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 indehills

Joined: 2/23/2008
Msg: 26
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Posted: 5/29/2008 8:19:34 AM

Oh and btw your profile indiciates you joined this site in March, 2008 and you said you ended things with your gf last week which meants you were cheating on her by being on this site trolling for other chicks while you were with her. Unreal!


That doesn't mean he was cheating. Maybe TRYING TO cheat, though.
 Olyman38

Joined: 5/12/2005
Msg: 27
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Posted: 5/29/2008 8:24:24 AM
usualy those so quick to pass judgement are the ones that are most insecure about them self. why so harsh on this guy? he broke up with his gf hes a little P.O.ed let the guy vent a little. hasnt done anything to you. if you took the time to read his other post
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Well now that I think about, maybe you are right. So I will lighten up on this fella, if he agrees to quit drinking, smoking sheesha, calling women bad names, passing out, then trying to get with her 'HOT' BFF. Is that fair enough?
 Sabrosura

Joined: 8/1/2007
Msg: 28
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Posted: 5/29/2008 8:26:24 AM
OP: You sound really bitter about this break up, and in no position to start dating until you are over that.

Secondly, if you want to bring unnecessary DRAMA to your life, date your ex's so called "good friend" and you'll see how the "shit will hit the ceiling" (lol). Obviously, she isn't a "friend" if she's contemplating getting her groove on with you.

You know this is wrong, but want someone to justify you doing this. Don't let your anger get the best of you.......................
 akimmbo

Joined: 7/22/2007
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Posted: 5/29/2008 8:38:56 AM
you're young...and you're bored, eh?
I guess about a week's time is plenty to wait it out at that age...hahaha

seriously dude, it is very unwise to mess around with a friend's friend, or a wife's sister...trust this. You already have gotten some very good advice here.

It isn't a matter of whether she is hot...or not....the truth is, it's about revenge and being bored, neither one will lead to a successful relationship, IF, that's what you are seeking.

If you like messes and drama....then go for it
If you want some peace and to not cause harm, then just try to chill fo a while
OK?

best to you
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 smileee4u

Joined: 11/8/2007
Msg: 30
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Posted: 5/29/2008 8:43:07 AM
The relationship with your friend will end in disaster, throwing you into an emotional tailspin. You are angry with your X. Do not take it out on a good friend, by sleeping with her to get even. You are good friends. Keep it that way. It is better to keep a friend than throw her in the trash, after you have realized that you hopped in with both feet, into a REBOUND RELATIONSHIP that will fizzle within three months. DO NOT DO IT.
 xxfoxyredxx

Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 31
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Posted: 5/29/2008 9:48:09 AM
I think you have too much anger towards your ex at the moment to date anyone.

This friend of your ex's isnt a good friend either to her. Thats fine but it seems this crowd are a bit flaky with no morals at all.Im loyal to my friends that if any of them date anyone and split I dont go befriending them whether I like them or not, as I say I stay loyal. The reason I bring this up is you say your ex is a liar etc and it seems you could be going down the same road. Your still hung up on your ex. Anyone over 25 can see that its as plain as day! lol Your comparing two women and if you really liked this girl for who she was then you wouldnt do that at all, it all seems very immature to me and Im just calling it as I see it. Stop smoking the shit your smoking or youll stay zonked out in this viscious circle forever!
 clasact

Joined: 1/18/2008
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Posted: 5/29/2008 10:36:24 AM
"Like sands through the hourglass, so are the Days of Our Lives" or Welcome to "Peyton Place".

So, OP you are "bored" and bitter and I would think you are feeling a whole host of other emotions at this time.

You have only been broken up with your girlfriend a week or just over. And now, you would like to take up with your ex-girlfriends, "hot" friend? You sure you don't have some kind of drama wish? Because that's exactly what you going to get yourself into. Deep. Sounds to me like revenge. You are hurt, so just in my opinion, you should give yourself a rest. Some healing time and some "cool down" time and time to take stock of your priorities. It's like a rollercoaster ride of emotions when a relationship ends, especially if you were close to your ex girlfriend.

And you mention how "hot" the friend is ......... does that mean your top priority is perhaps banging her? And seriously, the "friend" of your ex's moved in really fast.

Whatever decision you come to, you should think long and hard about what you probably will get into. It's probably gonna be a LOT of trouble. You first need to get over your ex, which obviously, you are not. Before you move on, you should get over her.
 elaine666

Joined: 7/18/2007
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Posted: 5/29/2008 4:01:14 PM
you really need to ask this question ????? go for it sweet , she sounds awesome , andit'll be one in the eye for your ex. not that that matters ....be happy xxxxx
 mthomjmark

Joined: 2/27/2008
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Posted: 5/29/2008 4:12:13 PM
I would stop smoking shisha and drinking your beer because its making you a mindless fool. You leave them both alone or get ready to be hurt. Just the fact that you describe their looks make you sound shallow. Grow up and be a real man and get a real woman.
 carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007
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Posted: 5/29/2008 4:13:59 PM
Grab her quick before she changes her mind.

Forget her mate !
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