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gladitssummer

Joined: 4/26/2008
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Helping out - how far would you go? Posted: 5/26/2008 1:59:25 PM
GOW. just pull the plug, you are/have been strung along, you owe her nothing

rev_guilliano

Joined: 4/17/2008
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Helping out - how far would you go? Posted: 5/26/2008 2:06:03 PM
Be blunt with her. Tell her if she is not willing to help herself you see no reason why you should do it for her! Life is not handed on a plate to the vast majority and you are not her PA. I wouldn't wait til July to take the key back.... it's possible she has a copy stashed. I'd get the locks changed. This would hopefully be taken as a hint at the very least. As for loveing her flat.... so what? If it's not affordable then she shouldn't live there. And her birthday shouldn't matter if it's a choice between getting drunk or feeding her kids. She is living off your back and for whatever reason you are allowing it.

Sandymax

Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 27
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Helping out - how far would you go? Posted: 5/26/2008 3:42:03 PM
Just wanted to say good on ya for taking some time to yourself today to figure out an exit strategy that works for you... Hope you have a quiet and stress free week! :0)

Fierce Fish

Joined: 12/18/2007
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Helping out - how far would you go? Posted: 6/8/2008 4:55:47 AM
just came over to ask me to help them fill in a HB and CTB forms for her as a single mother on low income. I think 'she does cleaning £8 an hour 10 hours perday cash in hand and 5 DAYS PER WEEAK! is the issue.. And they are Polish.. making it an even bigger issue. Woo!

november babee

Joined: 1/9/2007
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Helping out - how far would you go? Posted: 6/8/2008 5:01:48 AM
Both men living with her (boyfriend and her brother) work as builders full time. She does cleaning at 8 per hour cash in hand for 10 hours per day, 5 days per week. i dont know about helping theem out, i would be ratting them out... benefit fraud is illegal.. and you helping them fill in forms could land you in trouble too... im sure i have a 10 foot barge pole i could let you have a loan of somewhere...

UKCanuck

Joined: 3/17/2007
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Helping out - how far would you go? Posted: 6/8/2008 5:33:50 PM
I'll give time, sweat, whatever... that is not a problem I won't give money, really.

Alma Mahler

Joined: 3/20/2008
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Helping out - how far would you go? Posted: 7/23/2008 1:08:56 PM
How far would you go to help someone - at the cost of your own expenses, time etc? I guess for me this would last a day or maybe a half a day The think I hate the most is to depend on someone or someone depending on me.

Edensangel

Joined: 6/21/2008
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Helping out - how far would you go? Posted: 7/23/2008 1:12:31 PM
For friends and loved ones I would go as far as was needed, cost and time would not be a consideration under right circs. Oops my own emotional/mental well being would be my consideration in most cases if thats not effected then i'd do what had to be done.

Bright Sparkly Eyes

Joined: 6/7/2008
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Helping out - how far would you go? Posted: 7/23/2008 1:56:56 PM
I have been known to give a helping hand when some find it hard and are to weary to help themselves out

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