| Just eat me already!
Posted: 6/5/2008 5:44:09 AM | You've got it, Steve.....That's what it's all about.....
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 6/5/2008 6:08:12 AM | Nice lady! This is the first time I have posted to a forum subject. Giving oral sex to a lady is a priviledge and honor in my book. There should only be one, one way street.
The man giving pleasure to a lady. Is your gentleman so selfish as to think otherwise.
The ladies I have been priviledged to associate with have received oral sex and in my doing so has near satisfied my desires. a woman's anatomy has been gifted with two smiles . The one is the visible one and hortizontal. The other one, normally clothed, is vertical. If the mood is right and the desire there, both smiles should receive equal attention. | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 7:38:09 AM | find someone else, some guys dont like doing it... too messy.... just look for a guy who does like it, and let him be with someone who doesnt.
i do give but alot of the time i dont like to, too much juices . if the girl doesnt get gag wet and smells fresh ill probly do it, otherwise nah.
id have to disagree with the guys who said it was an honor and privalege to do it though it can be a joy yes, but honor? | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 9:41:48 AM | | Most likely the man probably had some bad experiences. Some women do smell pretty bad down there. | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 4:15:23 PM | Hard for me to say, I had the opposite problem, I always wanted to give but didn't mind not getting blow jobs. There is no better way I to ensure a you'll continue to have sex than to make sure she's happy.
If you're not happy, maybe you need to make sure he knows, either talking to him or giving him hints. Get the point across somehow or you won't be happy ever.
I just wish..... | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 4:47:07 PM | | If he is selfish when it comes to sex I bet he´s is selfish about everything else. Don´t let him use you. | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 9:55:51 PM | Malibusteve:
We are on the same page for 1, and for 2 I see your point.
However:
it's more about working to satisfy your partner's needs
things that I once enjoyed doing for her
My point is that you 'work' and do things 'for her'. If it's work and only for her, something may not be right - anything from a balance (50/50) to the overall match. My best friend used to say "If everyone thinks of himself, everybody is taken care of." Perhaps a bit harsh, but mostly true.
I'd say it is critical to make sure you are sexually aligned with respect to the most important things you like (or dislike).
P.S.: Your smiley is cute, but I consider the Y finger food. :-)) | |
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Posted: 6/6/2008 5:40:07 PM | | TOO ALL LADIES! I will eat any **** any time!!! HIT ME UP! ;) | |
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Posted: 6/6/2008 9:11:45 PM |
My point is that you 'work' and do things 'for her'.
"Work" was definitely a poor choice of words. Many of the "for her" things were things that I would not have done if not for her, but I managed to enjoy them anyway. The resentment came in later because I felt that my needs were ignored. In this regards, perhaps you're correct.
I'd say it is critical to make sure you are sexually aligned with respect to the most important things you like (or dislike).
Agreed.
P.S.: Your smiley is cute, but I consider the Y finger food.
OMFG! This cracked me up!
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Posted: 6/6/2008 10:38:38 PM | Wolf and MalibuSteve,
My phone number is................. | |
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Posted: 6/6/2008 10:53:55 PM |
My phone number is.................
Why do I always get the offers from too far away to act on them?
I dare you to say that to my face.  | |
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Posted: 6/6/2008 11:14:10 PM | "Hi I'm MalibuSteve!"  "Hello! I am saying this to your face!!!"
lol, ok sorry I'll stop being OT here....
OP you still there? Any response here? | |
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Posted: 6/7/2008 5:54:50 AM | Malibu steve.....
dont worry about the distance, shed be worth the trip............ hehe yummy | |
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Posted: 6/7/2008 7:55:13 AM | Hell if a GF has it all polished and shined she has to fight me off with a stick when I am going diving down there.  
That guy got some serious issues and you can make a better catch. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2008 8:01:40 AM | Ya.. thats just retarded.. If he unzipped showed and wouldnt go down on you first or at all.
somethings just wrong there.. I prefer to go down on my partner first.. so I can knock one out of the park when she comes back with a vengance afterwards :P Being a male and knowing im a pervert I know like 98.8% of the time im gonna get off and enjoy her company and her effort.. I want to make sure she has the same thing which is why I like going first.
I dunno your bf or whatever useless name you wanna call him seems like a dead beat asshat.. ditch him and find somebody you can get 10 cent mustache rides from and get 10 cents change :P at damn near any time you want.. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2008 5:21:19 PM | just echoing what others have said here, but it just can't be good, from :
The other night we were on my couch, him lying down and me sitting on the edge near his feet, and he actually unzipped his pants and ASKED me to go down on him! He said, "He wants some oral" motioning towards his member, then I replied, "Don't we all". He just zipped back up and said nothing. And just sat there watching TV.
I just can't imagine being that selfish with a lover. I LOVE the taste, smell, reactions and whole thing of doing that to a woman (provided she's healthy and hygienic of course). I think most men do.
Something is way wrong here. I know as well that a lot of women are kind of attracted to men that "treat them mean", even despite themselves sometimes ... don't mean to pry, but could that be part of it?
Anyhow, just tell him that selfish is not your thing and let him work it out himself. If he wants to. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2008 5:24:49 PM |
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
Do others as you would have them do you ... !
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Posted: 6/7/2008 5:45:23 PM | I pick up from one of OP's posts that she is reluctant to ask directly for what she wants. "Darlin if you are not willing to ask, don't blame me if you don't get what you want." It seems like your lad is more than willing to ask, in a somewhat light-hearted way, so why not pick up on it? He pointed and said, "He wants some oral" so it's simple. Pull down your pants, point and say "How about some tongue in the sandwich before the weiner goes in the bun!" If direct, serious discussion is embarassing, try light-hearted banter. If that also embarasses you, either get over it or quit complaining.
Certainly if you are very direct and explicit about what you want and he ignores it more than a few times, kick him to the curb. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2008 5:50:13 PM | | You have to tell us what you like about this guy. He whips his****out asking for oral but doesn't give you head. He sounds really romantic. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2008 6:38:02 PM | MalibuSteve said:
It's more significant that he views his sexual needs as important, and clearly doesn't value yours. If that's what you want, that's what you'll get. If you want something different, leave him and get someone who will take care of your needs too.
Amen, Brother!!!!!
OP, I agree with the posters who've encouraged you to have an open and frank conversation with your partner regarding this subject (with the TV OFF, by the way). However, I think you'd also be wise to understand and take to heart the many glimpses that some of the women on this thread have given of what it would be like to continue in LTR with someone who behaves as your current boyfriend does -- torturous.
I find it very curious the number of men, especially, who've advised that you should go to some great conversational lengths to ferret out the root of this man's aversion to giving oral, and that you should perhaps then go so far as to help him get over it by teaching him, informing him, etc. Men are always saying that they don't want a woman to try to change them. OP, if you think that you can change your boyfriend in this regard, get ready for some cold truth: he's an adult and is responsible for fixing whatever is broken inside of him. If he doesn't like to give oral, and has been as selfish as you described in your opening post, he's not worth your time. Don't bang your head against the wall. Just imagine what it would be like to be 10 years in and, again, you're having to remind him of how much you like to be pleasured, as, again, he seems to be avoiding giving you oral. If he wanted to be doing it, he'd be doing it now.
In the end, your problem is not so much about sex as it is that you're in relationship with a very, very immature and selfish guy. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2008 10:41:00 PM | | I get a crapload of flem in my throat when i go down on a girl... maybe he has a similar thing? | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 6/8/2008 3:14:55 AM | | tell him you want to give him the best blowjob ever, but want to tie him toi the bed so you can tease him out, when tied down wrap your lega around his shoulders and press your syssy into his mouth | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 6/8/2008 3:35:05 AM |
tell him you want to give him the best blowjob ever, but want to tie him toi the bed so you can tease him out, when tied down wrap your lega around his shoulders and press your syssy into his mouth
Yes, because rape is always such a turn on. | |
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