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Posted: 5/29/2008 8:13:36 AM | I knew this guy who thought it was good enough to put him penis in but not his mouth
What a wuss
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Posted: 5/29/2008 8:21:00 AM | | It' all a matter of taste (no pun intented) ! I have had a couple of ladies that I never quit got around to it with them. But I have had others that I just could not get enough.I had one who did not give or receive. Go figure. Just talk about it may be a hang up from the past. Who knows? | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 8:22:54 AM |
he actually unzipped his pants and ASKED me to go down on him! He said, "He wants some oral" motioning towards his member, then I replied, "Don't we all". He just zipped back up and said nothing. And just sat there watching TV.
^^^^ This is a 'no-brainer'.
He zipped back up and said NOTHING? Just sat there watching TV?
Get rid of this selfish git.
Giving oral sex to a woman is one of life's simple pleasures, the taste, the beautiful wetness, the musky aroma and especially knowing she absolutely loves it and gets off on it.
This bloke doesn't know what he's missing, and it ain't going to get better. | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 8:30:56 AM | | Well, it depends on how important this is when you balance it with everything else that's happening in your relationship. Not everyone is into everything. I had known someone who claimed he would not go down on absolutely anyone, regardless of whether you had him for dessert or not. But come to think of it, maybe he was just afraid of what I might do with that whip in my bedroom when he wasn't looking. Hmmmmmm!!! | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 9:09:54 AM | Yeah, it looks like you found yourself a guy who thinks he should get head, but doesn't have to reciprocate. That won't change, it means he doesn't like giving oral and/or that he doesn't feel he has to give it.
If he wants to get oral and you don't mind not getting it yourself, then that's one thing, then it is a preference that both of you are okay with, not every person "has" to give oral. But that he expects oral and expects you to give it without it ever being reciprocated, means you two are not sexually compatible at all. There are women out there who do not like to receive oral, and that is more what his more selfish (seemingly, not necessarily) desires are compatibile with. For you, sexual compatibility will most likely be found with a guy who likes to give you oral just as much as you like getting it, and vice versa. | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 9:15:21 AM | | I feel your pain =( things for me are kind of the same. I have asked my bf to go down on me and he just ignores what I say and starts doing me. When I ask him about it, he says its a phase.... a phase??? I know how could this be right??? He has done it in the past and really well, but now it’s practically impossible to get him down there. I love my bf too much to ever leave him for that.... but I do see how this can stir some problems. Talk you your bf and let him know how you fell... if he doesn’t come through for you, leave him and find someone who can please you and love you at the same time. Good luck! | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 10:04:24 AM | Some guys do and some guys don't.Some women do,some women don't.No two women taist the same or smell the same.After a long hot shower works for me.
What gives with this guy? Should I dump him? Would you stay with someone who expected to only receive oral and not give?
Well it all depends on what weighs more with you. Companionship? Or Sex? I know it's best when both the companionship and the sex is good. This doesn't seem to be a question you could ask a bunch of strangers to your situation. Only you know. Sounds like to me it's crossing your mind to ditch this guy.But obviously you enjoy his company or you wouldn't still be with him. I think communication is the leading factor in any relationships success. | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 11:19:26 AM | It sounds to me that you already have your answer, as most have implied here. If he hasn't gone to eat at the Y yet.. chances are he never will.
Personally, I love giving pleasure to my mate that way... Do I require her to reciprocate!? Yes.. I love getting it ALMOST as much as I love giving it. Ya.. that is a deal breaker for me...
I have had women in my past that did not like it... until I taught them how.. then they loved it. If you take the time.. it can happen. But this guy, doesn't sound like he is even interested... and that is cool.. different strokes... you know? I just wouldn't be happy with it.  Just being honest!
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Posted: 5/29/2008 11:24:47 AM | | Dump him, he doesn't know how to enjoy a woman. Chances are he's not too good in bed also, selfish, the minuteman type. Doesn't care if his partner is satified, I might be wrong, maybe? | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 11:33:49 AM | To those posters who said it's a silly thing to leave someone over, please consider the following:
The dealbreaker wasn't that he wouldn't perform oral on her. The dealbreaker was that he was an ar$e about it! Zip up and watch TV indeed!
What a guy!
IF he wanted to discuss it, he had a funny way of showing it.
IF he was inexperienced, he could have said so.
Nope, he was being selfish and petty. | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 11:39:38 AM | | I knew of a guy who divorced his wife for not wearing a strapon, her complaint was that he was to busy doing other guys instead of being home eating her out. | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 11:49:13 AM | i think what would bother me as much or more than him not reciprocating is him not being at all concerned about your response.......if he were even the slightest bit caring, he would want to address your concern, even if he were not willing to, well, you know.......but at least have a discussion......you opened the door for him, he chose not to walk through it gracefully, or at all
unless he wants to communicate about this, you need to think about moving on.......not getting the oral is really the least of your problems with this guy, IMO | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 12:22:03 PM | | Sounds like performing oral is just not his thing. I seem to meet all the men that don't like to receive it. Yes it is a deal breaker. I want the whole package. I love to give oral but in turn I should be able to receive from time to time. I would find something lacking. I would come out and ask. A guy friend of mine said this woman he knows gives him oral all the time and she said he never does her so I asked him why and he said u don't know where that cum collector has been and thats gross! U don't know who all she is with in a week. I like my women to be clean. I told her I would dump him. He was disrespectful to her. | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 12:23:00 PM | | It sounds like he is selfish and wants it all his way. I personally make sure I please my partner first. Foreplay, Kissing, Hugging and then go down to give pleasure to her. I would dump him! Life is too short and there are plenty of guys just looking to find a woman like you! | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 2:01:21 PM | Well what did he say when you asked him? I mean if you can give him oral sex, I am sure you can talk to him about it. Comunication? Did you ask him? | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 2:06:12 PM | I think there is a major communication issue with both people. If you want to resolve this problem, some proper dialogue is needed. This man may be highly misinformed on the subject, he may have had a bad experience, maybe he had a girlfriend that dumped him the day he went down and he is now worried that if he goes down on you, you will dump him as well.
If you want to resolve this issue, you have to have a frank and honest discussion. You may never get him to do the deed. At some point you may have to ask yourself if you can continue this relationship without oral.
I don't like the way how this guy just zipped up and said nothing, but by your story, you said nothingas well. Both of yo show signs of communication problems. If this difficulty goes even further then just sex, you are waisting your time.
Another solution that might not be succssful. Next time he asks you to go down on him, tell him you want him to lie down, then mount him in a 69 position. If he associates giving you oral with the pleasure of you giving him oral, he may get over the problem. | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 2:13:41 PM | | The OP should ask her boyfriend why he doesn't like giving oral. Maybe he had a bad experience. Maybe he hasn't done it that often and he feels that he wouldn't be able to satisfy her. | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 4:42:45 PM | Ok heres what you should try. Get him VERy horny i mean extreamly horny. like make out with him, dry hump him, lap dance, rub yourself all overhim and try and make him extremly horny as possible! make him wanna have sex so bad but don't give it to him just keep on teasing him all night even if you have to do it till the sun comes up!!!!!!!!! jUst keeep on doing it and make him so hard that he wont be able to take it anymore and he will want you so bad but because he can't have you like that he will go down on you!!!!!! if not he's GAy!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 4:59:26 PM | This is a WARNING. Dump him NOOOOOOOW. lol so next time before things get too serious............make sure the sex is good........and he´s hungry for it...in every way
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Posted: 5/29/2008 4:59:57 PM | Might be a cultural thing! I know most Nigerian men won't give oral. Just not something they do and if they do - they won't admit it to their friends!  Crazy but true! | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 5:23:02 PM | | What a selfish jerk, IMO get rid of him. I would not have even let him get away with it for 3 months. | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 5:33:40 PM | | I would come right out and tell him it's important to you. If he says he simply won't do it then you should think about moving on if it's that important to you. Good luck. | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 5:43:27 PM | You're 28 years old, so , in addition to probably having a not so great sex life, if you keep the guy, now you have had an early warning of how he is going to react to other problems that might  arrive in your future relationship, ie, instead of being able to talk to you, he'll just sulk, and you'll have to drag anything for answers out of him........ If it turns out to be miserable even getting the reason out of him, are you ready to live with someone who doesn't satisfy you and you have no ability to communicate with too?  | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 5:56:27 PM | I've had this problem before.. and it was.. as I love to say a "deal breaker".
I even asked well more of less stated that he was afraid of my vagina.
He was quite shy and not experienced sexually, apparently.
Since we were friends before we got serious I moved him into the friend zone and there he lies forever.
I spent years with a man that didn't turn me on sexually, my first love, and I was young and naive enough to think that love and good feelings would get us by.
The sexual attraction and compatibility is a must, so move on with joy and find someone to eat that puss girl! | |
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