| Just eat me already!
Posted: 1/4/2009 3:03:08 PM | | I hope you don't mind taking a answer from a guy but to be honest if the guy can't reciprocate oral sex to you then I would ask him why he won't do it to you ! If you like to give him a blowjob he should love to eat you out ! This dude doesn't know what he is missing I love to give oral to a girl. If you don't like his answer then dump his ass he seems very selfish | |
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Posted: 1/4/2009 3:09:05 PM | Just read you other post written on the same day...(how he gave you no warning the first time you gave him a bj)...I'm gonna assume your relationship went no where...
Here's the deal: Going down on my current partner for the first time. With no orgasm alert (I'm gonna cum I'm gunna cum) He just blows his load in my mouth. With NO warning so I could pull away in the nick of time. NO WARNING! I found this extremely inconsiderate and it pissed me off to the point where I dont think I will blow him again. Has this ever happened to any other ladies? Do you find it rude or is it just me? Men, have any of you done this before? why not alert the lady? | |
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Posted: 1/4/2009 4:02:15 PM | | maybe he just dont like to eat ****, and if you need that, then you should let the dude go. | |
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Posted: 1/4/2009 4:27:24 PM | | Sorry to say but he is only interested in fulfilling his own needs. When someone truly cares about someone, they want their partner to be pleased too. Sounds like he has a real hang-up about doing that. I say, NEXT, before you invest any more time. It may sound cold to say that, but think about if you stay together how it will be down the road. Resentment will build if you are the one doing all the giving. | |
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Posted: 1/4/2009 4:42:26 PM | NEXT!~!!!!!
that's bs. my only other suggestion is to try 69'ing him. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 1/4/2009 4:49:13 PM | Why don't you just ask him why he has not been "servicing your account" like you have his? Perhaps he just needs a "little guidance".  | |
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Posted: 1/4/2009 6:50:42 PM |
I'm kind of surprised at all the dump him comments. . . Not everybody has the same preferences. Let me ask you this - if the roles were reversed, you didn't like bj's - would you expect him to dump you? There are PLENTY of ways to please and be pleased. I don't see why one aspect would necessarily be a deal breaker - if everything else was good. Some people have had bad experiences (men and women) - so maybe one 'don't we all' comment is not clear enough communication. If it is that important to you, might I suggest an open conversation (over dinner maybe?) about sexual preferences. If you can't talk about it, you probably shouldn't be expecting it. . JMHO.
This is the smartest post in the lot. Seriously.
Our clits are like the heads of your Penises. They are packed with nerve endings and they are very sensitive. Its where we get the majority of our pleasure. That being said, the clit isn't stimulated during intercourse. However, the head of your penis is being stimulated greatly by intercourse. Being a girl and going without oral or clit stimulation, would be the equivalent of being in a relationship where you only got bad handjobs. Up down, up down shaft rubs with no stimulation on the head. You wanna live like that??? Didn't think so. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 1/5/2009 9:22:30 AM |
If you can't talk about it, you probably shouldn't be expecting it. . JMHO.
Obviously the guy the OP is talking about was the one "Expecting" and giving nothing in return. A guy doesn't have to be a mind reader to know a girl needs oral or at the very least some form of clit stimulation to reach orgasm. I don't know many women who get off on vaginal alone-- none actually. And the sheer unadulterated GAUL to lay back and unzip and demand-- when he's NEVER once returned the favour, is frankly, disqusting!
It doesn't need to be discussed further with him. It's not rocket science. Straight up-He's selfish and probably also has very little knowledge of the female body. Its not hard to pick up a book or read a website to inform yourself on the subject. The OP made it very clear what she needed to get off and he didn't give a F**k. Men let on that they're less intuitive and need things spelled out for them - but that's a pretty convenient cop-out if I've ever heard one. He said, "I want some oral" She replied "Don't we all". It does not get clearer than that!
So my response to the above (quote) is, If you are a selfish prick and/or have no knowledge of the female anatomy or willingness to learn, you shouldn't be expecting ANYTHING from a woman! "JMHO" | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 1/5/2009 9:33:24 AM |
Feel as off-put as you will by interpreting my words as you see fit. I didn't insinuate anything.
- Pre-pubescent kiddies - have no hair
- Women that shave it off - have no hair
- When it's shaven off now it looks pre-pubescent
If you shave, knock yourself out. No one's saying you can't. I just stated my OPINION/PREFERENCE that I'd prefer my women to look like a woman. Nothing more, nothing less.
Do you also feel that way about women with small breasts? What about short women? Or women who dress in youthful clothing? What about women who have dimples or freckles or like to style their hair in pigtails? Or have eyes , a nose and a mouth? Maybe you should find out why you're so fixated on comparing women to children by the way the way they groom their body hair? I think there could be some issues there that you're avoiding. | |
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Posted: 1/5/2009 10:34:57 AM | Perhaps I am late with my post. But DROP HIM LIKE A LAST YEAR'S COLD.
Any "MAN" that does not go down on a girl, has no right to be asking for BJ. And noot many guys convert from not eaters into eaters...lol.
Hope this helps. | |
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Posted: 1/28/2009 7:45:07 AM | Nothing wrong with what you are thats for sure but whats with him not performing as well...dump him for sure and move here lol   | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 1/28/2009 9:07:44 AM | I would find it hot if a woman said that to me literally.. in exactly those words:
"just f'n eat me already"
not that I would need the prompting, like this guy does..but sometimes verbal play can be hot.. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 1/28/2009 10:30:59 AM | Wow!!!
First time i've ever been on these forums and i come across this thread. This bloke your with is obviously very selfish and to expect it and not give it is simply not on ! You have to have a deep discussion with him and tell him your not fully satisfied.
When i make love i always like to give oral, infact i like giving even more than recieving, maybe thats because i love giving pleasure. Sex is a two way thing and from what your saying it's a one way street at the moment.
If he does'nt listen and take onboard what you say, then find someone who will fill your every need ! Exciter39 | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 1/28/2009 10:41:28 AM | I wont date a woman that wont blow me all the way.
so in my mind, you should not date a guy that wont lick you to you scream.
just my opinion....
I went so far as to get my tounge pierced so that I could make sure to get her off . | |
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