| Just eat me already!
Posted: 9/21/2008 2:12:33 PM | If you're wanting to dump him because he won't go down on you, then you really don't love him.
TALK to him about it, and find out WHY he won't. | |
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Posted: 9/21/2008 3:59:20 PM | ok sounds like he is trin to dominate you in one way or another. thats why he zipped up the britches and went back to watchin tv.tell you what i will give you some good advise.tell him that oral sex is important to you. that you enjoy haven orgasiums too.and if he wants to dominate someone by makein them do without then go get a puppy. you have feeling too, and he isnt the olny adult human in this relationship. so either go down and share the pleasure or go.now that sounds tough but if oral is important to you then that is what has to happen. dont be shy in letting your partner know what you like and how you like it.!!!!! | |
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Posted: 9/21/2008 4:17:43 PM | | Sounds like three months wasted for both of you. When you are willing to tend to his needs and he seems to not be interested in tending to yours. This type of behaviour will show up elsewhere in the relationship. Get out now while there is no further attachment. | |
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Posted: 9/21/2008 6:06:33 PM |
Majority of us women cannot O without receiving oral...
hmmm, first time i ever heard that...oral is great but isn't that a bit over dramatic? | |
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Posted: 9/21/2008 8:58:05 PM | Dear God...
I cannot believe there are blokes out there like this - giving us all a bad name -
"I LOVE DOING IT" it sends me giddy with excitement i have to be pulled away, lol.
It is part of foreplay, for some women its the only way they can orgasm, if not a preferred way to orgasm, if there is ever a club invented where you sign up to have 'foolin around' without the orgasm erm i wont join..
MY FACE HERE
Yey... | |
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Posted: 9/22/2008 1:12:08 AM | | wow maybe you should just ask him there may be reasons that are actually understandable ask and you may recieve this might be new to him and he may be afraid to tell you or worried he wont please you or a bad experience happened to him talk to him im sure you would appreciate if he talked to you about about any issues he had with something you did or didnt do.simple isnt it,really communicate its good for any relationship certainly takes the guess work out of it and then again you may find out he is a selfish lover and you can move on and not wonder if you did the right thing or not.good luck either way | |
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Posted: 9/22/2008 1:29:37 AM | Selfishly speaking I wish every guy hated to go down on women. Once the word was out that I was the only one, the ladies would have to take numbers and wait their turn | |
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Posted: 9/22/2008 4:20:11 PM |
Msg #485...I cannot believe there are blokes out there like this - giving us all a bad name...It is part of foreplay, for some women its the only way they can orgasm...
i guess i've grown up on a very different planet...oral is just one of the tools in a skilled, capable man's bag of sexual foreplay tricks...oral definitely gets them off in a very nice way...still, many other techniques do that just as well, if not better...and in my direct personal experience, it's not the best organism a woman can have...
it's a bit puzzling that since my post, only men have responded...where are the women who agree or disagree with what i wrote...
i don't usually touch my women three inches below the belly button for the first 10-20 minutes of foreplay...i want every cell in her body to be fully awakened to what's coming over the next hour or so...i want every juice she can produce to be flowing...i want her to discover, maybe for the first time, a number of other sensual places on her body that will most likely rock her world...
when the time is right, her breathing is fast paced, maybe panting, and her skin is flushed, finally, i move lower to aid in her first organism of that session...it's usually 15-30 seconds away...some women can prolong one organism into 3 or 4...and i'm there to assist her through getting totally lost inside of them all...
you see, guys, foreplay is all about touch...we have to see and then feel what's happening for us...women are way different...they close their eyes and using a much richer sense of imagination than we have, they play out in their mind what's coming next...
that anticipation for them is so much more powerful and if their man can properly feed that wild imagination, it is so much sweeter for them...
don't get me wrong, guys...oral is great...i love it...i love giving it...in the course of one night, my honey usually has 6 to 10 organisms...and no more than 1 or 2 will be from oral...stated simply, our lovemaking is so much richer than just that...
there's a saying, when all you have is a hammer, every job you need to do looks surprising like a nail... | |
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Posted: 9/22/2008 4:40:14 PM | For A Good Time Call..................
LOL, j/k!
I can remember, back in high school, hearing that black men weren't into giving oral.
Whether or not that was actually true, I haven't a clue.
My response always was............sux to be them!!
I will agree that oral is but only one tool in my arsenal of pleasure.
I've actually been surprised a couple of times when some women seemed more interested in the fact that I have very skilled hands. But, after thinking about it...........fingers can go places that tongues can't. And the combination of the two will sometimes activate the silent partner's vocal chords.
THAT'S when things REALLY start to get hot!
But anyways.....
Why am I not surprised to see that this dead dog is still on life support?? | |
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Posted: 9/22/2008 4:46:06 PM | WOW! Did I, join up for all this YEP!,
Does bring back memories.
A little bit of foreplay will save you the look on your face of just getting mustard in your mouth if it's that stingent. A couple of rubs with your hand and slowly bringing it around your nose will send a flag of retreat or full steam ahead.And most generally even with her jeans on or what ever you'll know.
My be shes part Mermaid????????
Me I, like my dinner to smell good!
Because thats where my seriuos skills come into play,I never need to ask if she got off.
its all over both our faces!
And when a woman does man you got to know!And if you don't, you just don't do it enough or just unskilled!
PRACTICE!!!!PRACTICE!!!!PRACTICE!!!!!! FOREPLAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
That's where its all at and that's what leads to an EXPLOSIVE CLIMAX!!!
BE A HERO!!!
P.S LEAVE THE FISH ALONE LONG ENOUGH AND I'M SURE THE FISH TANK WILL GET CLEANED! BECAUSE IF THERE'S A PROBLEM DOWN THEIR.
ITS KNOWN TO THE OWNER BEFORE WE GET THEIR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
DO I SOUND MEAN?i need help with that bye! | |
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Posted: 9/23/2008 5:28:56 AM | He sound selfish and stupid
I have been known to refuse to allow a woman who has proven to be just a little too single minded in seeking to provide me with pleasure to touch me sexually until after I have enjoyed my favorite low cal no cal meal. I love intimate dinning more than mere words could convey.
Men are like a microwave
women are like a conventional oven
While we are always ready to go.... they require preheating  | |
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Posted: 9/23/2008 6:37:42 AM |
Men are like a microwave
women are like a conventional oven
While we are always ready to go.... they require preheating
So, I stole this from a comedian, but I think that it's still true.
Men are like bottle-rockets........ easy to ignite, but fizzle out quickly.
Women are like diesel engines.........A little harder to ignite, but can go a REALLY long time. | |
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Posted: 9/23/2008 6:41:31 AM | perhaps he doesn't find you attractive enough,or he just does not do that.lot of guys will not do it until they are sure nobody else is in there,me included,and believe me,that thought alone is disgusting.its an intimate act,and with all the possible std's in there,would you do it until your are very sure?i wouldn't. | |
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Posted: 9/28/2008 8:08:58 PM | | It really all depends on you and what your needs are. If he is not willing to please you but expects you to please him and you want your needs satisfied then you need to dump him. The relationship will not work because eventually you will get tired of not having your needs met by him you will look elsewhere! | |
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Posted: 9/28/2008 9:05:13 PM | | Dump Him.....he doesnt know what he's missing. There is no better taste then going down on a good woman... | |
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Posted: 1/3/2009 5:39:41 PM | I cannot believe that it would not be done as part of foreplay. It is a turn on for both parties if it is done right. Would never think of not doing it. If the Lady is not interested that is different. Would not expect to have her do it to me as a response.
Just love to give it to her as part of foreplay | |
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Posted: 1/3/2009 6:08:18 PM | | As others have already said, dump him! Apparently he has not yet got it that love needs to be reciprocal. | |
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Posted: 1/3/2009 7:03:30 PM | Wow..I didn't even read past your post to see what others had to say yet....Every guy I've been intimate with (casual, one nighter, or relationship) have always gone down on me FIRST. It goes like this..heavy or light make out session and he goes south, never had to coax, ask for it....thank god because a wet tongue is what makes my toes curl! I have sensed two weren't all that into it, and it bothered me greatly because I wanted them to enjoy it as much as i do, and as much as i give it back...I will say i don't offer a BJ till I'm seeing someone past a casual encounter (it just seems "cheap" when women do it right way) Maybe just my thing but whatever, you date me you get head...but guys LET IT BE KNOWN..I know there are exceptions because i work with alot of women and we talk... but most of us love to receive oral..if you don't believe me, READ up on it...75%-90% of women need some kind of clitoral stimulation to get off, and again a wet tongue that knows it's way around is the one of the greatest pleasures a woman can have!  | |
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Posted: 1/3/2009 7:23:11 PM | | Wow if I was in his position, I'd be the one asking to go down on you =X The unfortunate part is...if the guy isn't into it, it's not going to feel as amazing as it could. | |
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Posted: 1/4/2009 2:06:21 PM | | give me ur snatch baby, my greatest turn on is knowing my girl is getting her fix, the hotter she gets, the hotter i get, ive actually come myself while performing oral on a girl, | |
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Posted: 1/4/2009 2:50:53 PM | Just curious if you ever dumped him or not since this was from May?
Or where you able to actually talk to him and get some honest answers... | |
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Posted: 1/4/2009 3:03:08 PM | | I hope you don't mind taking a answer from a guy but to be honest if the guy can't reciprocate oral sex to you then I would ask him why he won't do it to you ! If you like to give him a blowjob he should love to eat you out ! This dude doesn't know what he is missing I love to give oral to a girl. If you don't like his answer then dump his ass he seems very selfish | |
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