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Posted: 7/1/2008 7:10:58 AM | Most people who are selfish like that,are not going to change.
Time to move on. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 7/1/2008 7:42:57 AM | | If you can't discuss this with him, then its' your loss and you may never know why. Communication is everything. | |
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| Just eat me already!
Posted: 7/1/2008 10:38:36 AM | The golden rule on oral.
do unto me as i do unto you.
if you can't reciprocate, relocate... | |
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Posted: 7/2/2008 4:36:31 PM | How can you cook a steak without marinating it????????
How can you expect it from her if you wont do it in return or first for that matter..... sounds kinda boring to me specially if she takes the time to be sweet and shaved!!!!!1 | |
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Posted: 7/2/2008 6:52:50 PM | | could be he knows where his thang has been? could be he doesn't like the taste? could be he just don't know how? DUMP HIM. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2008 7:22:54 PM | I'm going to run the risk of commiting dating suicide here but I'm stupid like that.
Some girls I could live between their legs, others I just dread the thought of it. I once had a girlfriend ask me why I never went down, I couldn't answer her just like I don't think I can post it in the forums. Oral sex is great with the right person, but it's not a deal breaker for me. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2008 7:37:20 PM | Well hes def. got some issues....I dive in full bore...never have had any problems...its ur call but most things dont change...love or no love...good luck girl! | |
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Posted: 7/2/2008 8:23:28 PM | I cannot believe I ate the....errr...read the entire 9 pages of this...especially since it pretty much consisted of, "dump him," "I love to eat pvssy," and "talk to him."
What I found most interesting...out of nine pages, only 3...ok, 3 1/2...lol...men admitted to not liking to perform oral sex on a chica!
I actually get a kick out of how many men talk about it like it is a sport to them! ;)
All I can say is...I am so not a carpet muncher myself, but there is absolutely nothing sexier than kissing a man after he has been there...and tasting yourself on his lips and...other things. ;) If we girls can enjoy ourselves...I cannot think of how a man could not?! So my advice to the OP (if she is still here!?) is to taste yourself!! Seriously! Maybe you are clean...maybe you smell fine...but maybe the taste isn't so great? But then again, how would he know if he hasn't been there?!
Argh...who knows?! | |
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Posted: 7/2/2008 10:14:10 PM | Maybe he just doesnt like doing that-------just as all women are not into giving head/swallowing,
i would not enjoy a man doing oral on me if he was doing it for any reason than he wanted 2 , if he was doing it out of "obligation, or in hopes of recieving head for himself", i wouldnt even enjoy it. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2008 2:09:14 AM | I am in the same situation - my SO flat out refuses to give oral. He's not too pushed about recieving it either. Don't get me wrong, he does like getting it, and he really enjoys it, but when I ask him if he'll return the favor, the answer is always no.
When I questioned him, his answer was that he had tried it once and didn't like the smell or taste of it. The only thing I can come up with is that perhaps that particular girl wasn't very hygienic, and it put him off from the word go.
To be honest, at the start it was a problem...and a major one as I really like oral sex, both giving and receiving. But now....well....there are a thousand pleasures of the flesh to whine about the one you're not getting. I love my boyfriend...a hell of a lot more than I love oral sex  | |
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Posted: 7/3/2008 6:55:26 AM | And ^^that is great for YOU...but if I remember correctly, the OP had something like 3 months invested with this ant-snatch muncher. I know a lot of us put a lot of weight into intimacy and mutual pleasure with a partner....this would most definitely bother me, but I would also be asking him outright! COMMUNICATE!
OP...just grab a toy one night...start giving dude a show...let him really get an eyeful of how to play with that puss...and when he is all worked up, give him that come hither indication with your index finger that he can now join you...then direct him to where he needs to be...maybe how he needs to be doing it. Maybe he honestly just does not know?! I have had several women friends ask me to show them how to give blow jobs! | |
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Posted: 7/3/2008 7:15:01 AM | Have you tried putting the condiment bar on the bedside table? honey, whipped cream in a spray can, chocolate sauce? Or, when he makes a bthroom trip, just spray an arrow pointing down on your stomach with whipped cream!!   | |
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Posted: 7/3/2008 8:14:42 AM | Maybe he just doesnt like doing that-------just as all women are not into giving head/swallowing,
i would not enjoy a man doing oral on me if he was doing it for any reason than he wanted 2 , if he was doing it out of "obligation, or in hopes of recieving head for himself", i wouldnt even enjoy it.
I agree. I would rather not receive oral sex than have a man do it when he doesn't enjoy it. In that case, the oral sex probably wouldn't be that good for either person. Don't get me wrong. I have no problem receiving oral sex, but I could also go without it.I like giving oral sex better than receiving it.
When I questioned him, his answer was that he had tried it once and didn't like the smell or taste of it. The only thing I can come up with is that perhaps that particular girl wasn't very hygienic, and it put him off from the word go.
I also agree with this. Some men had a bad experience. One of my ex-boyfriends nearly threw up because some woman smelled really bad down there. Other men might be uncomfortable doing it because they haven't done it that often. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2008 8:23:56 AM | Think it's time to move on!!
Whats the saying....More  in the sea!!! | |
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Posted: 7/3/2008 8:40:00 AM | Since you're hiding your 'Body-Type' [and your photo].. many Assumptions can be made...
If you're Adamant about it . . Tell HIM...Not Us..!! | |
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Posted: 7/3/2008 10:45:13 AM | | Next time give him head, thent ell him youd love it if he repayed the favor. if he says no kick him out. tell him to get the hell out with his selfish ass. your a women and if he dont wanna make u cum, somone else sure as hell will | |
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Posted: 7/3/2008 11:24:03 AM | Get rid of the guy! You think you might love him? Then get out now. This guy is selfish and egotistical. Any guy who sits there and just unzips and asks for a blow job while he's watching tv should be castrated!
I'm a guy and would never think of acting that way unless I were in a relationship where the woman knew I was fooling around. Sex- all aspects of it- should be fun and enjoyed and not made to seem obligatory.
Find someone a bit more mature. And no, I'm not talking 60 years old. But a guy who will treat you the way you want and give you what you want and need! | |
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Posted: 7/3/2008 11:48:47 AM | We all just want to feel loved and apprecieated, im shure weve all been in this simular sition at least one time in our lives its not about the oral receprecation we just want to know the person we have given our hearts to loves us in a way that we can feel their desire to please us! desire rules passion without it you have none! I know its hard but if your partner dosent have extreem desire for you dont settle or you wlll live a lifetime of emptyness! When a man loves a woman and desires her(exe me) he will please here many times a day just becouse he enjoyes giving the one he loves pleasure more than anything els on his mind!
Jett
P.S the oposit of this is the person gets too much and becomes complaicent, ballance is important. | |
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Posted: 7/4/2008 8:50:04 AM | | there yah go.... Some love it, some dont. if you do and cant believe you can live without it.... LIVE WITHOUT HIM... we need a pic at least lmao | |
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Posted: 7/4/2008 8:53:16 AM | | u may be shaved n fresh n clean ..... most guys do the finger test , stimulate u manually ,, then have a quick whiff of ur juices on his fingers ,,, if he did that and found an unpleasant smell he will never go down on u ! | |
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Posted: 7/4/2008 9:08:53 AM | | Im with one of your other repondies,if it were "I" wouldnt HESITATE i LOVE too EAT | |
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Posted: 7/4/2008 9:24:26 AM | | as for me if the thing was air conditioned id live down there | |
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Posted: 7/4/2008 9:34:17 AM | If this guy is smart enough to tie his own shoes then he understands the fact that women like to recieve as much as any man: dump his lazy ass! I agree with the overwhelming consensus in that there are far too many in the sea to get hung up on the selfish ones.
My ex wife was one that liked to recieve and never give....I even asked her to recipricate and she flat out said she doesn't do that...After that I stopped doing that.....That's not the reason we split (there were many issues) but it didn't help any...If you ask me that's just plain selfish. There was a time when I was like that, but these days I follow the motto : do unto others as you'd have done to you...As far as the taste goes....Just grin and bear it; if dudes think they taste good they're sadly mistaken. Oral is all about pleasure; if it's a pleasure you like to recieve then it's a pleasure you should give (69 the one you love!). Piece to all!  | |
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