| Just eat me already!
Posted: 9/20/2008 6:02:16 PM | | I would likely say dump him. Whatever his good qualities, I would say that selfishness is a huge black mark against him and not one I would personally put with. Maybe give him one more chance. Ask him to go down on you. If he flatly refuses he is a selfish jerk and to hell with him. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 9/20/2008 6:04:43 PM | | Sorry to pop the bubble but if you can't even talk to this guy about your desires, you are at least half the problem. This may be an area he has no experience with and is intimidated by his lack of knowledge. But really, for all you readers, if you can't have an open honest discussion with your partner about sex--what are you doing having sex with them in the first place. I suppose you were affraid to discuss sexual history or birth control options before going to bed as well. Grow up and start TALKING TO YOUR LOVER! Be honest and if he can't handle it, then it's time to bail. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 9/20/2008 6:17:56 PM | mmmmm nothing better than going down on a woman i would do it every day if i had one loljust love the feel of it when they cum   | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 9/20/2008 6:21:09 PM |
whatyourmammawarneduabout: "What gives with this guy? Should I dump him? Would you stay with someone who expected to only receive oral and not give?"
I think if you'd slept with him a little sooner in the relationship then you could have figured this out early enough to more easily abort the attempt.
It sounds like he's not into it. And now you're withholding fellatio as a punishment.
Walk away. The relationship sexually is now tainted so you might as well just bail. Even if you could spend the effort to sit down and describe your needs and his needs... it's got this ill will now and you'll keep revisiting this issue in one form or another.
Really though, if you shaved yourself and he didn't go down on you that was your first sign of warning right there. Life's too short. Move on. You don't love this guy, don't kid yourself. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 9/20/2008 7:57:26 PM | | Good response! U can lead a horse to water... but..... :) | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 9/20/2008 10:21:39 PM | OK I have to say that a man not liking to do it is a whole lot stranger than a woman not liking to do it. What the hell is he thinking? There is no better dish on the planet.  | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 9/20/2008 10:47:51 PM |
I'm kind of surprised at all the dump him comments. . . Not everybody has the same preferences. Let me ask you this - if the roles were reversed, you didn't like bj's - would you expect him to dump you? There are PLENTY of ways to please and be pleased. I don't see why one aspect would necessarily be a deal breaker - if everything else was good. Some people have had bad experiences (men and women) - so maybe one 'don't we all' comment is not clear enough communication. If it is that important to you, might I suggest an open conversation (over dinner maybe?) about sexual preferences. If you can't talk about it, you probably shouldn't be expecting it. . JMHO.
This is the smartest post in the lot. Seriously. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 9/20/2008 10:56:52 PM | | How do you know your beaver is clean and fresh even after you douch? I'll tell you something. I went out with a girl who I had the same issue with. She kept herself clean but every time we did it her juice was a turn off to me. I ate it once and It wasn't pleasurable to me and trust me, I love eating box. I couldn't figure out why, after she took a bath, the dam thing stunk. I determed this: when she climaxed, what ever she was drank (like her different organic cleansing tea's she always drank) must have been getting absorbed into body organs, unary tract and also in her cum gland, thus making her snatch juice smell terrible. Now, it's possible your eating or drinking something that makes your snatch juice smell simular to her problem. Consider drinking water for a few weeks to flush out what ever it is in your system. Chances are thats your problem. So how do you get him to eat you now? Well, your going to either take samples yourself (stick your fingers in yourself and taste it) or hire me to come over and eat you LOL. If that cures your issue then simply tell him, your box juice is clean now and he may proceed with 2nd base. And I would explain to him what happened, us men are very reasonable and ok with the truth. Let me know the outcum! | |
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Joined: 9/14/2008
Msg: 459 | |
| Just eat me already!
Posted: 9/20/2008 11:14:14 PM | Are you a front loader or a rear loader? Meaning, do you wipe your ass from back to front? That would be a front loader or do you wipe your ass front to back? - That’s a Rear loader! If you’re a front loader, that’s your problem! You have a shit stains on your snatch lips. I wouldn't eat it either, in fact I'd run from ya! | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 9/21/2008 5:22:05 AM | | i gotta tell ya , if he hasnt done it to you yet,,you better make a decision if its important to you or not..cause i have to say,.. its obviously not important to him. some men ,are just not into that ..(rare, but true)..i think personally , that its a big part of a sexual relationship..especially if there are feelings there.. he should want to do that, and love it too..id think twice.good luck. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 9/21/2008 6:59:16 AM | If there's one thing I can't stand, is a man whose afraid of giving kitty a kiss, or two, or three hundred.
Damn, talk about a requirement for good foreplay?? I must eat it, before entering it! If she tastes good, I won't be up for quite a while. And if your really good, I'll change positions while I eat.
I love it when a woman is daring enough lay me down, fold her legs onto my shoulders (pinning me down), and ride my lips until she's satisfied. | |
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Joined: 7/20/2008
Msg: 462 | |
| Just eat me already!
Posted: 9/21/2008 7:40:51 AM |
If there's one thing I can't stand, is a man whose afraid of giving kitty a kiss, or two, or three hundred.
Lmao! Heeere kitty kitty | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 9/21/2008 7:58:29 AM | While I agree with VR1 that what you consume orally, can affect scent AND taste....
Are you a front loader or a rear loader? Meaning, do you wipe your ass from back to front? That would be a front loader or do you wipe your ass front to back? - That’s a Rear loader! If you’re a front loader, that’s your problem! You have a shit stains on your snatch lips. I wouldn't eat it either, in fact I'd run from ya!
This is just too much! What percentage of women do you think do not KNOW that you have to wipe front to back?! Itsa given...kinda like how when you boys pee...shaking more than twice means you're playing with it! | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 9/21/2008 8:03:59 AM | I just can't understand why a woman wouldn't like their man doing that... I mean to each his or her own, but DAYUM... I'd rather do that than anything else.  | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 9/21/2008 8:08:46 AM | There is more than one thing that seems out of place here. One of the first things you said is that you think you love him. So, now I am wondering how true your love is if all they have to do is, not give you oral to have you leave them.
He may have known what you were talking about when you said, "Don't we all" but you don't know that. You don't know that because you haven't communicated with him about this.
You need to first let him know how important it is to you, and then you should find out if he has issues with performing oral. Communication is always the key, and the lack of it will cause issues to arise that probably were never there in the first place | |
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~EQUE~
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Joined: 7/20/2008
Msg: 467 | |
| Just eat me already!
Posted: 9/21/2008 8:34:32 AM |
Meoooowww...wow, Eque2! You laugh, but it's true.
I know, I know.....
I just thought got a real kick out of "kitty"
puuurrrr | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 9/21/2008 8:45:15 AM | Kitty...nookie...sweets...yummy (my favorite)
Lots of names. But, no matter what name you call it by, the most important word a man should be able to call it...is "his".
Seriously speaking, I would, like coolbrotha, have to ask the importance of this, in terms of it being a potential "dealbreaker".
I found out that a girl I was preiously with, hadn't had it ever done to her; before I started to. I just think of it as naturally apart of foreplay. So I was surprised when she gained a multiple orgasm from it. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 9/21/2008 8:46:49 AM | | here's my number..561-***-****...i'm a certified muff diver!!! | |
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Posted: 9/21/2008 8:53:15 AM | | sometimes guys are turned off by smell, I dated a girl for a year until she dused and took pills I would not eat, once she did it , It was like candyland and I was lid a kid in candy store, You have to tell them somtimes | |
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Posted: 9/21/2008 8:58:43 AM | | thats what happens only if you do not get enough pamparing, we all need it some more than others but still need it, honey you sound like a full time job, but what a nice job to have. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 9/21/2008 9:57:59 AM | whatyourmammawarneduabout 28
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Posted By: whatyourmammawarneduabout on 5/29/2008 4 03 AM
Subject: Just eat me already!
Message: So, I've been seeing this guy for about 3 months and things are starting to get serious. I'm very attracted to him, and I think I might love him. There's just a few problems. One, he wont go down on me! Please do not bring up the heigene thing, because that is not an issue here. I keep everything clean down there and shaved smooth. I've given him blow job after blowjob and me, I get nothing!
The other night we were on my couch, him lying down and me sitting on the edge near his feet, and he actually unzipped his pants and ASKED me to go down on him! He said, "He wants some oral" motioning towards his member, then I replied, "Don't we all". He just zipped back up and said nothing. And just sat there watching TV.
What gives with this guy? Should I dump him? Would you stay with someone who expected to only receive oral and not give?
GUESS SHE GOT HER ANSWERS ALREADY!!!!! | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 9/21/2008 1:50:33 PM | I don't get that... first off let me say, i love getting oral... and if the girl actually likes giving it its 100 times better since you don't have to force her to do it.. Sooo as for going down on a girl, I love it, it actually turns me on more than anything else.. i usually start by fingering her or something, and then id go down on her.. usually that would be enough and thats all id be looking for... I wouldn't even ask for anything in return because its suck a huge turn on for me.. but when it comes down to it, if you give you should receive.. fair is fair!!!
Well i hope everything works out for you on this one! .... But if it dosent, and your looking for someone who gets turned wayyy on by pleasing a woman, you know where to find me! ;) haha Goodluck!
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 9/21/2008 2:01:24 PM | | I do not believe that an ultimatum is the answer. Why not talk to him about it? Then you have to ask yourself how important it is if you never have oral sex performed on you again, because that is what it sounds like with this individual. | |
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