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 HENCITY

Joined: 7/22/2007
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Posted: 8/26/2008 6:14:39 PM
SO WHY ARE YOU WITH HIM...DUM HIM OR DONT COMPLAING...
 failedexperiment

Joined: 7/24/2008
Msg: 402
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Posted: 8/28/2008 7:35:24 PM
Honestly, I had this problem with an ex .. I had never given oral before, and it took her basically saying "Lick me" and pushing my head down there to give me a boost of confidence.
 BigDaddyJinx

Joined: 11/4/2006
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Posted: 8/28/2008 7:55:00 PM

I think the off-putting part of your remarks is that you are insinuating that the woman who likes to shave is trying to look like a prepubescent and/or that the men who enjoy a shaved woman are somehow actually attracted to prepubescent girls.

Personally I like to shave because it feels cleaner, it is more sensitive and I think it looks nicer than a big hairy beaver. I can assure you that even when I shave it all off (I usually keep a line of hair or small triangle) my **** does not in any way resemble a prepubescent girl.




Feel as off-put as you will by interpreting my words as you see fit. I didn't insinuate anything.

- Pre-pubescent kiddies - have no hair
- Women that shave it off - have no hair
- When it's shaven off now it looks pre-pubescent

If you shave, knock yourself out. No one's saying you can't. I just stated my OPINION/PREFERENCE that I'd prefer my women to look like a woman. Nothing more, nothing less.




I love how people so often apply their own spin to someone's post...laughable.
 Brainsurgen

Joined: 8/20/2008
Msg: 404
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Posted: 8/28/2008 8:12:26 PM
Communication 101

Don't assume what you are not willing to ask a question about.
Have you asked him, or told him, that you would really like to enjoy him pleasing you :-)

If he was willing to ask you, maybe that is all you need to do.
 spicynicegirl

Joined: 8/10/2008
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Posted: 8/28/2008 8:34:40 PM
Big Daddy we have read your opinion and now you need to accept that others may not agree with it. End of story. I find it intriguing that you say a man that likes his woman "shaved" must be interested in young girls. A grown woman doesn't look anything like a young girl so maybe you should pay more attention. This is MY opinion and I'm not putting a SPIN on anything. Cheers.
 fishie_no8

Joined: 3/7/2007
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Posted: 8/28/2008 8:57:47 PM

- Pre-pubescent kiddies - have no hair
- Women that shave it off - have no hair
- When it's shaven off now it looks pre-pubescent


Do you object if a woman wears pigtails? How about if she gets braces when she is an adult? What about dwarves? Are they destined to always be seen as adults masquerading as children?

Quite a few of us have *tried* to tell you that women don't look like girls, even if they shave.

Most 12 year olds have pubic hair but they still don't look like grown women. I hope there is no open season on 12 years if they happen to have pubic hair. Most 15 year olds pretty much resemble grown women in body but they are still children.


I love how people so often apply their own spin to someone's post...laughable. [/unquote]

This bit just shows your arrogance.
 wolftx

Joined: 5/29/2008
Msg: 407
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Posted: 8/28/2008 9:26:55 PM

Do you object if a woman wears pigtails? How about if she gets braces when she is an adult? What about dwarves?

BDJ has a point. "Dwarves" (I think they'd be offended if you called them that) are different in that they look their age, just shorter. Braces have little to do with sex. And yes, pigtails turn me off for that very reason (and all this other 'school girl' dress-up kink or 'daddy' sex talk).

You argue that 12-year-olds don't look like grown women. When talking about a shaved vagina, it should have been obvious that only the pubic area should be compared, not the face, hands, feet or any other parts. It will be hard to make a point by comparing vagina pictures to try to separate the girls from the women, as it is likely illegal. Perhaps a few wrinkles or some stubble will give away the true age of a woman, but if that is not the case, do they look so much different? Would you always pick right? I grew up near nude beaches, and I second BDJ's point, especially since shaving private parts was not very common there. When I encountered the first naired beaver, I had exactly the same thoughts and it took some getting used to it. It is still not my preference.

Likewise you talk about 15 year olds who still are children. Nobody was talking about their inner maturity, just the looks, and you admitted that they can look like grown women, yet you refuse to acknowledge the opposite. It is one thing to have a preference and quite another to state facts. BDJ was very clear that his preference against shaving stems from a factual resemblance (shaved = young), and that he does not mind someone else's differing likings.

As far as the vagina area is concerned I disagree with "women don't look like girls, even if they shave".
 fishie_no8

Joined: 3/7/2007
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Posted: 8/28/2008 10:03:00 PM

You argue that 12-year-olds don't look like grown women. When talking about a shaved vagina, it should have been obvious that only the pubic area should be compared, not the face, hands, feet or any other parts. It will be hard to make a point by comparing vagina pictures to try to separate the girls from the women, as it is likely illegal. Perhaps a few wrinkles or some stubble will give away the true age of a woman, but if that is not the case, do they look so much different? Would you always pick right? I grew up near nude beaches, and I second BDJ's point, especially since shaving private parts was not very common there. When I encountered the first naired beaver, I had exactly the same thoughts and it took some getting used to it. It is still not my preference.

Likewise you talk about 15 year olds who still are children. Nobody was talking about their inner maturity, just the looks, and you admitted that they can look like grown women, yet you refuse to acknowledge the opposite. It is one thing to have a preference and quite another to state facts. BDJ was very clear that his preference against shaving stems from a factual resemblance (shaved = young), and that he does not mind someone else's differing likings.

As far as the vagina area is concerned I disagree with "women don't look like girls, even if they shave".


In all of the above points about looks, I was referring to what the vagina looks like. I am a grown woman and I was a girl at one time and I have female children, who when they were younger I saw their vaginas with my own eyes. Grown women's vaginas do NOT look like girl vaginas, even if the women shave. The shaved vaginas are also then surrounded by other parts that are definitely "mature" looking - hips, belly area, etc.

I honestly do not understand how anyone could think a grown woman's vagina could look like a pubescent or pre-pubescent vagina.

I don't have a problem at all with someone having a preference for shaved or unshaved. I was objecting to BDJ's inferences that the women who shave and the men who are with them are into pre-pubescents.

And his arrogant little dig about mine and other's opinions being "laughable" was just rude, in my opinion.
 wolftx

Joined: 5/29/2008
Msg: 409
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Posted: 8/28/2008 10:19:08 PM

Grown women's vaginas do NOT look like girl vaginas, even if the women shave.

Granted, the "laughable" comment was superfluous. But now you have me curious, since I am not as familiar with pre-pubescent vaginas as you naturally are --- and I want to keep it that way.

Leaving out the surroundings (hips, belly area, etc.) and discarding giveaways like wrinkles, nicks, stubble and the like, what is so different? I noticed that the labia on shaved vaginas tend to be less prominent, and thus I would have a harder time guessing the age of the woman from close-up pictures of shaved genitalia.

I wish there was a way to poll on this forum. I'd be interested to see men's and women's vote break-down by some age brackets. If mostly your natural familiarity with your body makes you realize the differences, could it not be that fewer women and more men think they look similar?
 BigDaddyJinx

Joined: 11/4/2006
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Posted: 8/28/2008 10:57:38 PM
I don't have a problem at all with someone having a preference for shaved or unshaved. I was objecting to BDJ's inferences that the women who shave and the men who are with them are into pre-pubescents.


Okay, now I got my back up...

Just when the F**K did I make THAT inference exactly?

You have some kinda of f**king nerve to be accusing me of such preposterous things lady. I NEVER, and I mean NEVER made any such inference. If you chose to INTERPRET it as such, then knock yourself out.

How f**king DARE you spout that shit in my direction though. I made a comparison based on biology. You need to give your head a shake. Or have someone shake it for you you self righteous *%^$# ...oh man you have me so pissed off right now. I can stand for a lot of things, bit I will NOT stand for someone outright accusing me of such ridiculous bullshit. If you were a man I'd crack you right in the f**king mouth.

You can take your juvenile interpretation and shove it up your ass sideways and set fire to it.

Piss me off...unreal.

PS - spicy, you're no better with your comment of:

I find it intriguing that you say a man that likes his woman "shaved" must be interested in young girls.


You just tell me where and when I said that at ANY time? You chicks, and your spin...god dammit.

 spicynicegirl

Joined: 8/10/2008
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Posted: 8/29/2008 12:44:35 AM
Good to know that you always need to be right.................WTF? I will stay away from you in the posts in the future. All the best.
 fishie_no8

Joined: 3/7/2007
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Posted: 8/29/2008 3:50:26 AM

Leaving out the surroundings (hips, belly area, etc.) and discarding giveaways like wrinkles, nicks, stubble and the like, what is so different? I noticed that the labia on shaved vaginas tend to be less prominent, and thus I would have a harder time guessing the age of the woman from close-up pictures of shaved genitalia.


Well, far be it for me to discard giveaways but in addition there is a natural discolouration of the labia on the women and the scrotum on men. It gets darker the older one gets.

Do you think that your genitals look now like they did when you were a kid?

But I guess other than that, you are right, maybe if the only clue one has is the vagina close up then someone could be forgiven for thinking they look the same. I can't imagine offering up my vagina in isolation like that though. The rest of my body is connected to it and it looks pretty mature.

My point about the 15 year old is that, if you knock off her head and look only at her body, including her grown up breasts and her fully hairy genitals, then even though she may appear to be grown up, she is not.
 stevelfun

Joined: 10/23/2005
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Posted: 8/29/2008 4:03:32 AM
I hear - that some guys are just not into it.

Funny - I have always loved goin' down on a woman - assuming she were clean and fresh.

Sorry that you are experiencing this. Maybe he needs someone to 'teach' him? Maybe you can be that one and break him in right. ;-)
 InSydney

Joined: 3/14/2007
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Posted: 8/29/2008 5:04:06 AM
I think a lot of people here are getting way off topic. Yeah, I had a disagreement with BigDaddyJinx too but after I re-read my posts and his I just accepted his way of seeing things and have moved on. Why can't the rest of you do that too? He's entitled to have his own preferences without having to explain himself (or to justify himself). Just because others differ from him doesn't make them better or worse - it is what it is. Let's all move on.
 MagEMaeI

Joined: 6/6/2008
Msg: 415
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Posted: 8/29/2008 5:17:00 AM
Noooo.It all boils down to typical selfishness.

The same guys who refused to go down on a woman are the same ones who relish the opportunity to get bjs and don't hesitate to ask for it.

It is obvious from the guy's reaction lack of communication isn't this issue~it is one of being selfish

Dump him and move on.I have a feeling the selfish part transends into other issues...
it usually does
 Knittin Kitten

Joined: 1/15/2007
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Posted: 8/29/2008 6:40:23 AM
Is it just me, or has anyone else noticed that we have not heard from the OP in quite awhile. Do you think she still cares? Do you think she's still sitting on the couch waiting for him to become unselfish? Or, perhaps she's moved on.....and....maybe.....after 17 pages.....so should we.?

KK
 TheMrFix

Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 417
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Posted: 8/29/2008 9:50:24 AM
It just ain't fair.....nope, it ain't
 TheMrFix

Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 418
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Posted: 8/29/2008 9:51:40 AM
It just ain't fair.....nope, it ain't
 TropiFun

Joined: 8/19/2008
Msg: 419
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Posted: 8/29/2008 1:11:22 PM
well it is said, "it is better to give than to receive".... :)

dump the guy...if after 3 months he isn't doing what it takes to please you, as much as possible, then he's a self-centered loser. dump him!

if you're doing your part, bj after bj...(note to self, meet this babe asap! )
and he isn't in the game when you ask....then move on to better things.

good luck and keep up the good work (ahem bj's)
 perziankitty

Joined: 6/19/2008
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Posted: 8/29/2008 1:33:15 PM
Dear O.P. - Coming from personal experience - this is not going to change. If you like this kind of sex, and he does not look for another fishie! I agree with most posts saying it like it is - especially the one post saying "if he does it now for you - and knowing he is not into it - somehow takes the pleasure out of it - if he is doing it just to do it". You'd want your man to want to do this for you, etc., when you have to ask it kind of takes something away from the whole act of pleasing you. Also, while he may do it every so very often just to do it - if you really like it why deny yourself!
 Hewee

Joined: 4/29/2008
Msg: 421
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Posted: 8/29/2008 1:40:53 PM
its incredible that you still want to be with this****ead... he wants you to go down on him but doesnt want to go down on you... do you ever think why he doesnt want to go down on you?
1. he thinks/assumes that its unhygenic because that is where your wee-wee comes out and it yucks him to go down on you..
2. you are to pleasure him as a sex slave not for him to pleasure you...
think it over~~
 wildgoose101

Joined: 5/20/2008
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Posted: 8/29/2008 4:51:58 PM
DUMP THE DUDE

How rude, ignorant, ungentlemanly is that "He wants some oral" the guy obviously has no respect for you and for him to ignore your obvious hints shows what a selfish lover he is.

Find someone who deserves you and is willing to be the 6 to your 9
 superbadzzz

Joined: 8/16/2008
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Posted: 8/29/2008 10:23:22 PM
well, did he? the suspense is killing me!
 frontpagepic

Joined: 2/26/2007
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Posted: 8/30/2008 4:35:28 AM
See, this is what dating is all about. You have a check list... check off the important things.

Humour... check
Smile... check
Weight... check
Employed... check
Lives on his own... check
Ok, there's one more thing to test for...

There are guys who will give you what you want 'till YOU can take no more... every freakin' day.
 108168999

Joined: 7/11/2008
Msg: 425
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Posted: 8/30/2008 4:37:46 AM
damn right he should go down on you.
its a vital requirement in my books.
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