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| If we are all all that why are we alone?
Posted: 8/28/2009 1:31:49 PM | Am I alone? No, I have 3 older teens and a dog. Am I lonely? No, infact I am very happy in my life, although, it would be nice to share my life with someone.
BUT I am not willing to settle for just anyone.
As far as being here, I don't really do the bar scene, it's not a place to find a meaningful relationship, a booty call-- yes.
Am I all that? No, I have my flaws, but would most deffinatly accept someone elses flaws (with-in reason). When you fall in love, you love and accept that person for who and what they are, reguardless of their flaws. Now days, too many people find that it's easy to make relationships disposal, using flaws as an excuse, when they are only really looking for something better to come along.
Not all people here are looking for the same thing. Some are looking for booty calls, some are here killing time in the forums, some are here to date and find the love of their lives. I am here for the later. | |
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| If we are all all that why are we alone?
Posted: 8/28/2009 2:08:45 PM | You dont mean people actually read these things?
You could try and change your profile to something like:
Needy Clingy Obsessive Compulsive Stalker with multible restraining orders looking for new target. You must look good coming in and out of the shower, let me breathe heavy into your phone at odd hours of the nite, not have a home security system, and leave your windows unlocked for me. Prefer that you wear skimpy provacative clothing and resemble my mother.
I will be by for our first date tonite, I am bringing duct tape and zip ties, you get a bottle of your favorite wine and we will 'talk' for hours....
Let us know how that goes. | |
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| If we are all all that why are we alone?
Posted: 8/28/2009 3:02:51 PM | Because the way you see/think you are or describe yourself is completely different from the way strangers will see and judge you.
Last time i looked being all that : "down to earth, easy going, good natured, handsome, excellent provider, great job, love life, etc etc'' doesnt make someone fall in love with you. | |
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| If we are all all that why are we alone?
Posted: 9/13/2009 7:18:19 AM | There are a large number of people here in relationships and even married, and are sneaking around looking for some thrills.
And there are lots of men and women who are not all that and are married and in committed relationships.
I think a lot of it depends on how picky you are. If you are holding out for someone who looks like a model and has a six figure income you are much more likely to remain alone and lonely. | |
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| If we are all all that why are we alone?
Posted: 9/13/2009 8:53:21 AM | Some of us aren't here for anything apart from chatting. Not a case of being alone. Its good to have scope on different people from different areas, broadens horizons and thinking
that cost me the love of my life | |
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| If we are all all that why are we alone?
Posted: 9/13/2009 9:38:44 PM | Hi all,
For me, I have a lot of great qualities because I have taken time to work on myself and I have grown from previous relationships. I'm perfectly imperfect though and always will be. That's what makes me unique.
I have had many opportunities for relationships but either the guy wasn't someone I could imagine myself with long term or I sabatoged it because I was afraid.
Part of me wanted a committed relationship and children but part of me liked my freedom. In essence I had one foot on the break and one on the gas peddle. LOL
I've come to learn that now and so, since I have decided I am ready, I know my divine mate will show up. I will attract the right man who is ready. No more dating around for me. I'm weary of it.
Also, I'm not alone at all. I have lots of family and friends and colleagues. I desire to connect with someone on a deeper, lasting, romantic level. That's something family, friends and colleagues can't give me, IF you know what I mean. | |
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