| what is things you miss from relationships?
Posted: 6/4/2008 6:27:02 AM | Tonight I was standing outside of work, thinking... One day... [insert whimsical music]... One day.... I am going to go home and a gorgeous grin will lean over the stair well as I am coming up the stairs, and say something like, "Hey Honey, I'm glad you're home."
... I looked for it when I came in tonight too...  | |
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| what is things you miss from relationships?
Posted: 6/4/2008 7:32:29 AM | ooh? things i miss?.. the whole sharmozzle.
13 yrs single. I miss it all...dont really remember it all..[stoopid grin] but I know I miss it.
Mostly I miss the kindness two people can choose to share.... and lazy morning sex.... having some one to say "here, hold this" to. | |
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| what is things you miss from relationships?
Posted: 6/4/2008 7:40:33 AM | Yeah, shame some people just pick up on the negs hey?
It's easy to miss the diversions...Some folks are just too damn motivated by the drama to actually let things go..... even when they are long gone.
Ok, let's try again.
I miss writing silly, cheeky or sexy little notes for his lunch box and grinning all day when I thought about him finding them at work.... | |
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Posted: 6/4/2008 7:43:16 PM | LOLOLOL, I agrree peachy,, been letting my daughter sleep in my bed the last week or so,, ...her new nickname the past few days has been bottle lol..
I miss someone else making my morning cuppa,, always tastes nicer when someone else makes it,,,,
,,,,,,,,,,,,someone else being there to comment on a movie or TV show,,,
someone else to change the light bulbs - always scared me that has, dont know why....
.................making plans for the future,, eg,, travel, buying a car, etc,,,,, with someone else adult,,
....... ADULT CONVERSATION.......would love to be able to talk about something else other than ,, for eg, the wiggles know what I mean?.. | |
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| what is things you miss from relationships?
Posted: 6/5/2008 5:07:12 AM | I miss that person fixing the worn tap washers, the whipper snipper, putting a couple of shelves up here and there, taking down those blasted light fittings that have got full of bugs and stuff that I can take down but can't for the life of me get back on, sorting out the VCR, Ausstar, TV & DVD and now a goddamned Digital thingo so that ALL of them work at the same time, making sure the car ticks over.
Anybody know the number of Dial A Hubby?  | |
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| what is things you miss from relationships?
Posted: 6/6/2008 4:37:22 AM | Knowing that, no matter where you are, what trouble ur in or anything u need theres always someone to rely on and that they will always be there. U could probably call it unconditional love.
Damn it, this makes me sad.
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| what is things you miss from relationships?
Posted: 6/6/2008 8:16:03 AM | to be totally honest... i miss the regular sex/fvckfest. Whenever it takes my/our fancy, whenever there is some spare time. Whenever... etc etc well... just whenever!
I miss saying, did you see that shooting star, and getting an answer,
I miss saying, out loud ,did you see the sunset tonight and getting an answer...
I miss trying to keep up, calling "wait for me" puffing and panting...climbing a hill LOL
I miss sitting down reading or play fighting over what part of the newspaper do I get to read first, the First or last page.
I miss having a shower/bath with someone else...
ahhh... I missssssss ..........................
funny I usually only think of this late at night... | |
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| what is things you miss from relationships?
Posted: 6/6/2008 2:38:06 PM | I miss trust...........trusting someone with my life and knowing it is in good, caring hands. Knowing someone is watching my back at all times and me theirs. That I really miss.
I also miss tolerence, in a relationship and in these forums.
Zesty is hurting......bad. He needs tolerance and compassion even if his posts are somewhat aggressive and he is not in a "woman" frame of mind at the moment. I for one have copped much of his ire, for voicing my opinion that he needs to try and move on, forgive and forget and heal. To begin with he got my back up, but as more posts appear it is easy to see he is a man in crisis and needs the hand of friendship and support, not criticism.
So to the compassionate souls who have reported him and flamed him in posts but then changed them so only his reply appears in the thread. Grow up and show a little heart. Its no wonder he thinks all women are b1tches.
It does not take a genius either!!!
Now I really miss that person watching my back cos im probably going to need it! | |
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| what is things you miss from relationships?
Posted: 6/6/2008 9:04:57 PM | I miss the constant evolving of a genuine caring, understanding and respect that occurs when we are willing to love someone.... the getting to know the other person in all their human-ness... being able to share bad days and know that the person might shake their head, or even openly disagree, carry on like a bit of a twat or whatever, but it's ok - because we feel safe enough to trust they actually care enough about what's going on, and won't run away... or make you want to.
You know how to love Hilly... I like you. | |
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| what is things you miss from relationships?
Posted: 6/6/2008 9:37:50 PM | | I miss being able to say whatever without it being a problem but learning from each other how to better our lives.... and whatever is said won't be taken as negative but positive that helps our relationships with one another............... tolarance. | |
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| what is things you miss from relationships?
Posted: 6/6/2008 9:54:33 PM | What do I miss? I think I've been single so long now that I actually miss missing the things that I missed.
I miss having someone that knows me well enough to see when I'm in pain and can offer compassionate support.
Zesty is hurting......bad. He needs tolerance and compassion even if his posts are somewhat aggressive
I agree.
I can understand some women being offended by Zesties remarks, although I think that anyone with an ounce of compassion can see that under his anger is a man that's overwhelmed by the frustration of having little or no control over what's going on in his life. I'm sure most of us here have been through a similar time, so I reckon reporting him was pretty thoughtless. And editing your posts to make you look better...well that's just childish and I'm sure will only prove to reinforce his negative opinions of women. | |
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| what is things you miss from relationships?
Posted: 6/7/2008 9:15:12 AM | | Make up sex after an arguement! but i'd just settle for the intimacy, the feeling of closeness and all that warm and fuzzy stuff, and all that warm and fuzzy stuff........ | |
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| what is things you miss from relationships?
Posted: 6/7/2008 5:25:31 PM | I seriously miss lots of things about being in a realationship, but there are also lots of things I dont miss.
It would be awesome to find that "someone" one day but im sensible enough to realise im nowhere near ready yet. To me there is no sense in getting into something before you are ready and have totally moved on from the past.
Damn my sensible nature......I hope to lose it one day! | |
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| what is things you miss from relationships?
Posted: 6/7/2008 7:34:57 PM | ^^^^^^^what the? Hilly..... haven't bumped your head recently have you? no wait...must be identity theft...yes thats it....your not Hilly.
But whoever you are, yes there are things that you dont miss in relationships.....I wanna go on a picnic......well might be hard if i'm here watching Bathurst on the plasma screen....take rover, he could do with a walk.
......so after I set the VCR onto record.....off we went  | |
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| what is things you miss from relationships?
Posted: 6/14/2008 3:32:09 AM |
Zesty is hurting......bad. He needs tolerance and compassion even if his posts are somewhat aggressive and he is not in a "woman" frame of mind at the moment. I for one have copped much of his ire, for voicing my opinion that he needs to try and move on, forgive and forget and heal. To begin with he got my back up, but as more posts appear it is easy to see he is a man in crisis and needs the hand of friendship and support, not criticism.
I can understand some women being offended by Zesties remarks, although I think that anyone with an ounce of compassion can see that under his anger is a man that's overwhelmed by the frustration of having little or no control over what's going on in his life. I'm sure most of us here have been through a similar time, so I reckon reporting him was pretty thoughtless. And editing your posts to make you look better...well that's just childish and I'm sure will only prove to reinforce his negative opinions of women.
It's good to see that there are still some people around with empathy. Somebody who is doing it tough doesn't need bitter criticism or insults, he needs understanding and a bit of compassion. | |
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| what is things you miss from relationships?
Posted: 6/14/2008 5:49:01 PM | | wow you lot must have had some lovely relationships.....really im flat out thinking of one thing.......and its not like its just new and raw or anything!! we are counting the years here....lol well just sat her thinking for a good 5 minutes - cant think of one thing i miss!!! one day maybe i will have the real thing - sounds nice | |
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| what is things you miss from relationships?
Posted: 6/14/2008 9:52:15 PM |
It's good to see that there are still some people around with empathy.
I hope the people here dabbling in cyber social work understand what they're doing.
Big difference between empathy and sympathy and the effects thereof.
Leave the social work off the threads maybe?
We can never know what results (albeit well intended) our comments might result in.
What do I miss?
Cuddles
Plain simple ol HUGZ
They somehow make everything ok
ok ok
Its a temp fix
But a good one
.....for me at least | |
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