| What makes a I Must have him for you?
Posted: 5/29/2008 6:39:17 PM | | what makes a "i must have him" is with seeing a guy be himself in body and soul and not pretend to be someone that he's not. he has to be completely true to himself as well as with others, non judging, non materialistic, and be able to accept others as he would like from others to accept him as well. | |
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| What makes a I Must have him for you?
Posted: 5/29/2008 7:11:15 PM | ^^ Pretty much
care to turn around?
vv Edit: come on Jim you know me better then that ... I'm not that bad .. in fact on some days I am kinda nice | |
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| What makes a I Must have him for you?
Posted: 5/29/2008 7:22:56 PM | ^^ Pretty much
care to turn around?
I wouldn't if I were you.
Judging by the back and forth fireworks between you two, she might make one hell of an impression.
With her foot. | |
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| What makes a I Must have him for you?
Posted: 5/29/2008 7:50:25 PM | Every woman you ask..... will have a different answer. Chemistry....... first. Eyes are so important in communication and I need to fall in love with those eyes. Yes, we all want someone that takes care of himself and is NOT over weight, just like the guys want us women to be. All physical things are important for attraction..... Then comes..... Is he intelligent? Can he carry a deep conversation about his philosophy of life and where he sees himself today? What is going on in his head that is important? What does he enjoy doing and why? Etc. We want to be into our man and be a real help mate..... All of these things say to me...... I must have him, he is important to me, I need him in my life, I can be a real help mate and when I see that.... I am in hope he in return can be a real help mate to me too.... as we both need up lifting and we both need to know we are loved enough to be equally important to our mate. Hummmmm, I hope I have explained my self well. If not please ask me questions.
Hey..... where is the spell check? There should be a spell check in this area.  I hope I have not mis-spelled too many words. | |
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| What makes a I Must have him for you?
Posted: 5/29/2008 10:20:04 PM |
You guys want to cater to ugly betty.....
So far you're the only one who's mentioned me in this thread (and by an old SN, how interesting....). Leave me out of your rants, please.
She found the perfect guy. He wasn't good enough.
He was ALMOST perfect...unfortunately the one flaw he had was too big to overcome...so I took your advice and decided to just sleep with him instead and go back to dating. You'd be proud. After all, that's what you preach around here a lot.
I just want to F(u)ck them and then leave. THEY AREN'T CAPABLE OF LONG TERM HEATHLY RELATIONSHIPS.
I can't even begin to address the irony of this statement - you don't seem to be long term relationship material either based on your warning that women aren't. LMAO! Maybe guys like you either trained us well or screwed us up...or this is just a post to rile up the wimminz...
Wake up, guys. Who cares what they want?
When we want sex (from you anyway), we'll let you know. In the meantime, you can go now...
P.S. Surprising that someone who advocates your theory would reveal it to the masses and breed competition and/or take time out from your busy hump and dump schedule to even post anything here. | |
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| What makes a I Must have him for you?
Posted: 5/29/2008 10:33:29 PM | For me, my I MUST HAVE HIM, is when a man walks past me in long shorts (the equivalent of the women's capri pant,) and has HUGE calf muscles. I chase men who have gorgeous muscular legs... A mans legs make me go ga-ga... I really love big muscular thighs too, but calves just turn me on something awful... I know a weird thing to want, but it's my thing...
Also, I would have to say a presence of power. I am a VERY dominant woman in all aspects of my life and I LOVE to share my time and life with dominant males... I like the challenge and the intrigue... I need someone who can emotionally, mentally, and physically challenge me... If he holds the power card as I do, I am more attracted to him than anything...
So, Power and Muscular Legs :D I like the combo of the two as well :D  | |
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| What makes a I Must have him for you?
Posted: 5/29/2008 10:59:06 PM | | I know it when I have it...It might be different from guy to guy. Each person brings with them their own unique qualities and I might discover I have to have them based on who they are. | |
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| What makes a I Must have him for you?
Posted: 5/30/2008 6:54:32 AM |
and a life with a purpose.
What is this life with a purpose you and others speak of?
Personally, I'd like to be financially well off enough to not have as hard as I do now. And if I do get to that point, after that it will be to enjoy living and my hobbies. Something I haven't really done much of lately.
The rest is gravy. | |
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| What makes a I Must have him for you?
Posted: 5/30/2008 10:15:54 AM | | I don't know about the other gals, but I know what I want. Only thing is, sometimes it doesn't exist, so we'll go for a situation that's not ideal. Who waits for Mr. Perfect these days? Well, when it comes to this site, a must-have profile would be owned by a cute, in-shape (duh) guy with broad shoulders, dark hair and light eyes who lists comics and video games as interests, haha. I'm sure that guy doesn't exist but who says this has to be realistic? | |
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| What makes a I Must have him for you?
Posted: 5/30/2008 10:46:33 AM |
I know it when I have it...It might be different from guy to guy. Each person brings with them their own unique qualities and I might discover I have to have them based on who they are.
^ quirky is all about****size...
I think this is probably representative of a lot of people though. I definitely have a type that is attracted to me, but as for me I have no idea . Some people are just hot to me, I haven't really been able to pin point a type without resorting to "is not ____" which isn't really the same thing. | |
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| What makes a I Must have him for you?
Posted: 5/30/2008 11:16:22 AM | Could be professional, could be personal - some goal they are working toward achieving in some way. Standing for something positive, and not just floating
through life without thought. | |
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| What makes a I Must have him for you?
Posted: 5/30/2008 12:02:15 PM | Does it have to be positive, Catinka? How about my committment to evil...
I'm just as motivated and ambitious.
Well, only if you're really really good at being evil...then we can talk! | |
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| What makes a I Must have him for you?
Posted: 5/30/2008 2:16:23 PM | I have not yet seen this on any man's profile "financially secure" and "single" are must have for me. I can't stand meeting men that can't even afford a first date dinner, guys if you can't afford it don't date. Dating can be expensive, yes you have to give a little to get a little. You not only need to impress a lady with appearance but the fact that you can afford a decent night out. | |
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| What makes a I Must have him for you?
Posted: 5/30/2008 3:00:34 PM | When women to come onto me really strongly, there are a few reasons...
1) My ass fills the back of my pants quite well.
2) I am considerate and kind, but I don't let her walk over me when she crosses a personal line.
3) I am good-humored, charming, but also honest at all times and careful to never say more than I mean, nor less.
4) I listen.
5) I work at a relationship prospect from the get-go and make it clear that I am willing to take the risk, instead of waiting for an arbitrary sign that this woman isn't a psycho.
6) I back up my promises when I make them, and I usually do what I say I will anyway.
7) I try not to leave her in the dark regarding my issues, and let her go if she isn't strong enough to handle me.
There are other reasons, and I'm not advertising myself because I am (big surprise) in a relationship that is very much in line with this ideal emotion, so there. :P
Anyway, I am this way because that's who I am. You should be who you are, and only go with a woman who is exactly, I mean EXACTLY, what you're looking for, otherwise you won't be what she's looking for either.
~ David | |
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| What makes a I Must have him for you?
Posted: 5/30/2008 3:17:03 PM | An air of confidence, as long as it doesn't go as far as arrogance.
A job...doesn't matter what he does ....as long as it is legal. I don't care about a six-figure income, just an income. I can't afford to support someone financially at this point.
A smile that reaches his eyes. 
Evidence of a compassionate nature, rather than a selfish one. | |
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| What makes a I Must have him for you?
Posted: 5/31/2008 9:45:02 PM | PASSION..... GREAT KISSER......FUN & SARCASTIC.........
Profile wise, sorry, you cant have 'irresistable' on a computer or a dating website.... | |
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| What makes a I Must have him for you?
Posted: 6/1/2008 7:50:40 AM | | There's nothing in a profile that makes me "must have" someone. Because 90% of profiles are a bunch of hooey anyway. After I get to know someone, then I might find something about him that makes him "must have." But in a profile...nothing. | |
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