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 Sudchai

Joined: 5/5/2008
Msg: 50
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What makes a I Must have him for you?
Posted: 5/30/2008 2:16:23 PM
I have not yet seen this on any man's profile "financially secure" and "single" are must have for me. I can't stand meeting men that can't even afford a first date dinner, guys if you can't afford it don't date. Dating can be expensive, yes you have to give a little to get a little. You not only need to impress a lady with appearance but the fact that you can afford a decent night out.
 David3634955

Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 51
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What makes a I Must have him for you?
Posted: 5/30/2008 3:00:34 PM
When women to come onto me really strongly, there are a few reasons...

1) My ass fills the back of my pants quite well.
2) I am considerate and kind, but I don't let her walk over me when she crosses a personal line.
3) I am good-humored, charming, but also honest at all times and careful to never say more than I mean, nor less.
4) I listen.
5) I work at a relationship prospect from the get-go and make it clear that I am willing to take the risk, instead of waiting for an arbitrary sign that this woman isn't a psycho.
6) I back up my promises when I make them, and I usually do what I say I will anyway.
7) I try not to leave her in the dark regarding my issues, and let her go if she isn't strong enough to handle me.

There are other reasons, and I'm not advertising myself because I am (big surprise) in a relationship that is very much in line with this ideal emotion, so there. :P

Anyway, I am this way because that's who I am. You should be who you are, and only go with a woman who is exactly, I mean EXACTLY, what you're looking for, otherwise you won't be what she's looking for either.

~ David
 cuddlybuddy

Joined: 6/30/2007
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What makes a I Must have him for you?
Posted: 5/30/2008 3:17:03 PM
An air of confidence, as long as it doesn't go as far as arrogance.
A job...doesn't matter what he does ....as long as it is legal. I don't care about a six-figure income, just an income. I can't afford to support someone financially at this point.
A smile that reaches his eyes.
Evidence of a compassionate nature, rather than a selfish one.
 misssexyprincess

Joined: 5/10/2008
Msg: 53
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What makes a I Must have him for you?
Posted: 5/31/2008 9:45:02 PM
PASSION..... GREAT KISSER......FUN & SARCASTIC.........
Profile wise, sorry, you cant have 'irresistable' on a computer or a dating website....
 Spoken For

Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 54
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What makes a I Must have him for you?
Posted: 6/1/2008 7:50:40 AM
There's nothing in a profile that makes me "must have" someone. Because 90% of profiles are a bunch of hooey anyway. After I get to know someone, then I might find something about him that makes him "must have." But in a profile...nothing.
 baviaans kloof

Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 55
What makes a I Must have him for you?
Posted: 6/1/2008 8:19:33 AM
12 inches.

hehehe it tells me that this is too short. ok, how about 15 inches then???
 Guy4theForums

Joined: 4/28/2008
Msg: 56
What makes a I Must have him for you?
Posted: 6/1/2008 8:43:24 AM

MSG#56,baviaans kloof Wrote:12 inches.
hehehe it tells me that this is too short. ok, how about 15 inches then???
Would 12 or 15 inches tall be tall enough for you since your 7 foot tall in your profile? I'd wana see this.
 Urbanessa

Joined: 8/15/2007
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What makes a I Must have him for you?
Posted: 6/1/2008 8:46:55 AM

What makes a " I Must have him " for you?

Personality and appearance, in that particular order.
Details are impossible to describe since it is the complete package that counts.
 Urbanessa

Joined: 8/15/2007
Msg: 58
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What makes a I Must have him for you?
Posted: 6/1/2008 8:50:19 AM

I have not yet seen this on any man's profile "financially secure" and "single" are must have for me. I can't stand meeting men that can't even afford a first date dinner, guys if you can't afford it don't date. Dating can be expensive, yes you have to give a little to get a little. You not only need to impress a lady with appearance but the fact that you can afford a decent night out


Now this sends my personal BS-meter to unknown heights.
Those women that require a man to spend money on them are called "hookers" in my book. And if you can't afford to buy your own dinner get a (better paying) job. Geeeez. I am certainly not for sale, and the only bank account I have ever been interested in is my own.

And where's Red when she's desperately needed?
 Mr H2O

Joined: 10/31/2006
Msg: 59
What makes a I Must have him for you?
Posted: 6/1/2008 10:11:58 AM
oops double post somehow - okay I'll edit this one
 Mr H2O

Joined: 10/31/2006
Msg: 60
What makes a I Must have him for you?
Posted: 6/1/2008 10:16:45 AM
There seem to be 2 categories going on :

a.) those items that exist as you see a person interact with others in a room

b.) the touchy feely type items such as kissing and so on

c.) Profile Integrity --a picture of a guy in a suit and tie tells you Nothing,
except he owns a suit and a tie, which most guys do anyway
 baviaans kloof

Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 61
What makes a I Must have him for you?
Posted: 6/1/2008 10:48:41 AM

Would 12 or 15 inches tall be tall enough for you since your 7 foot tall in your profile?


12 - 15 inches is plenty for me thanks. i'm not greedy.
 AlexisTaylor

Joined: 7/9/2007
Msg: 62
What makes a I Must have him for you?
Posted: 6/1/2008 10:51:00 AM
It's all in the in-person meet. And it's all about how I feel when around him. If I get an emotional high off of him or get the googly eyes, then I must have him.
 Superlizard1969

Joined: 5/9/2008
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What makes a I Must have him for you?
Posted: 6/1/2008 12:13:13 PM

I have not yet seen this on any man's profile "financially secure"


You're not going to see that on a man's profile, because men know better than to put that in there.
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