| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 5/28/2008 11:51:30 PM | OP: You mean the old "I'm pregnant" line spoken to keep you around long enough to GET pregnant in order to keep you around. This includes any variation, such as "I don't know IF I'm pregnant", "I told my MOM I was pregnant", I told my DAD you were the father, now he expects us to get married, and I can't tell him I had an abortion, and it's all YOUR fault!"
Those kinda things. Women who are worried about keeping track of the lies or worried about them being consistent are NOT the lying type. The ones who lie do so spontaneously, frequently, without necessity, and do not check or care if one contradicts another. The only thing that's important is that you BELIEVE them right here and NOW.
To answer your question, no women don't always lie. They have a well stocked arsenal of tools to keep you close. Lies are like a stun grenade to put you off balance while the real trap is being set. The last resort is the psycho-freak out. Whoa. Heavy. | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 5/29/2008 12:46:45 AM |
OP: You mean the old "I'm pregnant" line spoken to keep you around long enough to GET pregnant in order to keep you around.
Yeah well this is all kinda foreign to me...thats ^^^ the only lie that I think a woman would use because I saw my sister-in-law do it.
And since Im not a guy...I have nfi what women tell you.
The last resort is the psycho-freak out. Whoa. Heavy.
 ^^^ she uses that one too. Often...they have a lot of last resorts. Yeah... a whole lot. | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 5/29/2008 1:08:31 AM | So lying is a 'woman' thing? I didn't know that thanks for clearing it up. The next time a single guy confesses to being married.....I won't believe him.
OP What exactly do these women lie to you about? Their age? The fact that they were born a man? More info please  | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 5/29/2008 2:45:50 AM | i think people lie out of people pleasing good ol' co-dependence. they worry about what other people think and try to come up w scenarios of what those other people might wanna see or hear.
its called being immature and stooopid, no matter the gender. | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 5/31/2008 1:04:28 PM | | I would think that lying will eventually come back to bite you in the a--... and honesty sometimes will cause you to lose a man; but the right man will stay. Being trustworthy is high on my list of must-haves. I know a guy who lies so much that he can't keep his lies straight... women who do that will probably have the same problem. So I rather be honest and if the person I'm with can't appreciate my honesty, then they can't appreciate me. | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 5/31/2008 1:10:36 PM | Hmmm.....he seems to be my perception that both sexes lie for different reasons:
Women lie to men to alleviate men's insecurities....
Men lie just to get laid....
Of course just my opinion, but i know diddly squat because ....i don't lie | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 5/31/2008 1:53:04 PM | | YES, every single women will lie just to keep a man. No questions asked, hands down, its just the way the world works. No exceptions. | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 7/2/2008 11:10:38 AM | Good Lord; men lie 1000 times more than women; In fact when it comes to stealing, murder, adbuctions, cheating, embezzling, rape, white collar crime, etc...
If men were eliminated, 90% of the ills of the world would be gone. Do some women lie? sure. Do most men under 30 lie? most of the time. | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 7/2/2008 1:12:17 PM | I've never lied to a guy. The way I see it if a man doesn't like the fact that I'm secure in who I am and what my interests are, then theres a different guy out there that will be.
I've noticed a lot of women lying though about what they're into or what they'll do in bed, just to get the guy into them. I don't see the point of this since once he finds out you're full of it, he's going to dump your ass. | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 7/2/2008 1:16:03 PM | The question should read "Why do some people lie to get what they want..................?" As a woman, I do not feel the need to base my relationship on lies.
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 7/2/2008 1:17:19 PM | If he was Aristotle Onassis i would get a degree in lying...LOL.
But in reality...i am a totally blunt upfront person that tells the honest truth that is too much for most people, but i believe it saves time.
I would never just go along with someones thoughts or being treated a certain way and pretend to like it/them. That is when people live the biggest lie and many people do it for a life time for what they consider security or other issues.
I live truth honesty upfront as well as a life of honest for who i am without lies. | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 7/2/2008 2:15:27 PM | Are we talking any old lie here? Almost everyone lies at least a teeny tiny bit.
"Yes, you're a great driver." "You farted? I couldn't even tell." "Mmmm...good burnt cookies."
White lies that make someone feel better with no consequences, that's the grease in the wheels of a relationship. Most times I'm bluntly honest. But if I want to make someone feel good/better, even if it's not completely true, I don't see the harm in that.
Lying about my interests...no. And I'm not likely to agree with you just to 'get in your pants'. | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 7/2/2008 5:10:50 PM | Yes, I do. I find myself totally without any sense of being unless I have a MAN.
I will be his chameleon upon command. I will bend to his every need and if that includes lying so I can be who HEe wants me to be, than I will.
I am sooooo desperate and completely void of a life that I NEED to lie......
REECE | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 7/2/2008 7:48:47 PM | | That's what you call a crazy b*tch, lol. I know damn well I would not lie to keep a guy unless he was really really really near perfect but no wouldn't do it. Maybe you just have it like that OP. | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 7/2/2008 9:23:34 PM | | yes, women sometimes change their entire personalities to suit the guy.... and will say pretty much anything to keep him. it's really sad. | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 7/2/2008 9:58:45 PM | This isn't my pic at all. I actually look just like Cindy Crawford and I'm a millionaire.
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was that good?? huh?
So, what did I win?? | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 7/2/2008 10:08:06 PM | OP, i am not a girl, ( Honest! Would I lie ?), but felt compelled to address this Important Question
You have stumbled on to something , but i think you have not gone far enough.
Not only will ALL Women lie “just to keep a guy”, but they will also ALL lie in a Forum
when asked if they will “lie to keep a guy”. Just check the answers you have gotten so far. Every single
one of them is a Lie!
I honestly hope this helps clear things up for you.
Again, would I lie to you ? | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 7/9/2008 10:16:04 PM | some times they can't help it and sometimes they do it for fun
just to see if we can take it or not. some of them do it just to make
them feel good about themselves . some of them are just retarded and don't know how to keep a guy without lying, and well sucks for them....and some are just plain out GOLD DIGGERS! they lie about all kinds of shit you never heard of! and guess why??!!? FOR YOUR MONEY and sometimes sex ;D | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 7/9/2008 10:25:54 PM | | Nope, not into the lies. I once made the mistake of saying I was in love before I really was and lost a lot of sleep over it. If anything, that one mistake has made me more blunt then ever before. | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 7/10/2008 1:50:51 AM | I dunno about always, but some will. I've seen a lot of women that are so adamant that men shouldn't know about her past that they'll hide, avoid or straight up lie about it.
I still like to think it's actually the minority of women that do it, but it's not hard to find one in a crowd to reafirm that thinking. | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 7/10/2008 5:31:15 AM |
based on my experience with .00000000000001% of them.
Have you found a secret stash of women (in the order of quite a few trillion)? Or was your only physical encounter with a woman's single hair in your brush? Do the math, I think you are exaggerating a little... | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 7/10/2008 5:43:02 AM | My opinion is that your statement is most insulting. Why should I lie to have a relationship? If someone doesn't want me for who I am, then I sure as **** don't want them. Why would I want someone who thought I was less than?
Sherry | |
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