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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 6/8/2008 4:30:32 AM | | sure steve.... and you would cry out if the OP done that to you? | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 6/8/2008 5:10:03 AM |
syssy
I can't imagine that anyone would want to eat if if this is what you call it! | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 6/8/2008 5:25:49 AM | Dump the guy. Any man who wants to receive but not give, is not only being mind numbingly selfish and a bore, but is also bladdy stupid, missing out one of the greatest things a man can do for his lady in bed.
Ohhh, it's to die for...
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 6/8/2008 7:08:51 AM | "don't we all"
I'd like to pick my date up at her house she tells me i have something to show you hikes her skirt up and says how about an appetizer before dinner. yummmmmy i'd love that. geeesh how do i get her to do that without talking it over before. Your subject line is more direct than the flippant comment on the couch. Sounds like he is important to you just be direct. something like over dinner tell him you can't wait any longer for him to take you home and do whatever for you if he's reluctant one of his options could be go home alone bud. In any event it's out in the open plenty to talk about. Further more it would be his choice and not yours........... Good luck | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 6/8/2008 10:04:10 AM | | When it comes to oral sex, I think it's better to give than receive. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 6/14/2008 6:39:16 PM | | I love giving oral sex.I don't care so much about receiving but giving is something I love.I like giving oral front and back. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 6/14/2008 6:51:21 PM | I married a guy EXACTLY like that... and... well... here I am  | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 6/14/2008 7:13:41 PM |  Just eat me already??? Lets me and you get married...but I would divorce you in a week and take half your money!
OK now to the serious side. HE has a fear, a problem with oral sex and it will NEVER change unless he seeks therapy and that is about as likely as pigs with wings. One of the women said it correctly he is a selfish lover and that is it. I bet he hates sex....when he cums does he pull out and run? This is a deep fear of a lot of guys that have hang ups with sex.....they look at it as something dirty.
So many guys will never seek to learn or understand the things a woman's body can achieve. Virginal ejaculation is not a myth but something that has to be learned from others that are not so screwed up with sex and sensuality. I feel for you nothing is more fun than to feel the females body going crazy with pleasure that I helped her achieve...that should be a turn on for men but it isn't. So many guys talk a good game but never practise it. Good luck in finding someone worthy. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 6/14/2008 8:56:06 PM | just pick me, I love to give oral almost more than get it. Nothing like a smooth **** and a shaking moaning woman on my face.
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 6/14/2008 11:04:11 PM | | Yah, if it's important to you, then it's reasonable to dump him and find someone who will. You could try having a reasonable discussion of it with him first to find out what's going on. If he doesn't cooperate in the discussion and becomes more open about it, then dump him. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 6/14/2008 11:12:33 PM | Man, what a lazy guy, I ain't a huge fan of doin it myself but I'll be damned if I can expect reciprocation without throwin down for her.
I dunno, gettin her worked up for that, what a dink. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 6/14/2008 11:16:22 PM | theres a funny saying
show me a man who won't eat his wife or jack off his dog and i'll take both from him | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 6/15/2008 12:11:31 AM | "Please do not bring up the heigene(sic) thing, because that is not an issue here. I keep everything clean down there and shaved smooth." If you shave you have to be more careful about hygeine. Pubic hair acts as a barrier of protection for women. It does serve a purpose. Those little guys love a moist warm area to do their thing. If they are down there you will smell.
I know you told us it wasn't an issue but you should not have any smell at all. That is a healthy vagina. If you do get it checked out. You are asking someone to take their nose and smother it onto you.
Lollipops - I have friend who is a woman. She eats lollipops which changes the flavor below. I suppose it's like a guy who eats straberries and such. Worth a try.
As for the guy if you do not smell (nothing to fix) and you want the oral sex, leave him if it means that much to you. Definitely stop giving him oral. Fair is fair. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 6/15/2008 5:38:14 AM | | The issue here is not his reluctance to give oral, but more your inability to ASK for it.If you want a healthy sex life you must be able to communicte with your partner.Tell him what you want. Discuss your needs. Be an adult about your sexuality.If you WANT oral-TELL him. Dont beat around the bush. If he then refuses, then you know where you stand on the issue. Then its decision time. "Dont we all", can be taken in various contexts. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 6/15/2008 5:45:56 AM | | There could be another issue at steak here. Perhaps he has had a bad experience in the past where he was told he was no good at it... he could just be so inexperienced that the idea of trying and failing to please you scares him. I think you should give him the opportunity to have a frank discussion.... perhaps offering to coach him in how to please you. If that doesn't work then he is as selfish as he seems and should be dumped accoringly.... there are a lot of guys out there who love giving their woman oral! | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 6/15/2008 7:46:41 AM | Wow, another thread bashing some poor dolt of a guy for not being a mind reader.
When will the horror end?
And when will the t-shirts with the thread title on them be ready? | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 6/15/2008 7:58:24 AM | LOL I've gone down on some really sweet tasting vag's before. Vag's that tasted like honey, and some really shady, mushy tasting, hairy ones before.
If I were the OP I'd show this guy that she's been dating THIS very thread. Then have a frank discussion about it. Fair is fair let him know.
Now do I think this is a reason for dumping a guy, eh, not really. Not unless he takes this attitude towards the entire relationship.
lol My fault's in relationships have been me a giving lover and the most unselfish lover some of my ex's have ever had, but I was the opposite otherwise. These are things that can be talked about and discussed. You don't need to just auto-dump his ass like you're deleting him off of your yahoo messenger. Sheesh. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 6/15/2008 8:28:10 AM | I would never waste my time with a guy who didn't FULLY enjoy going down on me as much as I love giving them oral. Why even bother with them when there are so many men who love it?
These are the guys we spent time with when we were in our early 20's- once women know more about sex they are much less willing to put up with selfish, scared or timid, unsatisfying and incompatible partners.
I would venture to say that guys who don't like it (and whine about taste, 'too messy' lol) just don't have as much testosterone, and I like my men full of it  | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 6/15/2008 8:32:44 AM | Life- what in god's name are you talking about? A mind reader??
You think the guy has never heard of the fact that sometimes- men go down on women in the year 2008? It just never occurred to him- as he is basically demanding it from her? He had no idea that women have sexual desires?
As others have said, he knew EXACTLY what she meant when she said, 'don't we all'.
For whatever reason, the guy does not want to do it, and does not care about pleasing the OP. It really doesn't matter why, he just needs to be kicked to the curb. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 6/15/2008 8:33:22 AM |
Wow, another thread bashing some poor dolt of a guy for not being a mind reader.
When will the horror end
life of leisure....After receiving bj's for almost three months (I'm assuming here), does one have to be a mind reader to think that the other person might enjoy some oral too after all of that time? If you really think so, you might be just as selfish of a lover as the OP's b/f. I like the idea of the t-shirt though
Seems like the OP has left the building but according to her profile, she may have switched teams or found a way to keep the man and have her oral too. Wait...did anyone advise her to keep the man and find a woman? If so, we have a winner!
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 6/16/2008 3:53:43 AM | Wait...did anyone advise her to keep the man and find a woman? If so, we have a winner!
Quoted for truth as only women know what women like.
Seriously though if the OP was not conveying her feelings openly with her man how is he supposed to know,but then again yes some guys are clueless and selfish.  | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 6/17/2008 12:55:27 PM | | I dated a guy for six months who wouldn't do it. At first I thought he was just shy or something so I let it go. After about three months (and me giving him dozens of blowjobs) I mustered up the courage to ask why he doesn't go down on me and he said "because it is so easy to get you off with a toy ... why should I work so hard?" I eventually broke up with him for other reasons, but he was an incredibly selfish person overall and refusing to give was just one of the many many symptoms. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 6/17/2008 1:36:26 PM | | It still maybe a hygiene issue.The sence of small for men,are alot different than women..You may think its not a hygieane problem..Try a bath,and dushing.He also may not like to do it..Stop going down on him,then see if he stays around..If he leaves,then hes just playing with you.. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 6/17/2008 1:42:27 PM | | some guys live in the dark ages ask him....be honest | |
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