheerz all be safe and be well
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| Star sign attraction Posted: 6/2/2008 4:20:02 PM | ^^^^^^ vegie hun ... you got to remeber ponies are horses too. there are some minature horses.. wiff small hoofs..
yea im cracking up myself here... but you are might fine speciman (on topic).. of a horseman..lol.. astrologically speaking..(on topic).. edit.. maybe instead of debbie does dallas you could do..... sagge does the zodiac... now make a list of the signs youve not tried...lol ohh gawd slaps self.. soul is in a naughty/cheeky mood.. ok coughs.. straighten hair//clothes.. and says i better go meditate and get my spirituality back on track......
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| Star sign attraction Posted: 6/2/2008 4:35:08 PM | hmmm make a list hmmm sheesh wouldnt publish it in here as the it would be like the four horsemen of the apocalypse..sheesh have lost my train of thought.....
thats right the zodiac....ummm does the search for a black hole umm affect the different starsigns or is it just the ones that find themselves perched on the cusp.....(says with tongue in cheek)...lol no in reference to the hosremen of the zodiac..they never seem to have many issues riding through the zodiac,as long as its not sidesaddle...lol
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| Star sign attraction Posted: 6/2/2008 4:47:49 PM | ohhh and re the chinese side.... well im a wood snake the kindest of the snakes....
but i always date pigs..lol lmao edit... and there aint nothing wrong wiff side saddle.... and actually ive not been horseriding for awhile...hmmmm smiles/peace | |
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| Star sign attraction Posted: 6/2/2008 5:23:46 PM | hey soul.. your right some horses..0pps ponies are shet lands too,
even a small show pony likes to be ridden.
Hey mon my little stallion...your also an ox to the chinese calendar ... apparently your straightforward and do not relate to the love games others play. ( no you???) Since it takes a long time to develop intimate relationships ( thats kinda funny), you play well with horses and roosters......( ok im so not going to go there and say any cork-le-doo) ...
So what star signs matter the zodiac isnt that a boat.. the chinese, dont they sail junk.. god my head is so confused now.. ... where was that wiener  | |
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| Star sign attraction Posted: 6/2/2008 5:30:46 PM | Bugger forgot to add.. Im on the cusp, gives me a choice of personality.. I dont put too much creeedence on it.. I met a guy who only dated girls from 3 star signs absolutely convinced it made a differnce. Not to me i have to say, I have met wankers of all star signs and also honeys of each.
Soulmate.. your too funny!! Mon... kettles on, papers open to the star signs
who ever mentioned side saddle.. kinda ironic that women ride side saddle .. i would have thought with all those nuts and bolts men would have been better too! | |
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| Star sign attraction Posted: 6/2/2008 5:33:32 PM | actually vege i was born in the chinese year of the rat....now sure where that is gunna take me..
I also do not know enough about if the zodiac sign thing and the chinese thing cross over or are even cnnected in anyway...not sure how it would impact on zodiac attraction
...hmmm soul what can i say hahahahahahaha
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