| Just eat me already! Posted: 8/30/2008 9:13:01 AM | Maybe the guy wants to go down on a big strap on instead?
(excuse me, I just barfed a little in my mouth, ugh)
Look, I had a bad experience one time going down on this one woman. This was back when, trimming wasn't a big issue. Anyway, I went to town on her, she was hot and I started and then suddenly stopped, I pulled back and picked a ball of lint from my mouth. Ok now that is gross. But it still don't deter me at all from doing the deed. I still enjoy doing that. However, I make sure that she is not all Sasquach woman down there looking like Chewbacca's little kid running around. Well groomed is the way to go. | |
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| Just eat me already! Posted: 8/31/2008 11:54:23 AM | This is ridiculous. Of course he should give you oral. It's hardly a chore, is it?
Having said that though, if this really is an issue, then it kind of poses questions as to whether he's selfish in other ways too, because this is a no-brainer. You can't demand oral sex without giving it back. The solution is either to deliberately not give head, or badger him into doing it. Neither solution helps you two though because at least one of you's bound to get annoyed. | |
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| Just eat me already! Posted: 8/31/2008 6:25:54 PM | YOU SOUND LIKE MY KIND OF GUY!! LOL LET THE BUFFET BEGIN, BABY!  | |
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| Just eat me already! Posted: 8/31/2008 6:51:10 PM | | Before giving my opinion on this, I would have to know what was on TV at the time. | |
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| Just eat me already! Posted: 8/31/2008 7:21:21 PM | | Wow, I absolutely love giving noggin and feel disappointed if I can't spend asmuch quality time down there as I want... I'm sure a bunch of folks have weighed-in to your satisfaction so I'll leave it at that... | |
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| Just eat me already! Posted: 9/1/2008 11:38:26 AM | Well, this guy does it & sure as heck enjoys it. I love it whenever my woman starts squirming moaning and d a m n e d near screaming! The saddest part of it is when she makes me stop. I did find a woman once that enjoyed getting as much as I enjoyed giving. She took it for about three hours. Man was that ever a night to remember...
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| Just eat me already! Posted: 9/1/2008 8:12:23 PM | i lov givin oral to a girl. i wish i was doin it right now! yummy!  | |
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| Just eat me already! Posted: 9/4/2008 3:16:23 PM | Looks like the original poster has disappeared
My ideal night with a woman is to spend as much time as we can in a 69er
And then we can finish things off in a spooning pozzie | |
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| Just eat me already! Posted: 9/8/2008 3:35:00 PM | I agree she should have taken issue with him, though not necessarily for not going down on her, its the way he refused that would've made me see red!
Some people just aren't comfortable with everything we'd like them to be. For this to be acceptable to me, they should make up for it in other ways and acknowledge any hypocracy/unbalance in the relationship, not just ignore me when they don't get it all their own way! | |
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| Just eat me already! Posted: 9/8/2008 3:42:25 PM | Some guys just won't dine at the Y. I have no idea why, but some think the thang is nasty, but theyll let you put your mouth on their pee pipe. Not fair is it. | |
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| Just eat me already! Posted: 9/8/2008 3:56:06 PM |
The saddest part of it is when she makes me stop. I did find a woman once that enjoyed getting as much as I enjoyed giving. She took it for about three hours. Man was that ever a night to remember...
OK...I know everyone is different...but I just am curious to see what others will say about this!
I love, love, love giving and receiving oral, though not neccessarily/always simultaneously. I could most definitely enjoy a lengthy time of receiving...but would feel guilty with three hours of such divine pleasure! LOL
I completely understand the aspect of getting pleasure from pleasuring...but do you boys enjoy it for any other reasons? I guess we women are so used to hearing men tell us how they LOVE it...how they ROCK at it...how they could live by pvssy alone! LOL But it is not often that a guy will ONLY desire doing such...so is it really that wonderful for you?? | |
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| Just eat me already! Posted: 9/9/2008 1:59:44 AM | Well it seems fairly obvious your sexual chemistry is just not there. So simply put, either you accept this and go on, or well find someone that its compatible with. Would you stay with someone who expected to only receive oral and not give? Nope
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| Just eat me already! Posted: 9/11/2008 9:26:44 AM | | what man in his right mind does not like giving a woman oral. I love it you make a woman cum two or three times licking her **** and then **** her when she is at her most sensitive it drives her mad. | |
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| Just eat me already! Posted: 9/11/2008 9:43:06 AM | | If your not satisfied in bed why would you even think of staying with someone like that. Friends are great but if your sexually aroused and want more then leave and find some other fish that can please you in every way.... And be happy on both sides of the water | |
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| Just eat me already! Posted: 9/11/2008 10:51:22 AM | | HE'S A FOOL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I ENJOY GOING DOWN ON A GIRL THEN ****ING, AND I DO PAY ATTENTION I DON'T DISSAPPOINT !!!!!!!! | |
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| Just eat me already! Posted: 9/11/2008 11:00:26 AM | I am not a man of course but in my experience some love it and some don't-I can't imagine it's you personally putting him off. I don't feel being tit for tat in a relationship is fair (as in you withholding) but you have every right to have your needs met. If this is a deal breaker for you tell him in a loving way what you want.
Then the test is on to see if he antes up or if he's not into it. It's him not you. If he doesn't like it he doesn't like it. Then it's up to you if you can live with that and not be resentful. | |
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| Just eat me already! Posted: 9/11/2008 11:43:40 AM | Well, I had a buddy in college like that, So here is my joke!
Newlywed couple on wedding night she wants it, and says honey!
He says no way my momma says:" You got teeth down there"
So she says are you kiddin, and shimmies over to the bed and hikes up her camisole and takes off her panties and says See:, " I don't have any teeth down there"
And he says:, " No wonder you don't have teeth down there, look at the shape your gum's are in!  | |
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| Just eat me already! Posted: 9/11/2008 11:48:55 AM | | I have always wandered if I could stay with someone whom I would go down on but refused to go down on me. I still don't think I can answer. I love to 69 and can go for hours if I'm allowed but to take that and many other offshoots of oral away for ever I'm just not sure about. Many Many times I have been the only one to give gratification and I'm fine with that. Just the thought of it later can make both people insanely horny if done at the right place and time. | |
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| Just eat me already! Posted: 9/11/2008 12:34:01 PM | | I'd rather go down on a muffin than breathe so what do I know? I can't imagine what's on this dude's mind. Maybe he's some weird germaphobe and thinks it's unsanitary (even though the original poster said that is not an issue). All I know is I could not be satisfied, sexually, if I were not allowed to perform oral on my lover. In fact, I enjoy it so much I could do that in lieu of actual intercourse and without any expectation of reciprocation on the part of the woman. I get my gratification and pleasure from my partner's. It's an ego trip and when you can make your lady cum that way......what better stroke of the sexual ego is there than that?!!? | |
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| Just eat me already! Posted: 9/11/2008 12:48:46 PM | | Unless oral sex is your favorite, I'm not sure what to think as long as he makes up for during sexual intercourse. Dump him if you value oral sex more than his company. To oral sex or not oral sex, that is the question. | |
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| Just eat me already! Posted: 9/20/2008 5:48:48 PM | Some guys just dont get into it. My current friend won't stop!!!!! I don't complain. You just have to decide if you can do without or just talk to him about it.  | |
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