| Re: cheating wife
Posted: 6/7/2004 11:20:29 PM | You write a letter to your wife. She is obviously not with you.
You have to "chose" what? | |
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| Re: cheating wife
Posted: 6/12/2004 11:09:11 PM | HI
one thing u should do if you love your wife.You talk with her face to face and right now before is to late.
I hear on Tv if you are a cheater you always will...
good look | |
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| Re: cheating wife
Posted: 8/4/2004 5:14:03 PM | | I lookie for pantiesinabunch she no here me manho lookie I like first date in taxi and makie outie anybudy see her in here......I looikie | |
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| Re: cheating wife
Posted: 8/4/2004 5:16:27 PM | | oh cheeseman you makey me sad you cheater? | |
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Posted: 8/4/2004 5:17:42 PM | | me no cheatie.......you cheati I no find you here I want makie outie | |
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Posted: 8/4/2004 5:19:20 PM | | me no cheat me find good man why you lie to me you in cheat wife talk | |
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Posted: 8/4/2004 5:23:36 PM | | me no like you cheatie...........you fine for me's and trailer in beetsweedaland.....me fly plianto trailer and go datein taxi now you no cheatie me | |
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| cheating wife
Posted: 9/26/2005 9:02:26 AM | How about talking to her face to Face { thats one problem already with you marrige} you write note's instead of talking face to face. That not goin to do any good after You talk to her {but at least You did it} devorce the **** , get back in shape ,and than go to the Phillippine's , thiland , or my favorite Indonesia and find someone who will really devote thier life to You, treat You like a king, You treat them the same, and in Your Love life You will be the happest man on earth for the rest of Your Life. And believe me You will forget about You ****ing American wife real ****ing fast.
And dont go through a damn mail order bride service,,,, do it Yourself and You will find the right person { and thier are thousand's} believe me if You pick Indonesia, most of the woman will be virgin's and just desire with all thier lfe to marry a good , nice, faithful , man. So if your not,,,,,,,, please dont ****ing try to do this and detroy thier life, because they are inocent , and dont need that kind of treatment when one of them come here.
One Other thing,,, I dont give a **** about what acuse Your wife give's You,,,, in less you mistreat her, but if You dont ,,,,get rite of the ****ing American Whore, and start injoying the love you should have in a marrage, BUT REMEMBER ,,, it work's BOTH WAy's ,,,,
You treat a woman as a partner in every thing , NOT a ****ING Slave.
Rodney Franz | |
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| cheating wife
Posted: 9/26/2005 10:50:48 AM | | If I were you I wouldn't even let her make a choice have all her stuff on the front lawn kick her ass to the curb. It never works to stay in a relationship with someone who doesn't respect you. | |
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| Re: cheating wife
Posted: 10/1/2005 11:51:19 AM | The lovers passionately embraced while lying on her bed. Their bodies fused together as they gyrated and panted. Then, suddenly the woman****d her ear. "Quick, my husband is coming through the front door! Hide in the bathroom", she cried.
The lover ran into the bathroom as she hid his clothes under the bed. Just as she turned back, her husband came through the bedroom door. "What are you doing lying naked on the bed?" he asked.
"Darling, I heard you coming up the drive way and got ready to receive you" she replied with a wink and a smile.
"Great" he said. "I'll just run into the bathroom and I'll be with you in two shakes."
She panicked. Before she could stop him, he was in the bathroom. He found a man clapping his hands together in mid air. Dumfounded, he asked, "Who the devil are you?"
"I'm from the exterminator company. Your wife called me in to get rid of these pesky moths" the lover replied.
The husband yelled, "but you've got no clothes on!!!"
The lover looked down at his body, jumped backwards in surprise, and said, "The little ba$tard$!!"
Oops, wrong forum. Thought you could use a laugh. | |
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| cheating wife
Posted: 10/1/2005 5:18:38 PM | Maybe it is just me here but I am totally confused. The man is on a dating sight with a profile looking for women to "date" yet is asking for advice on how to handle his "cheating" wife. Is it just me here or is there perhaps more to this story?  | |
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| cheating wife
Posted: 10/1/2005 5:57:27 PM | | Your profile says you are separated...and you are looking. If you are separated and looking....how do you figure she is cheating on you? I am not saying what she is doing is right...but aren't you trying to do the same thing? | |
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| cheating wife
Posted: 10/1/2005 6:13:07 PM | | Hey man put her s___t to the gurb and change the locks and have the door hit her on the a_ss on the way out don't waste your time on her if it happens once it will happen again my ex has been gone for 10ys can't say i miss her being on here and looking dosen't help right now give it time and move on brother | |
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| cheating wife
Posted: 10/2/2005 9:37:45 AM | | lol well I don't know how u can trust her afterall you have been together so long and yet she could still hurt u. If she was ahving emotional probs or felt neglected or whatever she could have gone to you her companion/husband and u could have worked through it or gone counselling. I would be devastated if in your position but what is this about having to write her a letter and her going out every wknd over night I would have reeled that fish back in right at the beginning... that isn't a usual thing to happen unless someone is working away from home ok maybe the odd night at a mate's house or relatives but not every wknd. I hope it all works out tc | |
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| cheating wife
Posted: 10/2/2005 10:00:47 AM | Why do u feel the need to promote asian women as better than american for example? This guy doesn't need u encouraging him to find sum young uneducated virgin who wouldn't care if he has got a face like the back end of bus as long as he provides for her and she can send money home to her family.
Why do foreign women want American husbands? Many sources suggest that the women are searching for a "better life" in terms of socio-economic factors — they do, for the most part, come from places in which jobs and educational opportunities for women are scarce and wages are low. However, when the women themselves are asked this question, the answer generally indicates an attraction to American men (they look like movie stars) and an aversion to native men. Americans, they say, "make good husbands" while Filipino (Thai / Indonesian / Russian / etc.) men do not. Americans are thought to be faithful and kind to their wives, while the native men are cruel and run around with other women. True or not, this is the perception.
Why do American men want foreign wives? Most of the personal reports from American men who have married women talk about "traditional values." That is, that American women are not content to be wives and mothers, but seek personal satisfaction through their own careers and interests, while the foreign woman is happy to be the homemaker and asks for nothing more than husband, home, and family. Again, true or not, this is the perception.
I would like to suggest, however, other attractions to the foreign bride For one, these girls tend to be younger (by an average of 15 years) than the man and slimmer and better-looking than most of the American women the man might have access to. Further, it should not be overlooked that there are few, if any, occasions where a man might browse several hundred American women — all of whom anxiously awaiting his attentions — from whom to select one or more candidates for his wife; | |
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| cheating wife
Posted: 10/2/2005 10:04:33 AM |
Your profile says you are separated...and you are looking. If you are separated and looking....how do you figure she is cheating on you? I am not saying what she is doing is right...but aren't you trying to do the same thing?
Maybe it is just me here but I am totally confused. The man is on a dating sight with a profile looking for women to "date" yet is asking for advice on how to handle his "cheating" wife. Is it just me here or is there perhaps more to this story?
I was somewhat confused at first too, but this thread started back in March -- since he is now on here with "dating" as his status, is it safe to assume he kicked her to the curb and is now going fishing?
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| cheating wife
Posted: 10/2/2005 10:11:23 AM | | I still have to wonder why he was on a dating site to begin with to start this thread? If he was so "innocent" why would he be on here to look for advice? Just leaves one to continue to wonder what is the whole story. | |
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| cheating wife
Posted: 11/13/2005 5:43:11 PM | My wife of 11 years has been cheating on me for a year. I'm in the process of getting divorced. It's the most painful thing that has ever happened to me. I don't wish it on anyone. She cheated on me with a
married man. He is getting divorced and leaving his wife and two children for my wife. We are getting divorced and have a 3-year old daughter. I never thought something like this could ever happen to me.
My therapist told me the Love and Trust I had blinded me to the Affair. There were signs, but I didn't pick
up on them. How was I supposed to know to read her emails, check her phone, scan the phone bill, question
her 3 hour shopping while I took care of our daughter?
I know everything about everything now. It's going to take time, but I'm healing. I'll never trust another word she says, but I have to be cordial because of our daughter. I won't ever disrespect her in front of our
daughter. I'm angry because we had so much to fight for. So much to save. I never was unfaithful to her or
hit her or lied to her in our 13 years together. All of a sudden we are getting divorced AND she is in love with
another man. Here is the kicker. She is PREGNANT. It hurts so badly that it's unbearable. I was close to
having a nervous breakdown, but it turned out I only had panic attacks.
They had sex in our bedroom while I was at work and my daughter was sleeping in the other room. They had sex in hotels when my wife would hire a babysitter. My wife of 11 years would have sex with him during
the day and cook me dinner at night. It was like she was living a double life. What a great liar she became.
My last moments of my marriage were telling my wife she was: cruel, a liar, full of deciet, a coward, selfish, unfaithful, immoral, and pregnant with a married man's child in her stomach while we were still married!
OK- I know- Take it Day By Day - It takes Time- This could be a blessing in Disguise- I'll find someone else and Start over Soon- I'm so young, I have time to Start Over- She Changed, Not Me.. Just be me again-
I've heard many kind words from family and friends, but late at night I roll over in my bed and it's cold. My daughter's bedroom is quiet. The smells of love and life are not in my house anymore....... Here I am bleeding my guts out on a website I never dreamed I would sign up for 2 months ago. But I did and I feel
it's the beginning of my healing. Building my confidence and self esteem is a great way to break on through!
LIFE JUST GOT HARDER and I'm getting my strength together to face it. | |
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| Re: cheating wife
Posted: 4/13/2008 9:11:02 AM | hello being a women ones self , i think both should talk to each other . it is no good letting it eat you away , so it time to start to date her again , dinner out a weekend away , get mum to have the kids , for a fwe hours if pos .....
just dont give up | |
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| cheating wife
Posted: 4/13/2008 9:19:13 AM | Yikes. Well im just a young guy and ive never been married. But ive been in some heavy relationships. Normally id say drop her but youve been married for 17 years. Confront her about it and see what she does.
Its never too late to start over, love is enduring but some things are inexcusable. | |
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| cheating wife
Posted: 4/13/2008 9:31:37 AM |
I found out that the women that i have been married to for 17 years Is cheating on me with a good friend of mines brother .I know it sounds like a soap but is true.The other day I wrote her a letter because she stays out all night every weekend and said you have to chose by the end of the weekend so far no answer I don't know what to do?
She already made her choice. Get a lawyer.
Why are people such pushovers these days? You cheat, you go. Simple, ehhh. | |
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| cheating wife
Posted: 4/13/2008 10:03:32 AM | | leave her, what else do you want? | |
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| cheating wife
Posted: 4/13/2008 10:16:25 AM | | Maybe she found out that after 17 yrs of marriage you've been on a dating website for four yrs. | |
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| cheating wife
Posted: 4/13/2008 10:18:44 AM | | im sorry my man and i dont mean to sound rough on you. but there is something missing there in your marrage. but there is an old saying { show me a husband who wont and i,ll show you somebody who will} in other words my man your not takeing care of business. once the cheating starts it,s over. you need to kick her ass to the curb stand up brush yourself off and move on. she is not worth your time. dont give her a time frame just her suitcase. | |
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