| Just eat me already!
Posted: 8/24/2008 2:37:50 AM |
The other night we were on my couch, him lying down and me sitting on the edge near his feet, and he actually unzipped his pants and ASKED me to go down on him! He said, "He wants some oral" motioning towards his member, then I replied, "Don't we all". He just zipped back up and said nothing. And just sat there watching TV.
What gives with this guy? Should I dump him? Would you stay with someone who expected to only receive oral and not give?
If I was you I would have not only dumped him - I would have picked him up and threw him out of the window!
I have never ever been selfish in bed and that's the way it's going to be | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 8/24/2008 3:17:24 AM | | hell to eat her, you'd have to get some jack stands to hold the fat away, dammit girl lose some weight | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 8/24/2008 8:03:24 AM | | To the curb he goes!! If this guy can't compromise now, he won't later down the road. He wants t his way and thats how it looks to me. If your not satisfied, you'll never be happy and end up getting some elsewhere. Isn't that what guys would do to us? If you would refused him a blowjob, guaranteed he would be going elsewhere to get it. Refuse him his blowjob, see what happens. | |
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Posted: 8/24/2008 2:16:34 PM | | Hey u got any flavored lube ,or TINGLE JELL, MOTION LOTION, DOC'S FUZZY NAVEL. flavor it up !! get into a good massage session flavor it up and push his head down there . If that aint workin then maybe it's time for some comunication?? There is nothin better than giving a women orgasms before the penetration because there so turned on and sensative already down there . If comunication dont work then then im sorry sister but it sounds a little selfish and one sidded . Hey try a reversal move when he's sittin there at the tv drop your draws flavor it and pop a leg up over him HAAA!! | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 8/24/2008 4:53:07 PM |
So tell me, Doctor, what problem do I have if I prefer my woman to look like a woman and not a 10 year old?
I do not know how a grown woman who is shaved could possibly resemble a 10 year old. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 8/24/2008 4:56:38 PM | I do not know how a grown woman who is shaved could possibly resemble a 10 year old.
God intended us to have hair. This is why hair grows there. Adolescents don't HAVE hair there til they reach puberty.
Hence why I said it makes them look like kiddies. Excuse me all to Hell for actually putting an AGE in there. My bad. Shoulda just stuck with "kiddie".
Point remains the same though. If she's shaven, I wouldn't piss on it if it was on fire.
PS - Hey Doc, I'm still waitin' for your reasoning as to what "problem" I have because I like them to look like women...anytime this week would be nice. Thx. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 8/25/2008 2:47:52 AM |
PS - Hey Doc, I'm still waitin' for your reasoning as to what "problem" I have because I like them to look like women...anytime this week would be nice. Thx.
I'm not a doctor and you won't have to wait until next week for an answer. This is not about you having a "problem". It's about being open minded enough to want to satisfy your woman IF she chooses to shave off her pubes. You don't have to do it - nobody should force us to do anything against our will - but she doesn't have to like your choice either and can end the relationship if that's what she wants. Then she can go look for somebody who has a different view to you. That's the bottom line. | |
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Posted: 8/25/2008 3:05:01 AM | | talk to him about it say i wont give it to u if u wont give it to me | |
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Posted: 8/25/2008 8:29:11 AM | | I'm ther for you...LOl I love to go down even without any reciprication at all.. | |
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Posted: 8/25/2008 11:50:35 AM | | Interesting. My best friend is with a guy who also won't give her oral even though this is one of the only ways she can orgasm. She's been with him for over 4 years now so I guess they're doing something right but personally this would really annoy me if I were a woman. I love giving oral to a woman as it seems such an incredibly pleasureable experience for her and I think it's important to give that to a partner. I agree if you think things will change they probably won't. My advice would probably be to have a serius discussion with him about it and if he really has a problem, then think seriously about whether you want to continue seeing him as a lover. | |
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Posted: 8/25/2008 12:45:38 PM | | Maybe he dosen't know what he is doing and is scared. Not all men are experinced cunning linquist like my self! :P | |
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Posted: 8/25/2008 1:09:19 PM | | Shit, I'd eat ya out. I think you with the wrong guy. Maybe he just ain't comfortable doing that or he never does that to a woman. Try asking him that and see what he says | |
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Posted: 8/25/2008 1:15:49 PM | Just scrolling back through a few pages I can see that 90% of the replies seem to be guys offering to do it for her... That's classy,  good old attention seeking posts. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 8/25/2008 1:26:36 PM | OP, it's time to have a heart to heart with your guy. Either he doesn't like oral, or he's not experienced with giving oral.
If he does not like oral, then he shouldn't expect to receive it. It should be give and take.
If he's not experienced with it, teach him. I had a girlfriend once that kept hinting about oral. I was terribly embarrassed to tell her I'd never done it, so I just avoided the subject. Eventually she asked me outright about it. I told her I wanted to please her, but I hadn't done oral before, so I was scared. She was patient and taught me how she liked it. Even recommended a book to read about pleasing your partner! Eventually I had her almost gravitating off the bed! :)
If you really have feelings for him, then before you decide anything, you need to flat out talk about it.
Good luck. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 8/25/2008 1:52:03 PM | I'm not a doctor and you won't have to wait until next week for an answer. This is not about you having a "problem". It's about being open minded enough to want to satisfy your woman IF she chooses to shave off her pubes. You don't have to do it - nobody should force us to do anything against our will - but she doesn't have to like your choice either and can end the relationship if that's what she wants. Then she can go look for somebody who has a different view to you. That's the bottom line.
Clearly sarcasm is lost on this crowd...
Anyways...
Thanks for your reply, and I know it's not a problem. It's a choice or a preference. I'm just amazed that a stranger would post something so finite as "you must have a problem" kinda deal because I don't like my women to be shaven. Sounds like he shoulda changed his name to WebMD.
I do also find it funny though, that you would phrase your reply so cleverly as to imply that I am perhaps not "open minded" enough. So lemme just fill you in to shed some light on that...I am plenty open minded. I do still have preferences though. Just like you do. Just like they do. Just like everyone does. I would never ask a girl to "grow it in" just to please me, nor would I ask her to shave it all off if that was my preference. She can do whatever the Hell she wants, 'cause it's her body.
Just don't get all bent out of shape when I refuse to touch you because you're shaven, or wouldn't date you because you are a strict shaver. And definately don't imply that I have some type of "problem" because I don't like them shaven. And of course, don't imply that I'm not "open minded" enough. I've been with the shaven, and I found it repulsive and very offputting.
You're just not my preference, and the world will have to get by knowing that. That's the bottom line.
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 8/25/2008 2:51:23 PM | how do you know what a naked 10 year old girl looks like in order to compare a grown woman who is shaven? I think someone is just a little bit too sensitive and fast to assume things.
love and peace
hug someone new today 
regards from 158, defender of the faith, the weak and little green aliens who burp.  | |
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Posted: 8/25/2008 3:00:59 PM | | Throw him to the curb if he is not going to please you, life is way to short, I love guys like this as they make us, the few who really know how to please a lady,irressitable. He could probably have sex with a lady and not even care if she has an orgasm as long as he has one.Be a little more picky with whos****you are going to put in your mouth and make sure you are on a two way street before you even start.That is the best part of sex, watching a women convulse with pleasure from a little lick. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 8/25/2008 3:37:55 PM | Sounds like a lazy, selfish slob. Does he tend to sit around being the center of the world when doing other things, too? Dinners? Going out? Shopping?
Dump him and find someone who's looking for a true mutual relationship rather than a servant.
Let him blow himself off. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 8/25/2008 3:59:27 PM | I don't know if this issue is yet resolved and I am unwilling to sift through 10 pages of gynecological jokes to find out so I'll just say straight up that the dude sounds like a sexual slacker. That stunt he pulled while you were watching TV seems a little cheesy too.
If you're still going out with him I hope you've set his selfish ways straight by now.
But to answer your question whether I would continue to go out with someone if they never gave oral but always wanted to receive?
Yes I would. Sex is always better for both parties after you've gone down on the woman. The dude should have figured this out by now. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 8/25/2008 5:26:45 PM | Yeah, I would let him go down on me before I go down on him.
It all depends on you. I do not do sexual relationships that do not include oral. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 8/25/2008 6:51:42 PM | its just my humble opinion, but...
if a guy doesnt AT LEAST give 50-50 of said oral fun he is not a real man.
if anything it should be like 70-80% for you 20 for him. cheers. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 8/25/2008 8:13:08 PM | Sparkle, now you're being a SUCK UP.
Get it?
I'm going to second that motion hoping it works for me too. | |
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Posted: 8/25/2008 8:21:18 PM | | he's scared of the pink taco. time for you to make a run for the border. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 8/25/2008 8:31:30 PM | how do you know what a naked 10 year old girl looks like in order to compare a grown woman who is shaven? I think someone is just a little bit too sensitive and fast to assume things.
Going on some averages, children start reaching puberty at 11. So I used the age 10 to imply pre-pubescent. This is why the age 10 was used in my reference.
Seeing as how a few have made remarks about the use of an actual age, though it was clearly just a number for reference (and clearly also lost on those that remarked)...allow me to rephrase:
"I prefer my women to look like women ~ not like pre-pubescent kiddies".
Thx, and don't forget your fortune cookie... | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 8/26/2008 5:24:16 PM |
"I prefer my women to look like women ~ not like pre-pubescent kiddies".
I think the off-putting part of your remarks is that you are insinuating that the woman who likes to shave is trying to look like a prepubescent and/or that the men who enjoy a shaved woman are somehow actually attracted to prepubescent girls.
Personally I like to shave because it feels cleaner, it is more sensitive and I think it looks nicer than a big hairy beaver. I can assure you that even when I shave it all off (I usually keep a line of hair or small triangle) my **** does not in any way resemble a prepubescent girl.
I don't think my boyfriend *prefers* me to shave but he probably enjoys not having to pick the hair out of his teeth. | |
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